Guys, do you lose respect for a girl once she gives you head?

[Anonymous]

I have been going on dates with this guy for about 8 months now but we only get to see each other every few weeks or so. So far we've only done making out and touching etc. but even on the first night we met we fooled around. Recently I saw him again and gave him a blow job... I surprised myself because I've never given one before and wasn't planning on doing it. I let my guard down a little bit because I'm starting to trust him... But do guys lose respect for a girl when they do that, or even lose interest once the girl does go down on them?

[ben890]

I don't lose respect or interest, I'm just appreciative. I think that whole theory came from a bunch of girls who had bad experiences with jerks who didn't really care about them.

[mrstinky]

Not at all. Should a girl lose respect for me if I go down on her?

[l-hedoniste]

I lose respect for people of bad character. Giving head does *not* make you a person of bad character.

[pepper01]

depends on the guy. some do some dont

[mrstinky]

yea as if you were sitting on a bus and talked to a girl for 5 minutes then she went down on you! lol

[sixstring]

No, I really don't. Why would we?

[westman74]

It really has no bearing either way for me... I will return thr favor if she does lol

[NonchalantBro]

the opposite

[eli2941]

No

[Blaxican619]

Hell no. She makes me feel hella special.

[timboooslice]

I do. I just think it's gross if I intend to kiss someone and my semen has been in their mouth. To me it's more of a thing to do in a bootycall. Many guys are okay with it though so I think if your guy still likes to contact you then you've got nothing to worry about.

[mrstinky]

no offense but you are an idiot. she 1stly never said anything about swallowing and secondly people have their sexual preferences about what they practice. Do you live in a convent and did your parents tell you that sex was "dirty"?

[timboooslice]

Mr. Stinky I've had sex and I've been probably more experience then you. I'm not sure why your so hostile towards me since it's just my opinion but you should probably back off. Judging by your name you were the one raised in an abnormal enviroment. By abnormal I mean trailor park trash most likely. Or just another punk.

[verdandi]

So let me get this straight - you think blowjobs are trashy? From what I know about sex and men (and I know quite a bit), you are in the minority of men who don't consider oral sex to be a special part of regular sex. When you're in a serious relationship with a woman, you don't want her to give you oral at all? Is that right? As a woman who loves giving oral, having a man think it's completely trashy is a very surprising attitude. I would be very disappointed if a man told me not to do it.

[timboooslice]

I never said it's trashy. I'm just saying I wouldn't want to kiss her/ drink after her afterward. I don't look down upon it, it's just not a personal preference.