Guys, foreplay and going down?

[stunwall]

i am still yet to recieve maxium pleasure from my partner we have been having sex together around 9 months now. here is the low down. he is the first person I have had sex with but I experimented doing other stuff with others before him. he works a lot and lately his sex drive has been very low. he doesn't last very long in bed maybe 5 minutes from the first thrust. he seems to have no problem gettig it up because as soon as he starts showing to me he wants to have sex he already seems to be up . my problem is he never gives much foreplay so I never reach climax. he might rub or finger for about 30 seconds but then he is straight into it. very often I go down on him and he never returnes the favour. in the beginning he did, that was before we started having sex though. tbh he wasn't very good and it hurt so I told him to stop and that he wasn't good at it, hoping that he would make improvements. i have recently told him that I need him to do me favours so that I am pleased. and nothing. yesterday I said to him I am no loner going to go down on you becuase you won't do it to me. ANY IDEAS? to make him do more foreplay?

[JennyNice]

Well... yes :)

Try with great foreplay, something like this:

1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ----> link

10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

Good luck

[foolycooly1001]

If he's bad at it, tell him what to do.