Guys, Cunnillingus...Your REAL thoughts

Guys do you really like going down on a girl? Or do you just do it for her pleasure? Just tell her you like it? Or put another way, if a girl didn't care either way would you still want to go down on her? I feel very nervous when a guy goes down on me. I can't help but wonder what he is thinking. If he is enjoying it or not. And that keeps me from enjoying it. My new boyfriend an I were talking about sex and he said he really enjoys going down on a girl and I have something to look forward to. It made me really really nervous :S
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  • For this married guy...when you say you love, honor, and cherish till death do you part with your life's soulmate...its means that you will also worship her body, soul and mind.

    I love the response and reactions of my darling wife when I perform cunnilingus...when she orgasms maybe 3+ times...I feel that as a husband I have offered a full measure of my love and devotion...Of course...I will amply rewarded in good time by adoring wife also in full measure!:)

    • So you do it for her pleasure? I mean that isn't a bad thing, it is adorable actually how you speak about your wife. But if she didn't care, you wouldn't do it?

    • Yes...I would still do it...For the simple reason that "gets off" the best through oral stimulation... Plus...there is a saying that I heard as young man..."A man is not a true man unless he has kissed the lips that do not speak"...A good loving husband should always adhere to this advice..for it speaks volumes of the solemn duties of being good lover...the wife's pleasure is paramount and first!

  • I ~love~ going down on my girlfriend. I can't even tell you. I love her scent, I love her taste, I love the way she moves, acting and reacting to my actions, I love the sounds she makes. I love the way she grips my hair while she gets off. I love ~everything~ about it.

    And even if she didn't care one way or the other, I'd still want to do it.

    • Honestly, I think I enjoy it ~almost~ as much as intercourse.

    • Do you think you're a rare exception. Or that mot guys feel that way? Have you ever not enjoyed it?

    • No, I'm not a rare exception, I'm the rule. The rare exception would be the guy who says "Oh, god, I can't stand going down on a woman". In any case that I've met a guy who was like that, it's because the chick didn't bother taking care of herself. Showering regularly and just before, If you know there's going to be some oral action going on, will take care of that problem completely.

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  • Like anything else different strokes for different folks! Some of the guys I have been with have been very aggressive giving me oral and you can tell they are really enjoying themselves, would stay their for hours if I didn't stop them, where other guys go down there don't do as much, are in a hurry to get on to the next phase etc. Just depends on the guy

  • i think it depends on the guy. I also think that he is more likely to want to please you if he really cares about you.

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  • I love going down on a girl too. Obviously we don't get any physical pleasure out of it. The pleasure comes from knowing you're getting off. I love watching my girl squirm and her eyes roll back in ecstasy.

  • I'm jealous ahahah

  • So your boyfriend likes doing it and he's excited to show you? And that makes you nervous? Lol just enjoy the ride. And yea. I personally love it as well. I mean, she has to be reasonably clean, but girls say the same thing about going down on a guy. Its so hot to hear you girls moan and squeeze your t*ts in pleasure, and grab our head and push down.

    I am a black belt in cunnlingus too.

  • Why nervous?

    And yeah, a lot of guys like it. But I guess if she was indifferent to it, it would take a lot of the pleasure out of if for me... because what I really want to do is please her.

    • Because I worry he doesn't really like it and is just doing it to pleasure me. Putting himself through something he doesn't enjoy. I never expect people to do things for me. I want them to do it for their own pleasure. And then you hear stories about guys finding it nasty. Too wet. Too smelly. Etc. And you're exposing your most intimate part. Right to all his senses lol. I am nervous to get judged. Badly.

    • oh, the taste and smell is an incredible turn on... and wet is wonderful. Please don't be nervous about that. Some guys don't like it, just like some girls don't like blowjobs. But if he is talking about it, he obviously likes the idea, and will enjoy it just as much as he hopes you will, too... Doesn't the idea turn you on at all?

    • Oh no it definitely does. And don't get me wrong I really like the way it feels. If I wasn't nervous, and blocking myself mentally, it would definitely get me off. But I suppose my only experience (I have only had one boyfriend before) was that the guy doesn't really like it. I always had the impression he felt he had to do it. Just because I would give him a blow job. And I find that kind of insulting and then rather not have one at all. :S

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  • I'll voraciously eat a womens cat, I'm not going to do the same for her @$$hole.

  • Giving oral is one of my all time favorite sexual activities..I love every aspect of it and would not be happy without it...(:

  • YEA I LOVE IT. used to say it was nasty till I tried it and couldn't get enough. I'm not sure what it was. its so sexual and I think it was the reaction she had that just made me want to keep doin it. I no it sounds weird because its not like the guy can feel it, but I just enjoy it. why b nervous, just think for once that he don't just wanna f*** you so he can nut and b done, he actually wants to make an attempt to pleasure u.

    • I know. And I realize and appreciate that he wants to pleasure me. And that he isn't an ass who only cares about his own pleasure. But I just worry he will judge. And it makes me nervous. I kind of want to read his mind while he is down there. And I think my ex never enjoyed it, because he rarely went down on me. But maybe that was because of my reaction. Because I was nervous. I mean it still feels god. But I can't orgasm. I am too worried. Not in the right state of mind

    • just relax. it may b that your so nervous is why you haven't had an orgasm. if he is willing to do this then he has nothing to judge, and chances are ifu don't have an orgasm then this will just make him want to go harder at it. just calm down, clear your mind and let him take over and explore. if he is doing it, chances are he enjoys it to, so don't focus on what he is thinking. just let yourself enjoy it, and the feeling run through your body

    • I mean that is the other thing. I am worried he will expect me to orgasm the first time he goes down on me. But I don't think I will. I first need to deal with my own nervousness. But thank you for making me feel a little better :)

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  • it's amazing and I love doing down on my wife. it may be at sometimes better than kissing !. The fact is that you are licking the very special spot of her body that me and no body else can reach is fantastic. And of course she got waves of pleasure. Pleasuring her and hearing her moaning like no other action can do is really good.

    • I love the comparison to kissing. Somehow never saw it that way. But it does change the picture a little.

  • I love doing it. The smell and taste turn me on and I get really hard in no time at all doing it. I wouldn't be happy being with a girl who didn't like to receive oral.

  • Love it. Yes I'd still want to go down on her because I believe I could change her mind. Just relax, guys who do it tend to love it so don't worry about him. If it doesn't feel good to you just be honest with him.

  • i Love eatting a girl out. Havnt tasted a bad p****. and its a huge turn on when she stradles my face and I eat her to orgasm! just love it!

  • I haven't done anything sexual yet.. but damn, that's my fantasy to do that :o

  • I love cunnilingus. I like soft, moist lips and fragrance. Many girls prefer to have their clitoris stimulated by tongue. To the majority of girls leads to orgasm. After that penetration is more beautiful. Guys excite female arousal and orgasm. There's nothing wrong with cunnilingus. Relax and Enjoy.

  • The way I see it, it's not something you do if you don't enjoy doing it. I can't really speak for all the guys out there, but I really enjoy going down on a woman. Her scent and her taste are really arousing to me and I know other guys who feel the same way.

    But the best part of having my mouth and tongue all over her vagina is seeing how much pleasure she gets from it. The way she looses control of he body when I suck on her clitoris, the way she moans, grabs my hair and pushes me down there, the way her stomach trembles.

    It's just amazing feeling to be in control of giving her all that pleasure.

    And to give you a peace of mind - if a guy did not think you were "lickable/eatable" , he probably would not be dating you in a first place