Guys, do you think self confidence has any relation to penis size?

I know there have been many studies that show some relation between a guy with a large penis and his success in life. Apparently guys with large penis' have more self confidence and therefore they end up being a lot more successful in other aspects such as, business, relationships, etc. Personally I think this has some validity because I think of the guys I've known with small penises and they were all far less confident than the guys I know with large penises... Even when other factors such a looks and background should have probably made it otherwise. So what have you found to be true? Does your penis size have a noticeable affect on your confidence?
Yes, there is a link between size and confidence.
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  • If someone was to make a study out of this it would propably show some correlation. What kind of a guy could possibly say that packing some serious heat doesn't build up confidence. Of course, exception proves the rule so the two won't always go hand to hand.

    I don't know what's exactly average but I'm above it, yet I'm not confident when it comes to dating and relationships. Although I am confident when it comes to studying, sports and work. In conclusion I would say penis size only enhances what confidence you already have.

  • I think it probably does for some guys, but I definitely know of a few exceptions too, so it certainly isn't universal.

    It's FAR more likely to be how they were raised, and who their role models were growing up, as to how successful or confident they'll be, than penis size.

    • good points

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  • If you look at anything long enough correlations can be found. Yes, in some cases it will be a factor, yet that doesn't account for possible genetic traits common between men with larger penis sizes (I'm merely theorising here). They could be physiologicaly different from their counterparts in terms of ambition or other personality traits. Anyway, I'm getting slightly off course; in some cases it could lead to confidence boosts but it will not be by much as general attractiveness, body image, intelligence and background as well as other factors in someone's life will have a much more profound affect.

  • I'm extremely confident, so does that make you think I am packing something big? There are a lot of things to deal with confidence besides just how much meat is dangling between a guy's legs.

    • lol Well honestly if I see a confident guy I now assume he's probably big. My last boyfriend modeled...he was beautiful and so I never understood why he had such low self esteem around me, but once we got physical I realized he was pretty small in length and particularly width. Actually everything down there was tiny. For the record, it never made me think less of him...in fact I liked his size when I gave BJ's...LOL But yea now I would be curious to know how big you are?

    • Haha, I am not a guy who boasts about such things on public forums, especially since it's always followed by others calling bullsh*t because they don't match up to my claim.

    • I will respect you're desire to not tell...but you must know that you're killing me. ; )

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  • Not really no.

  • No idea if that is true and I'm skeptical that there are studies done on that topic. Go ahead and link some studies if you know of any. I've heard there has been data collected that suggests men that worry about their penis tend to have less going on accomplishment wise. Basically men that severely worry about their penises may have self worth problems and if they improved how they felt about their lives by pursuing goals they would tend to worry about their penis less.

    • I can't find the original item I read because that was at least a couple years ago but here are some articles on the subject - link

  • I hav an average penis but a huge confidence level.

    • well what are you considering average?

    • 6 inch

    • Thats on the higher end of average though...(5in being the low end).

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  • There might be a link but I doubt its very strong.

    I've got an eight inch dick and I'm quite quiet, I was actually diagnosed as having social anxiety disorder as a teenager.

  • I firmly believe that having a smaller penis has made me less confident and feel like a beta male. I've learnt to embrace being small and enjoy humiliation and find that panties fit my package better than male underwear. I strongly believe that size has an affect on sexual desires

  • I think there is, but I also think it can generate competition. Guys who are average have to try harder.

    There was this guy in our office. He was the office stud. Doesn't every office have one? Anyways, I work in a very competitive industry. Things are changing quickly and you have keep up. This office stud guy is not a dumb guy by any means, but not as smart of some of the rest of us.

    So, we were working on this project together and each of have to deliver a component. It's complicated stuff, but I can see was making some fairly major mistakes. Could I have stepped into correct them? Yes, but I did not and he eventually got let go.

    The way I see it, he has his advantages and I have mine. He was confident, though. Perhaps too confident?

  • Yeah, I don't buy that at all. That would be like saying that women with small boobs are less successful in life than those with large boobs. In reality, the only thing correlated with boob size is the age at which a girl first has sex. Penis size has nothing to do with traits like intelligence, social skill, charm, linguistic fluency, persuasiveness, etc.

    TBH, it sounds like you have a fetish for big dicks and are out to show that guys with small dicks are inferior men, but that's just me reading between the lines.

  • I think there is some truth in that generally. But if you are good at something, then you are going to be confident at it, regardless of your size.

  • No, don't think there is a link between size and self confidence. In fact, smaller sized guys may have more self confidence to compensate. Personally, I'm only 5.6 inches or so but more than make up for it in other ways.

  • It definitely has an effect on SOME guys' confidence levels (otherwise there would never be any questions asking whether size matters or not...) but it definitely isn't across the board by any means. I'm sure there are also a number of guys who are big but still lack confidence. In the end, though, confidence (or lack thereof) has a lot of different sources for people.

    As for me, personally, it's not a huge issue but I'd be lying if I said I wouldn't prefer a bigger one if I had the choice. Because let's be honest: size DOES matter. That said, the biggest issue for my confidence is easily my body size (skinny and not particularly tall) and it really isn't even close.

  • As I've become more and more aware of my submissive side, it seems like my penis gets smaller and smaller, although I know that's really all in my head...

  • I could see a correlation. A bigger penis could give you a constant boost of confidence when you're planning to get into relationships which in turn can make you feel happier because you're with someone you care about which drives you to do better, etc.

    Speaking from personal experience, mine's not gigantic but it's definitely above average and I've always been fairly confident. I don't think of it as a major component to my overall self esteem though. Majority of people will never see my penis and while I feel happy knowing that I was blessed like that, I don't feel like I can attribute it to success I've had in up to this point life. If it was small it would be a knock to my self esteem but it'd take a lot more than that to put me down.