Guys: hard by just cuddling?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 days, we've been hanging out every night and usually cuddle when it starts getting late and his parents go to bed. But he always gets a boner while we cuddle without even kissing, are all guys like this or is he trying to go farther with me?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Don't be offended by a boner. He's not trying to tell you anything. His is attracted to you and guys arousal just "shows" more than ours does. He probably does want to go farther, but if he hasn't said or touched more than cuddling than he's not trying to. A boner is to arousal as goose bumps are wen you get cold... they just pop out!

  • Pretty much all guys get hard in that situation. Honestly, it'd be kind of a bad sign if he didn't get hard when you two were close and touching like that.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I get hard just THINKING about cuddling. Remember the old saying- God gave man both a penis and a brain - but not enough blood to run them both at the same time. Unless he is gay - he wants to go farther with you. It is in our nature, and is the highest form of simple animal flattery...

  • Are you yet another under 18 girl who has snuck into the over 18 group?

    • Actually I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 20.

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  • Cuddling does make healthy guys get aroused, so a hard on would be expected. Our members have a mind of their own. That doesn't mean he wants to go all the way with you, unless you want him too.

  • yah a guy can get hard by just cuddling! rubbing of any sort makes us all hard...period. and some days a guy is more erect then others...so just watch out

  • It can be pretty easy to get a d*** up.

  • it happens when his **** rubs onto something. especially the head of his ****. not all guys are easily turned on. but if the cuddling feels good then maybe you should take it a step further