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Guys Cussing During Sex: Thoughts?

I'm not a guy who cusses very much while in public, or even in private. If anything, I'm just a really chill guy that doesn't get mad easily. When I make love to a girl though, sometimes when I'm really enjoying myself I drop a really loud F-bomb or two, call the girl names like slut or whore, etc. This behavior certainly doesn't match the way I act when other people are around. So a couple of questions actually... 1. Does this surprise/bother you/turn you on? 2. What kind of girl are you in public? Do you cuss much there or not? What's your overall personality like? 3. Do you cuss at all in the bedroom, or not yourself?
I'm a girl who doesn't cuss much/at all but likes it when my guy does in bed, but not in public.
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I'm a girl who does cuss a lot but likes it when my guy does in bed, but not in public.
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  • I think I just answered a question about this... :P

    1. as long as I understand how he views women and what his views are on things, I wouldn't have a problem with name calling. I get really turned on by dirty talking. I don't care about saying the f word. That's not really a concern for me. I'm not Marsha Brady.

    2. I have a potty mouth, I curse like a sailor, if that's what you're asking. lol I say a lot of vulgar things but not necessarily to everyone. Mostly it comes out around my friends, I know theyre comfortable with it and they know me. If I'm around people I don't know well, or in certain situations where its obviously inappropriate, then I won't say anything remotely vulgar. Its not necessary, and it probably naturally only comes out around people close to me or people I know are comfortable with it. People have their own prejudices though and their ideas of what "certain types of girls" are like. usually I get boxed into the "good girl" category and it can be surprising for some people to learn how nasty my mouth really is. They get over it though.

    3. Yes, yes I do. Not always, depends on what's happening and how I feel. I drop the F bomb a lot, and I use a lot of other words. I love being called all kinds of names, slut, whore, bitch, etc. I've called myself names too lol I'm not bothered by any of it.

    And for the record, I'm a very feminist, pro-sex person. That doesn't keep me from liking dirty talk. The fact that I understand women and sexuality the way I do allows me to enjoy that. I don't feel anything negative when my boyfriend calls me a slut or something during sex. I know where he stands on this, and I know where I stand. slut shaming is not part of who we are as individuals, so that word just becomes one of the many that we can have fun with because the shameful connotation with real life consequences behind it is gone. However, not all women think this way. Some do suffer from having the impact of slut shaming on them and struggle with that emotionally, or they have their own perceptions of how different they are from "those types of women," and I think you should be sensitive to that. Don't say things that cause negative feelings and emotions in your partner. Not everyone will be comfortable with the same words or sex acts and you have to be okay with that or find another partner who is more sexually compatible. good luck. ^__^

    • Jeez...better said than I could. Nice.

    • thanks :)

  • Doesn't bother me at all. It's more of a turn-on than a turn-off.

    I do swear a lot in general, but manners are also important to me, so I watch my mouth a bit more in public, at least when I'm around children or the elderly. My speech might be somewhat abrasive, but my personality isn't, and the majority of people who know me would actually say that I'm very sweet and kind.

    Yes, I do. Sometimes a lot, sometimes very little, just depends on the mood and what's going on. Swearing is a normal part of my speech pattern, so it doesn't occur to me not to swear in bed. My boyfriend likes it anyway, or at the very least doesn't mind it.

  • I like rough degrading sex, so it would turn me on. I like to feel/be treated like a f*** toy in bed, so being called a slut would just make me horny. As long as he reasurred me after sex that I wasn't actually a slut. My ex would call me name during sex and then when we were done he'd tell me that I wasn't actually one. And I swear every once in a while, but more than the average person.

    • You're my kind of whore, ummmmmmmmm, lady. :)

    • ;)

    • That's perfect to me. Rough degrading sex then gentle intimacy afterwards.

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  • I don't like cursing. It's just... so boring and cliche and too "porn."

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  • i say f*** all the time. I never say slut, its a non existent wprd, as far as I'm concerned. disparages people openly appreciating sex. humans are sexual beings, turning that into a pathology, is rediculous. I just don't acknowledge it. if you said that during sex tho, I'd probably leave. unless you were referring to _yourself_

    • Jeeze, you're an uptight woman. How old are you? It is all in good fun if I call someone a whore. It doesn't mean I actually think she's a prostitute. Man...

    • I don't care what you think you think you think. I told you m against the use of that word. it does not change status because you don't mind saying it. its disrespectful, & if you're saying it to me, you have to take responsibility for that. its all in good fun,m according to u. yet you're not calling yourself a slut. why don't you call yourself a slut, if you love the word so much. because that's not the image you have when you're using that word. its a little more than 'fun', & a little less than human. l

    • I don't care what you call me in the bedroom, honestly I don't. I'm just wondering if the way you feel has something to do with your age. I'm guessing you're an older woman? No offense, I'm just trying to see why you're so unbending on this.

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  • oh. I thought you meant x. lol. was about to say YYYYYYYYYYYESSSSSSSSSSSS oh look sex at the bottom. lol. hmmm.

    1)no/no/yes

    2) I suppose it depends on who I'm with.

    3) not that I can recall. lol.

    • Say what lol? I didn't get the first part of your answer. lol

    • lol. Because you started to talk about what type of guy you were and was reading and typing at the same time and I was like oh is this about cussing in public ? The question was misleading then lol and then I looked down at the bottom of the ? and I was like oh! sex! ahhahah. so yeah. lol.

    • Gotcha. :D

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  • i never curse till 4 months ago. now I have no prob. cursing in the bedroom. I am very different in the bedroom...my animal side comes out and find it really hot to share that with my partner.

    1. if my partner curse...it would turn me on

    2 and 3 above

  • 1. I might be surprised, but only in a good way, and I'd be very turned on.

    2. I don't really cuss much. I wouldn't say I don't cuss at all, but it's pretty infrequent that I do.

    3. I don't cuss at all in the bedroom, but I would consider it if someone told me it would turn them on if I did.

  • No /no /no

  • Dropping the F bumb I could live with once in a while but being called a slut and a whore does not go over well with me. I just think its rude and denigrating. However I have heard of some girls liking this. I do swear sometimes but I try to cut it back and it can't be a habit since I'm a teacher and would be fired if one ever slipped.

    • Yea, you certainly don't want to lose your job.

  • F*ck is OK & can even be sexy, but slut and whore ? only makes it seem really really disrespectful. Normally when a man says that he's meaning it to be a d*** or just saying she's just a sex object ..NOT COOL. Even if it is just for the sex lol you gotta sweet about it. A. I sometimes cuss in public if its feels right lol B. I don't mind if a guy cusses, as long as he tones it down in public.

    • Well, I don't go around calling girls that in public, if anything I've noticed that girls seem to call each other those names more than guys. I only call girls I'm actually having sex with slut/whore/dirty/etc. in the bedroom and nowhere else. It just turns me on?

    • Girls are bitches to each other ha ha & hey..I mean some girls do actually like it.

    • I heard that! I'm glad to be a guy, it just seems so much easier to make friends. Oh well...

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