Guys and girls, is my boss being pervy?

well I work at an ice cream shop on everyday except for wed. and sun. my boss was nice at first but things got sorta weird I guess. like he always brings up that his sisters kids go to my school so maybe he can stop by sometime at a game (I cheer) which I didn't think much of until he kept talking about it. he kept saying how he wishes the girls who went to his school look like the ones that go to school now. and that he always dated cheerleaders in hs blah blah. then he asked "so do you wanna switch your work days so you can have Saturdays and Fridays off cause I'm sure you prob have plenty of guys who would love to take you out" which I don't and I told him its fine I'm not even allowed to date yet. and I don't remember exactly what he said but it was something weird like "oh that's good we all know what they want anyway" and I awkwardly just stood there. then he asked me the question "so have you ever even had sex before" I answered, the answer was no. and he's like that's good you should wait. and that's when I started getting really creeped out cause I asked my friend if that was weird of him and he said it totally was and I felt super awkward. and he's always telling me I look nice and he's glad I'm here cause it gives him something to think about while he gets through his day. and I catch him looking at me in ways he probably shouldn't be looking at me. I mean he's probably like 30 just your average American guy blond blue eyes not really my type but he can get girls I mean he's not ugly and I'm pretty sure he may even have a girlfriend. he can also be sorta sexist and I don't know if he's being a jerk or flirting, he will say things like "its cute how little you know, its OK I guess that makes you a girl" or when I was cleaning the tables before closing he said something like " a woman who knows her job, your gonna make someone a very good wife" and he's called me dumb in many different ways :/ and about two weeks ago he got really touchy. like hugging me goodbye, putting his hand on my arm, getting too close behind me, touching my butt when he hugged me that sort of stuff. and I mean even my friend jess was like wow your boss kept looking at you when I went down there. I'm not sure maybe I'm crazy he never actually did anything wrong its just the little things he keeps doing are really making me not even wanna work there. I mean I don't need the money but I do need the work experience but I guess I can get that in other ways but if we do a certain amount of hours we get credits for school. I'm not sure is it just me? like am I crazy? what do you guys think?
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hes about 27-36 I wanna say
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i think I just need to ask some of the other workers about him, maybe get one of them to report him.
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  • Creeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep O.o

  • Wow lol He's so out to get you. Be careful

  • That is really creepy. What you need to do is tell him that your not interested. If his actions continue, quit. No job is worth being harassed by your boss

  • are you kidding me? you really need an answer to this? it's pretty obvious he's a creeper by how he is continuously making you uncomfortable. he crossed the line with the sex question; that was extremely innapropriate, especially to be asking your underaged(?) employee. he is a sexist pervert and chances are he likes to make others uncomfortable and not just yourself. file a complaint soon because the longer you're around him and continue letting him get away with this bull- it only get's worse. who cares about work experience and school credit? this guy is sexually harassing you... I think this is a little more work history than you bargained for, aye?