Guys: Fingering Her: Yay Or Nay?

Guys - Do you enjoy fingering your gal during foreplay, or does it kinda gross you out?
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Okay, so it may seem like a silly question, but the reason I ask is because the fella I'm currently involved with doesn't seem to initiate fingering--and personally I enjoy it. So I had to ask.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It doesn't gross me out, but it does strike me as a little too strong for foreplay. I consider foreplay to be generally kissing and touching skin and sensitive areas away from or around the obvious stimulation zones, so I've never dived straight in.

    Sometimes I do it before sex though, after the foreplay, so she is a little looser and sort of warmed up for sex. I like it, and she likes it too. My only real wish is that my damn arm didn't get so tired so quickly. Honestly the only comfortable position puts a real downer on the mood, due to me being sort of diagonally lying on my side with one arm bent outwards. It's just madness.

    It can put people off. Starting with nails, they could be worried about hurting you by doing it. Or they could just be grossed out, as said. Periods and the fact that place cleans itself without your input doesn't inspire too much confidence in some males, I suppose.

    Hope your guy wises up to your needs later on in your relationship, though. :)

  • There is nothing gross about it! Total turn on for me and hopefully for her. I expect it to be wet so don't worry about that if that is what you think would gross a guy out. Any guy with half a brain knows it's supposed to be wet and will take it as more of a compliment the wetter it is.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I am a girl so I understand that my answer was not really wanted..I just wanted to say that I clearly have a vagina and I masturbate (clearly) but fingering myself grosses even me out. I also don't like it when a guy does it. It doesn't feel right..

  • i never fingered myslef cause I just think its gross, I can't help it, I just hate the feeling and thought of touching myslef... however I think with guys its a different story

  • ew. I hate being fingered. Most guys don't even know how to finger properly. I can't stop thinking about gross bacterias under their nails...ewwww

    • Tell him to wash his hand then first oO I most certainly would anyways.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yea!

  • Why would it gross me out to fingerbang my girlfriend?

  • Love it!

  • I love to have my boyfriend finger me...If he isn't quite getting in the right spots I guide his hand around so it feels good.

  • Never done it, but I say yay.

  • No for me it's definitely a huge turn on. Having my fingers inside her feels amazing.

  • gross me out? I love girls, I love pussy. my fingers in her pussy, making the girl moan is always very hot.

  • i use my whole fist.

  • I'd prefer to get a blowjob