Guys how come some of us don't like eating girls out?

I don't understand why some of us don't like eating a girl out. Its so cool. Its the most girly part of a girl. Isn't it in a way even more intimate then sex. Why would any guy not want to do this? We should be doing it at least 1 time a day. And if our women want 3 times. In the morning after she gets back from work or school and before she goes to sleep. Yet some of us don't enjoy this? Why do some guys not like eating a girl out?
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  • Speaking from a girls perspective I don't get it either. I mean when I am with a guy I love pleasuring him with my mouth/tongue. I'm not going to force a guy to do it back to me but at the same time if he expects and asks for it all the time I think he should just want to do it back to me. I never ask for it but what girl wants to ask for something and get a reaction like hell no. Not all guys shave either and girls still go down on them that I just do not get at all. First of all if I'm all smooth I want the guy to be too. its selfish to ask for head all the time and not want to go down on your girl in return. I know a few guys who when they were younger said they would never do that and that it is gross but now they have changed there minds and either want the chance to do it for love doing it. It might just be a maturity thing. But guys if you expect it from your girl then do it back to her without her having to ask there is nothing sexier then having a guy who loves doing it. Its a special way to show how much you really want to please her.

    • Yes indeed! Kudos : )

    • Kudos indeed! great answer!

    • I'm so pissed off. I can blow my guy for quite awhile. Sometimes he gets off, sometimes not. But to get it in return I have to bitch about it. Then it's no fun because he does it just to shut me up. Obligation? I think he's just a selfish prick and I need to move on.

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  • In my opinion, oral sex is by far more intimate than "straight intercourse." I prefer it much more, especially when I give head. Too bad you are anonymous. If you read this and you want, request adding me as a friend. PM me to tell me who you are : )

    I don't understand either except that maybe you hit the nail on the head (no pun intended) with the idea that it is such an intimate act. I really never have believed this nonsense answer that I've read from some guys who say that it "tastes bad." That is complete crap. It may not always taste like bubble gum or Doritos but if it was cool enough, believe me that any guy would do it anyway. I don't even think it is laziness. All things in nature are inherently lazy. No, this seems to be a strong issue with some guys who aren't even hindered by some stupid puritanical factor. I really think it is mostly that these guys (usually younger white males) have serious intimacy issues. Sex to them is a hollow quick gratification instead of a wild adventure of the mind and body.

    • It is more intimate that's why I couldn't do it with just any girl, definitely take a long for me to warm up to a girl enough for me to consider doing that.

  • For some reason I don't like getting eaten out. It's to "soft" of a feeling. guys have offered it to me before but I never enjoyed it. I would much rather do it to a guy then have him to do it to me. Although it does make ok foreplay, it doesn't get me off. fingering is much better.

    • A finger in with a "come here motion" while being eaten is incredible! You should try it!

Most Helpful Guys

  • Well I do it because I think I owe that to a girl I like. It doesn't make any difference how she is down there because I know I have to just deal with it until I like it because that's the way to please a girl. It doesn't make any difference if she wants it morning, noon or at night. We need to get used to her however she is at those tiimes. Taste and smell for a particular girl is acquired over a short peroid of time and it can get addicting. It only takes several times before you start wanting it as much and as bad as she does. It's such an intimate act to bring a girl to orgasm orally. Also, it can also spoil a girl to where she wants and expects that more than even having sex. So she should be able to get it whenever she wants it. If we want to make our girlfriends truly happy, this is one of the biggest and surest ways to do it.

    • Right answer, except that you should try not to do it JUST because you owe the girl. It's better for you and for her if when you are doing it you are doing it for your own selfish pleasure. But I think you already know and do that. Cheers to you. Too bad you are anonymous.

  • I'm guessing a lot of the guys (or girls) who've said they don't like it are younger. Fair enough with the odd one night stand in the past I wasn't so bothered but every girl I've gone out with has always enjoyed receiving oral from me. My girlfriend does indeed like it almost more than sex (well at least just as much) and I indulge her a helluva lot, but I enjoy doing it and I'm lucky because she tastes great, looks great down there and I'd find it very hard to imagine not enjoying it.

    By the time most of these guys answering are older they'll all love doing it!

    • I agree that it is definitely mostly younger ones. My first boyfriend was a virgin and the first thing we did was him eating me out for almost two hours straight. I swear I had over 60 little orgasms and several big ones. It was his idea too. I had to stop because I was numb and I offered to go down on him and he just said; "no, that's alright. I don't want you to think I did that so you would return the favor. I really wanted to do that." He was awesome.

    • LUCKY YOU ! that sounds awesome.

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  • personal reasons. I mean don't assume that all girls like it

  • I like to do it to girls, some don't like a guy to do it though and if she smells oh hell no, if you haven't experienced that yet when you do you will understand, oh god if any man can manage to still eat her out if she smells I give him mad props, because that is some rank rank shit man. But not all girls smell bad most of them smell and taste really good oh my ex had the best taste and smell.

  • I think they taste terrible. I have never had a girl whose taste I liked.

  • I think that girls take a bit more knowledge to truly get them off and we guys who are unexperienced fear that face a girl makes when your down there but aren't really doin anything lol. But for us it doesn't take much for us to let it go so you see most of us are a little scared and unexperienced. Hell if I was the greatest ever at it I would do just to please

  • You know what. I used to say I'd eat just about any girl out. Although, now I kinda disagree with myself lol. The girl has gotta shave. I mean come on ladies. We do for u? I mean unless you want us to stop shaving, we could. LOL. Even though that is quite gross. And for goodness sake take a shower before hand and make sure it's clean and doesn't smell raunchy, or that it's somewhat clean. Just some rough experiences. And if you have some condition where you have more T than you should and ur body grows abnormal hair. Please shave the $hit. Or get laser hair removal. Talk about nasty. Anyhow. I've said enough. I used to be the type that would but I guess I had a bad experience. I finally had to refuse a girl. I felt bad but dude that's just gross. And Wrong. even if you do like I said grow hair you can maintain yourself. That's just gross. And I'm not about to do stuff with, or go down on a girl that looks like a guy, and is hairy sorry... YUK!

    • How about you get a laser near your junk. I mean most guys on here are saying it must be shaved. Do you shave your pubic hair?

    • Actually yes I do for your information. Sorry to burst your flame bubble.

    • I have to agree with the guys on this one. I don't like a guy's face being up in me if it is hairy.

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  • the only reason a man wouldn't wanna lick a girls p**** down, is because he is either GAY or their girlfriends p**** stanks like sh*t and is all hairy and unappealing. haha

    • Fuck yeh, I agree

    • Lmfao

    • classic stereo type cassie. Dissing the bloke and calling him gay straight out for not wanting to eat pussy is laughable. Well i guess you are a weird abnormal individual if you dont like having nipple clamps on, butt plugs up your arse, ball gags in your mouth, and being tied up because to some folk THAT is normal behavior. 25 years young you are indeed.

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  • thing is, if she's willing to do oral for us, we should be able to do it for them, ya know?, isn't relationships and sex all about giving AND receiving, if you're not willing to do it, then y are you with her in the first place?

    • AMEN!!!

  • not all girls taste great. one dirty vag. can ruin it for the rest of us.

  • It depends on her situation down there. If the situation is good then I really love to do it. It turns me on to turn my g/f's on and even more then that it's just something about doing it that's just really exciting and sexy. As to why some guys don't...I don't really know;why do some girls not give head? It's all just personal preferences. Some guys are maybe too nervous while others think it's gross.

  • hairy. she has to be trimmed or shaved for me.

  • I'm with you, I love eating out almost as much as sex

  • Beats me. I enjoy it thoroughly.

  • I wasn't down initially, but eventually you get so horned up its just great to go all out.

    Im lucky though in the fact that my woman takes amazing care down there. Its so clean!

    If it wasn't, then hell no.

  • for the same reason some people smoke and chew tobacco...it an aquired taste.

  • With some ladies its the odor. Some smell bad others not so much. So with one girl we enjoy it with the next we hardly ever do it.

    • Is it just a strong natural odour? or is it an unclean dirty smell?

    • It's a natural odor would be my guess... most girls wash themselves. lol.

    • Its often both. My current lady for example I don't do it for this very reason and when I do its right after a shower and on a special occasion.

  • HEADS are the best thing in the world. I think everyone on earth should LOVE it :)

  • ehh just something I'm not too into

    • Faaauuuhh-REAK hha

    • Whatever pussies smell and taste bad

    • Yeah so do sweaty balls and cum. But oh no, a girl that doesn't give head must be crazy.

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  • If I was a guy I'm not sure I'd want to. Sounds nasty.

  • i don't know either but they should because I mean how many times do they get blow jobs ughh I hate men that don't like eating girls out I don't even consider them men a real man eats the p**** that's why ii love my man lol. and some of them don't do it because they don't know how to but you know what they say practice makes perfect

  • What to do if girl don't want to getting ate out

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