GUYS, Can you physically tell during sex when a girl has had sex with a lot of guys?

[Anonymous]

Like can you tell from her vagina? Is it nasty? Loose? please explain...

[Anonymous]

there was this girl I liked for along time and I took her on dates we dated awhile I wasn't gonna rush anything we played around here and there but no sex then oneday she suprised me with a picture of her vagina to my phone I must say up to that point I had never saw a vagina look so loose in my life ...it wasn't because the lips were kinda big or anything I know that has nothing do to with tightness it looked rough and ugly down there ..i didn't say anything to her about it cause I didn't wanna be mean .. but it was a huge turnoff to me I'm just glad I knew what I was getting into before I went to that next level and yes she had been with many guys... as far as nasty I kinda don't know what you mean unless you talking bout looking nasty or tasting nasty ...if it looks bad I sure ain't gonna lick it . anyways there's my story on it for you..when you can look at one and tell its huge that's not good if that's helpful at all..

[Asker]

I meant nasty like feeling nasty or looking nasty. Wow...lol sorry but I couldn't help but chuckle because she was trying to be so sexy and turn you on and it did the exact opposite! that's trashy!

[Opinion Owner]

exactly..so are you worried yours might be too loose?

[Asker]

LOL! no, I'm a virgin hehe I was just asking because my guy friends (who don't know I'm a virgin...ugh because last time I told some "male friends" they tried to get in my pants :/ anyway...) who often seem to forget that I'm a girl and have graphic convos in front of me were talking about loose vaginas and what not and I was just curious

[Anonymous]

it is loose even if its small when not arouse it stretches out a lot faster during sex and that's no good but this only tells you she had a lot of sex not how many men she has been with and that's not so good either

[Asker]

hmm that's interesting. I know some girls who have slept with over 20 guys, but they'll lie and say it's only been like five because they're embarassed and they know it would make them look bad if they were completely honest.

[Opinion Owner]

do they or will they ever come clean about that to their bfs

[Asker]

some may come clean, but I know a lot of girls who lie because they know it looks bad for them to openly say they've spread their legs for so many guys. They realize that for some guys, that's a huge turn off so they lie about it.

[Opinion Owner]

thats wrong on so many levels but how long have they been with their bfs do they even fell guilty about lying

[Asker]

I don't know. I'm not that type of girl so I can't say for sure. Some might, but some would rather be selfish and lie and feel a little guilt then have him know the complete truth and feel a little nasty and possibly whorish. Just being honest here...I have some promiscuous friends.

[Meg2011]

No they cannot tell.

My friend fooled 3 guys with virginity story. In fact she had been with umm, lets just downplay the number, 7.

But when it comes to my husband, I was virgin indeed, but he hadn't had the slightest idea.

Morons.

[dudeman]

she didn't full them they just had not point of reference probably

[saltycheeks]

No they can't tell.

[Asker]

lol obviously they can tell. look at the answers from the guys

[saltycheeks]

maybe the girl was just made that way? unless a girl tells you how many people she was with, you cannot tell the gynecologist can't even tell so I don't know what you're trying to prove to me lol

[dudeman]

you can tell if she's had a lot of sex or not

[dudeman]

ive been with women who are newer to sex and women that have been having sex for years and you can most definitely tell the difference

[saltycheeks]

The question was can you tell if a girl has had sex with a lot of guys. The answer is: NO YOU CANNOT. I never said you couldn't tell if she was having a lot of sex so I don't understand why people are replying to me trying to prove something to me or thumbing me down.

[Asker]

lol well YOU may believe they can't tell but some guys here obviously can.

[Asker]

No offense but I don't think you have a penis and you know for yourself based on personal experience if you can tell what it's like to stick your penis in a girl's vagina and tell if it's tight or loose so I trust their judgment more

[saltycheeks]

omg do you not know your own question? And I haven't disagreed with anyone here either... the key words are "WITH A LOT OF GUYS". All the guys are saying they can tell if a girl has been having a lot of sex. they wouldn't be able to tell if the girl is doing it with 200 people or 1. That is my point. Now that I've broken it down do you understand?

[Asker]

Bitch obviously I understand my own question. Do you not comprehend what people are trying to tell you?! Why the fuq are you even arguing with me when I've made it clear that I don't give a fuq what you say. I disagree with your dumb ass. So let the sh*t go.

[saltycheeks]

you "don't give a fuq" and you still keep replying?...And I'm not even arguing but clearly, you're too stupid to understand that even after I've broken it down. yeah I comprehend that guys are saying they can tell when a girl is having a lot of sex. (And once again because you don't understand-I NEVER DISAGREED WITH THEM) So you're telling me you're disagreeing with me even though the guys are saying the same thing? smart smart smart smart smart keep replying since you "don't give a fuq" genius

[Asker]

I'm not stupid lol. I don't give a fuq what you say. I keep coming back because I was thinking maybe I got a comment that isn't useless...but no it's always you lol with your useless, worthless commentary. Best of luck :)

[saltycheeks]

lol now you're just trolling stay stupid :)

[Asker]

I'm not trolling. you're the one who keeps coming back to my question to argue about something pointless and you call me stupid!? lol wow. shame on your mom. she failed you at looks and smarts haha

[saltycheeks]

lol yes YOU ARE STUPID. & My mom failed at nothing you mentioned. I'm in university and I don't care if you think I'm unattractive- I'm not into girls and guys like the way I look so stay mad :) as I said and what you're too stupid to realize- I haven't disagreed with anyone here dumbass. You come in telling me I'm wrong when the I said the same thing as everyone else. And don't talk to me about coming back here because you're the one who said you didn't "give a fuq" about what I had to say lol

[Asker]

I'm not stupid just because you say I am. I don't know why you think that makes me upset. I'm on the Dean's List and at the top of most of my classes so why would I care that some stranger who has never even met me calls me stupid? lol! you don't even know me! So what I disagreed with you and said you were wrong! Why is it so difficult for you to get over it and move past the sh*t!? Seriously! it's not that big of a deal for you to keep coming back here and keep a pointless argument going!

[Asker]

At this point, you're just arguing with me about me being stupid lol For someone who's at a university, you sure do act like a teenager trying so hard to get the last word. Here. I'll just give it to you if it will shut you up once and for all!

[saltycheeks]

1) You are stupid because you don't realize you agree with the guys in here but not me when we have the same point. I'm not butthurt about you trying to say you disagree with me...because you don't you dumbass. I agree with the guys and you agree with the guys How the hell do you disagree with me? Makes no damn sense 2) I don't know you obviously but based off of point 1...you are stupid.

[saltycheeks]

3) I have a point coming back here. Initially it was to help you, then it was to let you know you're an idiot and to respond back to your insults and defend myself. You are the one who has called this pointless numerous times yet you come back again and again I have a reason to be here. If you don’t see one and if you “don’t give a fuq” about what I’m saying what the hell are you still doing here?

[saltycheeks]

Do you know what pointless, not a big deal and not caring mean? Cause you keep saying it when its clear that you in fact see a point in coming back and you do care 4) As long as you keep trying to insult me, I’m coming back to defend myself. So if defending yourself is something you associate with being a teenager smh. I can’t say I’ve been the most mature person during this but I never claimed to be.

[saltycheeks]

I don’t even know what the hell your point is trying to bring up me being university and my maturity level because you think I’m being immature. That has no bearing on anything. No one’s being denied into university because they aren’t mature 24/7 5) & just because I know you’re a little slow I’ll say it again. Its not the mere fact you disagree with me that made me comment. It’s the fact that you agree with the guys, who I have agreed with, yet you say I’m wrong. WTF IS YOUR LOGIC EVEN?

[saltycheeks]

Do everyone including yourself a favor and never try to argue with someone again because you’re a damn fool & let's see if you actually don't reply this time lmao

[Asker]

I'm not reading all of your s h I t talking lol I know I'm not stupid. YOU are the one who looks stupid arguing with me for no reason. Unlike you, I'm not going to waste anymore valuable seconds of my life arguing with some stranger over nothing. It does feel good to see you get so upset that you make a concious effort to come back here and continue to comment and argue lol I don't even have to make you look like the smaller person. You do that all so good on your own :)

[saltycheeks]

why the hell would I be mad that you're stupid? I knew you would be back ha ha so pathetic. & you're not gonna waste any more time? LOL OK then. You said that last time and that its pointless but you still came back! lol please. & you probably read my replies & know its the truth but had nothing to retort with. You're such an idiot lol the smaller person? Because you weren't the one who started this argument in the first place, let alone started the insults...Man, you are dense.

[Asker]

Just because I changed my mind about wasting time on your lame ass doesn't make me stupid. I came back because it shows me that I have a new answer or comment and it's always you arguing for no reason. So someone who comes back to a question to argue is pathetic? Including yourself? :) lol It doesn't bother me when you call me stupid. It doesn't matter how much you call me stupid, tell that to the Dean at my University :)

[Asker]

You're the one who got all defensive just because I disagreed with you, then started to argue with me. Look. There is no real, solid reason for us to be going back and forth. I don't know what your problem is. Maybe you're a bitter girl with a loose, stretched, nasty p**** and this question makes you feel bad about yourself. I don't know...I don't care lol I don't know why you act like you should be so proud of yourself coming back to this question over an argument that is over just to keep talking...for what?

[Asker]

No, I really didn't read your ridiculously long, waste of time, waste of space, waste of thought five comment post lol Why do you keep coming back here and trying to keep this going when there's not even an argument to win? Just a matter of disagreement?

[saltycheeks]

the thing is there is no disagreement but you don't get it. You never will. & what happened to letting me have the last word? as I said in my post- I come back to defend myself smh...you don't cease to amaze me. Its kinda sad at this point... man I would love to know your real account name

[Asker]

Defend yourself from what!? LOL! YOU are the one calling me stupid like some 10 year old bratty kid who won't get over a petty fight! lol man would I love to see you act like this in the adult world and realize what an embarassment you're being to yourself!

[saltycheeks]

are you retarded? YOU started hurling insults first and that's the reason I came back. Like I said I'm over the initial fight cause the conclusion I've come to is you're an idiot but what I don't understand is how you've called this pointless & petty, talk about my maturity level & yet- YOU'RE STILL HERE! take your own advice. The only one who should be embarrassed is you. You keep replying to let it go, you don't care & you even said you would give me last word BUT HERE YOU ARE REPLYING AGAIN

[Asker]

OMG GET OVER IT. I'm sure you'll get "The most sensitive, ridiculously touchy, whiny female" award! It's simple. Idgaf about you or how you feel. You need to get over it. the argument happened over a week ago why the hell are you still whining about it like a little bitch? get thicker skin.

[saltycheeks]

lol stating the facts is whining now? & I have very thick skin. Again I'm amazed at how stupid you are if you think some ridiculously idiotic anonymous person's comments are actually genuinely making me upset. I haven't taken 1 comment you said to heart because I think you're a dumbass anyway lastly, you're also still here stupid. Why are you still replying if you don't care about what I think? (any chance you're gonna answer that one?) and lol YOU need to get over telling me to get over it

[Asker]

I said I don't care about you as an individual because your existance means nothing at all to me :) You existing does not effect me in any shape, way or form. So no, I do not give a f*** about you :) I'm replying because I can. lol It's not that I care about you oh so much and that's why I'm replying lmao get real! Obviously if you have thick skin, then you wouldn't get so upset and argue for days with a stranger because you feel they insulted you! :D You're so mad for such minute reasoning :)

[Asker]

If you're not genuinely upset then go do something productive with yourself and stop trying to keep an argument up lol F***your mom for breeding something like you :) Best of luck with yourself. Bye bitch. Have fun getting pissy and whining over a petty argument like a bratty 12 year old girl :D

[saltycheeks]

lol you mad...& I'm the pissy one? lmaoooooo Seriously, google what "not caring" means. Everything you say about me still being here applies to you too dumbass. If you did not care you would be over this. You blatantly said you didn't care about what I had to say so lol @ you trying to twist your own words and spin it like you don't care about me as an individual when that's not what you were talking about. On that note, I never expected you to care about me, just like I don't care about you lol

[saltycheeks]

Again, I have thick skin & I’m not upset. Its funny at this point to continue to prove you wrong & show how stupid you actually are. And oooh you’re replying cause you can? Cool, you have no purpose to be here & I’m the one who needs to be more productive? LOL & Lastly, your insults are weak. Speaking of 12 year old brats- the mom comments? Pathetic I think its been a decade since I’ve failed so badly at an argument where I’ve had to resort to one of those. I’m sure you’ll have a real successful

[saltycheeks]

life with your level of intelligence and quick with :) Let's see if you're serious about not commenting again haha

[Asker]

You must have mistaken me for someone who gives a sh*t :)

[saltycheeks]

LOL seriously that's your comeback? How many times are you gonna say bye and that you're done and then come back? No mistake on my part :)

[Asker]

you're a loser. your mom's p**** would have been put to better use if she was selling it instead of creating you :)

[saltycheeks]

I thought you were finished? and you want to talk about my maturity level?

[Asker]

It just seemed like you really needed to hear it :)

[saltycheeks]

haha k

[Anonymous]

Can we tell physically? Yes and no. We can tell if a girl has had sex with a lot of guys recently - the vagina is loose and baggy. If it's been a while, lets say a girl had lots of dudes 5 years ago, but then stopped, then no. The vagina will probably have restored itself by this point.

Is a loose vagina a turn off? Yes. It's just about the biggest turn off there is.

[Asker]

lmao! it's the biggest turn off? come on! that can't be true! hehe thank you for the explanation. this is all so interesting...

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry, let me clarify. It's the biggest turn-off that I will find out about just before or during sex. Physical ugliness - I see that before I even consider having sex. Terrible personality - I'll find out if her personality sucks at least a couple hours before having sex with her (like a random hookup at a party), and more likely days/weeks/months. Loose vag? I only find out when she gets naked.

[dudeman]

restores its self to a point it will never be pre sex tight again that sh*t sailed

[Opinion Owner]

I never said it restores itself to virginal status. It does however restore itself to the point where you can't tell whether it's just been a couple of dudes, or a lot.

[Thiezz]

> restores its self to a point it will never be pre sex tight again that sh*t sailed That's a feature, not a bug :p

[dudeman]

you can't tell if its a lot of dudes or just one dude a lot of times

[Opinion Owner]

You can tell 5 years after the fact?

[dudeman]

ive never been with a girl that hasn't be sexually active for 5 years but I think the stud slut double standard would go away if guys d***s got smaller the more times they had sex then it would be even I guess it sucks being a girl in this aspect