Guys: Give me the truth on queefing.

okay so I know its pretty normal and everything...but I want to know the truth. Do guys really not mind? In all honesty whenever it happens I kind of want to die of embarrassment. I really need answers to this.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • OK--I've queefed a few times with my boyfriend, especially after from-behind sex. The thing is, it's not that big of a deal. Farting is way worse, and guys usually don't care if they're in the mood. If it happened every single time you had sex he might see it as kind of a mood-breaker, but not because it was gross, because it was funny. When it happens with my boyfriend, I just laugh and say "Oh wow, that was weird!" and keep going. If you show that you can laugh at yourself, that helps. Also, you may need to clarify and say "Wow, sex makes the weirdest noises", so that he doesn't think you farted, which is actually kind of gross (although I farted during oral with my ex--a not-so-bad fart but still--and we stayed together and went on to have sex immediately after!)

  • okay I know I'm not a guy but whenever it happens to me I get really embarrassed too...but remember its technically THEIR fault for pulling out so far and so fast, haha. whenever it happens to me I think the guy can tell I'm embarrassed cause he's always like 'don't worry, its just air' or whatever. so I don't think you need to feel embarrassed at all :)

  • Yeah its embarassing and all, but at the end of the day I think most if not all men know what it is. and its totally naturally. The best way is to just it off. Me and my boyfriend usually just get a good laugh when things are really heated.

  • I hate that noise!

    But we usually laugh it off, or he'll give me a goofy face and make some joke about balloons. He's crazy, and I love him for it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Personally, I don't mind it at all. If we're being honest, we have to admit that there end up being a lot of "less than sexy" noises during good sex. People who are uptight during sex usually don't have good sex anyway, so I'd say just relax and if he's a cool guy he'll understand it's not something you can control and he won't mind.

  • Personally I don't mind at all, sure it can be funny bit don't

    Fell embarrassed after all it's a normal part of sex for most girls. If you want to stop it

    try spreading your legs far apart so that all of the air that gets trapped in there can escape and that should stop your queefing problem.

    Hope this is of help:)

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  • Not at all.

    IDuring sex, its honestly a huge stress relief at times.

    If we are fighting or something and then decide to have sex, and there's a nice loud queef...We both crack up and feel better.

    I think its funny, and should not be embarrassing.

  • lol. No honestly I don't mind... I mean if you like having sex then you gotta like the messy things that come with it. Besides, its not even your fault and it comes with having sex...so if they seem upset by it just say..."OK wanna stop?" lol that should make them say "NO" real quick.

    • Haha, nice.

  • honestly sex if not sopost to be so serios I mean enjoy it its not the end of the world and as far as beeing queefed on while have sex I like it for 1 its funny and and for 2 it feels good lol... I know its a weird topix

  • My boyfriend doesn't mind at all.