Guys, do you ever feel guilty for being attracted to a girl or having sexual thoughts about her?

For any reason? Like if you think she might not like you or she's younger than you...or older or whatever. If so, do you try to avoid those thoughts or does it not bother you since it's only thoughts?
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  • if she is TOO young, or if she is married, I recognize is normal to feel attraction no matter age or status, but I try no to look at taken women, and well, I may perv over a late teen, specially is she is the kinky kind of girl, but sometimes there are girls to are too sexy for their age, like TOO young, once I saw a tall girl who always wears miniskirts and used to get nice peeks up her skirt, she lives nearby, again she is tall and all pierced, I was betting she was at least 16 (in my country you are not supposed to have tatoos or piercings if you are under 16 even with permission of your parents, but yes, many people overlooks that law), I was already feeling like "man 16 is too young, even if she is kind of a tease you are not supposed to be peeking at her", that because I had never seen her arrive from school, I always get home around 7:00pm so I find her w/o uniform, only when I had a break from work I saw her comming from school, and recognized my junior high uniform, and also, since she studied in the morning,here there are classes at day and at afternoon, statistically, those who are sent to the afternoon classes are the oldest kids, when I was there I was mornings also, and no one there, even on our last year had yet being 15, so she was 14 at most, and well, since she still had that uniform last time I saw it means that she was even younger, I still think she is both hot and a tease, but yes, I feel bad for allowing my mind to lust after her

  • Nope, can't say that I ever feel guilty about being attracted to some girl or having dirty thoughts. It's human nature to do these things and I'm not going to beat myself up for being human.

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  • Why would they? women have sexual thoughts about men. Maybe if the sexual thoughts as weird and messed up yes

    • "are weird"

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  • All the time.

    If I like someone I feel like I'm some kind if sleazy stalker just for talking to her.

  • yes so true - because I highly respect people, and then when I think a dirty thought about a girl that I like, I feel like I'm thinking something bad and un-respectful. Witch makes me feel guilty.

  • I used to but lately I've obtain a general apathy about these things. Maybe it was growing up in a world that say things like "all men are perverts (interchange perverts with pigs or dogs)". I was also under the impression that if a guy had an attraction for a girl he fell into the creep/pervert/player group. I guess there was a whole negative connotation behind sex and attraction that I was exposed to. I stopped caring when I figured out that girls have minds that are just as dirty as guys and also look for sex in relationships and have a visually based sexual attraction towards guys too. It's weird how things work.

  • No. Not any more.

    The one I used to worry more about was kind of the odd mid-late teen girl. Some of them are physically attractive young women. They aren't ready for more, so I wouldn't go there (regardless of laws) But it's not weird to find them attractive. So I'm at peace now with the fact that there are young women who are physically desirable but I wouldn't go after and that's fine.

    Human beings are meant to find other fertile human beings somewhat attractive.

    • lol EXACTLY! - "Not any more"... I never feel guilty now!

  • I knew this chick before I thought she was 20 or 21 so I asked her out and she said yes. a few days later we were talking about how old we are and stuff it turned out she was under age. I didn't feel guilty for being attracted to her but I did feel wearied out by the whole situation.

    so no I know how to restrain myself and how to behave like a gentleman and figured it was just bad luck.

  • If I like a girl, I can't think of her that way until we get there. My mind just won't go there for them. It's not something I force myself not think about. It's just the way it is. Every other girl is fair game though.