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Guys: Do you normally 'finish' before your girlfriend does?
awesome_arlene Xper 4
Okay, so when me and my boyfriend have sex, there are times where he finishes before me, and I get frustrated because I didn't and I want to finish! But we can't because his penis is too sensitive. So my question is, Do you normally 'Finish' before your girlfriend does? And if so, how does that make you feel? Or what do you do about it?
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What Girls & Guys Said
6 41That's precisely the reason why I do down on her and do my best with my trusty tongue to drive her to a hip rising, toe curling, sheet grabbing screaming orgasm before it's my turn.
yeahhh most at times,but we the hard ones go wild for long,
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It takes most women a bit longer than men to orgasm. Your best bet is to let him pleasure you first, let you be the priority first.
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if my guy new he was going to finish 1st he wouldn't try to hold it back and rub me and we would finish together it feels amazing!
depends on the girl and the guy, however it is more common for the guy to finish first, while I have had both happen to me depending what girl I have been with with my current girlfriend I tend to finish first but I still finish her off with oral so she's never complained
Some positions do more and less for me, he needs to find the position that he is more comfortable with. For me, I have to be in control, and I can go a long time. If she's in control, and she really is good at what she does and knows what she's doing, it could be bad. In my opinion, that goes for any guy. It can depend on other things too... but on average, that's it.
No. I'm a nice guy.
And everybody knows we finish last : )
Sorry to hear that. You need to work with him so you can get yours too. Let him (or tell him) to go down on you or stimulate your by hand for your first orgasm (along with classic intercourse of course), then you both win and hopefully he gives you more orgasms since your first is the hardest.
usually I would finish first. but you need to do more than just lay and do the deed. Play with her p**** a little, make sure she is as horny as you. finger her as you do her. numerous things to make sure she is in the same place you are. then she will finish with you or possibly before you.
If me and my SO are together, we play a little and I try and make sure she is ready to go before we start, or I will always finish first.
Well, I nearly always come before my wife ;)
And SHE prefers that.
Normally, she will wipe off just a little to take the main loose sperm out of the pic ... by this point, if she has turned me on well, although I won't be Hard as a Rock anymore, I will still be 'up', you might say.
So she feeds me back inside her, and I get my middle or index finger into play around with her Clit.
Much of my Cock is still inside her vagina, and I work her Loveable Clit ... I work that Gorgeous Clit til it's just got absolutely nowhere else to go but to Cum at the end of my digit and state its Huge appreciation of the fact and state its place in the big wide world.
We Both seem to enjoy that very much - she certainly comes back for more ;)
It depends on what you are doing with your muscles when you are having sex. There are times when you have to simply take a break or he will always finish first. Try different things with your muscles and it may make him last longer.
i make her come first... I will control until she does.. dz great
He must use condom. That makes him less sensitive
Any guy I've ever been with finishes before me. I would say that's totally normal. It takes me AWHILE to come. Like 30 min - and hour. He's too sensitive I understand that. But he does have a tongue and fingers right. How does it make me feel? It usually kills my fun. But can also make me feel good about myself cause I know he's satisfied. Give him some time to rest then its your turn.
are you still having this problem? If so, have him orally get you off, maybe even to the point where you finish right then and there. And then have sex with him. If you start having sex before you finish, and then he still ends up finishing before you, have him eat you out and finger you some more till you finish.
Its always best to start out with a lot of foreplay, have him make you come once or twice by fingering you/eating you out and your more likely to come while having sex. Also don't focus on tryng to orgasim, just enjoy the sex.
He may need to use a long lasting lube/lotion. My boyfriend and I got one once from a local gas station only enough to see if it worked. We had sex for a reallllly long time and he wasn't able to come until the next day,
Western culture males are not trained to feel like a king if they can muster the female to climax first. Some think of themselves as hunters & tricksters to get what they want. Most of these will finish first.
On the other hand, some of your climax is your responsibility. You need to postpone until you are warmed up and be sensitive to his climax approaching to slow him down until you can catch up.
There's merit in getting him to come first, rest then it's your turn - until lovers can finally orchestrate dual climaxes ... with practice.
There's also merit in lovers that can continue the love act beyond their own climax. Manual stimulation, devices/toys or just holding the other while they masterbte are all worth a try.
Females may be slower to warm up yet are more into it when in the act itself. You could try some erotic stories from romance novels to explict, although video XXX is more to the point/penis ... while you enjoy a hands-free vibrator like WE-VIBE II
If you were my girlfriend, I'd finish on your face.
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Oral sex is a sin! JK