Guys: do you ever lose your erection when a girl gives you head?

[messagemebaby]

My boyfriend always tells me how good I am at giving him head but last time he lost his erection. Is this normal in any way?

[Anonymous]

There's not as much friction. Blowjobs have to be about the presentation, not the physical characteristics of your mouth. If you could suck as hard as a gay guy, you'd be okay with the standard technique. But you're mouth is smaller.

You have to make it a performance. Not only will it get him off more, it will encourage him to go crazy when he eats you out.

Always stare in his eyes if you can without laughing. There's something so dirty about a sweet, beautiful girl sucking our cocks and looking up at us. Or over to us, or down at us...

Which leads to position... You can give much better head with your mouth tilted up, kneeling, and leaning back to suck on him. Plus, this is a mind blowing position for a man to be in anyway. You could tell him where to fold his socks, what he's doing after dinner, and what clothes to wear every day, just totally run his life for him, but if he gets to stand over you in a p*rn star position and slide his d*** all the way in to the balls, while straddling you - he's got that moment of power and pleasure to remember when you're telling him to slow down, speed up, don't follow that car so close... thought I was talking about something else, didn'tcha?

Alternately, and easier on the knees and neck, you could lie down with your head hanging off the bed (on your back). He gets the same awesome sensation of alpha manhood. Plus, this one could lead to a 69, which is a bonus.

As far as added value goes, there's something to be said for some women's approach - attack it like you are obsessed with it, make loud slurping and choking noises, cover it with spit, go wild and overboard with it.

Now I need a blowjob.

[MikeK]

Best answer!

[shak-z]

also licking the slit can be painful after a while, causing the sensation to go!

alot of girls think a guy will like having the slit on the tip of his penis licked, but apart from a light flicking, focusing on this area can get annoying and painful

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend occasionally goes soft during oral or vaginal sex. it happens probably once a month.

if a guy is really stressed, tired, drank too much,etc, he can be totally there mentally and think you are hot as hell, but his junk refuses to cooperate.

if it happens on occasion it's not a problem. if it happens often, it is. so just make a note of it mentally and if it happens a few more times in a short period I'd be concerned... but otherwise, just a fluke, nothing to be worried about. it can have nothing to do with the girl when it happens, sometimes he's insanely turned on, but other circumstances get in the way.

good luck!

[Betwyn]

A lot of times, when guys lose wood...

It has nothing to do with the girl.. with how attractive she is... how she makes him feel...

Its something with his body or mind...

Depression

Stress

Circulation

if it's a one off.. don't worry about it.. and don't bring it up...

if it is a pattern, then you need to talk about it..

Either he has physical, mental or emotional issues

[Toony]

I think guys really like getting sucked and I've only given three bj's and all three times he was really hard so I think he should be hard and loving it, right not going soft something must be wrong.

[Longshot]

It can happen if it's too intense. It can also happen if it does not come with a very sexy approach.

[jpinka]

yes it happens

[JohnnyTheBoy]

he probably wasn't into it for whatever reason ... guys might have a hard time getting or maintaining an erection, especially when they are stressed or occupied

[taster]

Yeah I have..but I don't really like bjs..and I never said "Good Job!"

[michael0314]

definitely wouldn't be normal for me

[dolfan13]

It has happened once and it was because I was completely not into it at the time (sounds crazy I know) but that was the only exception. So it could happen so don't worry about it too much just get him to relax and you will be fine.

[Anonymous]

I don't know if I'd call it normal but maybe it's to much stimulation for him?