Guys: How can I tease him in bed more?

My boyfriend and I get pretty rowdy and get undressed quickly, and undressing is something he initiates. We don't have intercourse, but we do do oral. Lately as soon as I head down south to lavish some attention on his penis, he says that he wants me to tease him more and pulls me back up again. Any ideas as to how I can tease him?
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  • undress slowly...give him a show., wear thongs or booty shorts..get on top of him and spread his arms out and kind of hold him down...move your head down south and then come back up quickly, ask him sexy questions, or along the lines of "do you want me, do you want this, do you wanna __ me"...tell him to smack your ass, if he goes to finger you or play with you say "no no you gotta work harder" tell him to kiss your neck or suck on your ear lobe (it usually turns girls on)...slowly move his hand towards your spot...play with his part then stop, like the balls or something and be like "you like that" blah blah stuff like that..."how do you want me" "uh your so big" stuff to build his confidence and to turn him on...just some ideas tho, hope it helps lol have fun!

    • Thank you :)

    • keep in mind its all about the tone you use when talking...when your undressing touch yourself in places...rub your hands all over your body and such...stuff to give him some eye candy, most guys get off to the fact that your getting off...at least that's how I get off lol but really have fun and rem be safe!

  • okay...i can write a friggin book about this...but here's a short list

    1. play with his nipples (licking them..etc etc..but not too rough like bitin)

    2. fondling his balls more...yes...balls...(I guess tickling works too)

    3. try to hold back from giving a lot of oral and touch around his groin area gently (like tickling or feeling up)

    4. stop stimulating him every time he's about to orgasm

    and lots and lots more..but this is the first 4 on the top of my head.. :D

    and are you trying to avoid intercourse? just askin outta curiosity

    • I don't think I'm ready to take that step, so I supose yes I am. But I realize that that sounds hypocritical. But my boyfriend and I have talked about it and he gets where I'm coming from with being unsure. I'm in my last year of school and one of the big reasons I don't think I'm ready is that if I end up preggers, it'll be difficult for me and unfair on the kid that is produced. So yeah...

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  • playfight with him as a foreplay, it's good to build a sexual tension.

    Don't hesitate to squeeze him between your legs, to pin him down.

    Smother him between your breasts

    those kind of things.

    • thank you

  • Kissing his neck and chest for a start, rub yourself against him, touch his bits gently not a full on handjob, put your boobs in his face.

    • Thank you :)