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Have sex with me, you'll have me locked in real quick, real fast.
The biggest reason why some men don't get attached to women is because the men that do get some booty are a small percentage of men to begin with. These are the tall/handsome/healthy/wealthy/age-specific/race-specific/rich men that every woman wants and these guys know it. Therefore, they can pick any woman they want, get what they want, dump her like a used condom and look for more while the rest of us men(roughly 85% of the male populace) are found wanting.
Just how it is. There are the have's and the have-not's.
I think that's wrong, plenty of girls do the exact same thing. All depends on the person. There have been some girls who I've had sex with and never really been bothered about again, there have been others who I've had sex with and then gotten into something more serious, and there have been a few girls who I've had sex with and although I wanted something more they did not. As Konnour said, it's about the girl/guy. If personalities are compatible then they will want more, if not then they won't.
Many people of both genders have sex with lots of partners. Many people of both genders also DON'T have sex with lots of partners. These days, men aren't necessarily more likely to sleep around. However, it's true that they are slightly less likely to become emotionally attached during sex. This is for purely biological reasons- during sex, both genders produce the bonding hormone oxytocin. But girls produce more of it than guys do, and therefore an emotional bond is more automatic for girls. That's not to say that guys never become attached during sex, though.
Guys need more than physical/sexual attraction to feel emotional attach to a woman. So the fact the had sex with you doesn't mean they are emotionally attracted or attach to you. Woman most of the time need to feel emotionally attracted to the guy in order to perform any type of sexual interaction and if they don't the closeness sex brings would make her attach very easy. That's the way we work. That's why I don't go with the while fwb, casual sex thing.
I wouldn't sleep with a guy I wasn't already in love with. I don't 'get attached' because if sex. if I slept with a guy I'm not into, id not want to talk to him again, its awkward. id only want to see a guy I actually like, after sex.
if you are worried about discrepancies in desires, after sport f***ing, don't do it. i.e. don't have sex outside of relationships.
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But for those who don't get attached.. most of times but not always it's about the girl.
Many girls got nothing else to offer except sex and the same ones would make bad girlfriends.
So those guys being unable to control their hormone storms go and get what they can take.
it's way men are wired
sleep with sluts, commit to decent high quality girls
a guy is naturally wired to want to spread his seed but commit to the latter of the 2.
haha it's probably why I see girls who sleep around like aren't capable of having a healthy relationship and are just kind of broken
Well you had a HAND in that! NO PUN INTENDED Mr.
lol bitter slut who doen't like her choices?
because the penis isn't attached to vagina anymore as we need to pee
I've got a friends with benefits and I don't feel attached to him, he can do what he wants. But he doesn't like it if I go with another guy or he see's me with another guy.
I think he's the one that's attached.
We're capable of just viewing it as a good feeling with somebody and nothing more. There are girls that don't get attached after sex also it's just not as common until girls are in their 30's and 40's and it seems like there is some kind of dominant gender reversal going on right now with lots of my guy friends my age hooking up with cougars lol.
it's mother nature at work. women and men have different brains, different operations. women are wired to get attached after sex, men are wired to procreate and sex and emotion don't necessarily go hand in hand as easily. not to say women can't have casual sex but in general it is easier for a man to do that
Ugh, we are ALWAYS at a loss aren't we! Next time, lets just keep it closed. ...Until he DOES get attatched!
I would only take it serious and be attached to her if she was a virgin, I only get attached to girls who don't have used up p****
Good luck finding a girl that would give her virginity to a jerk like you.
haha, it ain't that hard. girls like experience so I'm not at a loss
Women release a chemical called oxytocin after having sex with someone she is attracted to/cares about. Men do too, but its effects are blocked by testosterone. That's the only reason why ... men are wired to be that way. Knowing how biology effects us gives us the tools to make healthy decisions.
true dat
girls, how come you get attatched after sex?
Sex is a very intimate act between two people and girls think in a more emotional way than guys do. Guys act more for desire that feelings. Just for you to to know women release a hormone while having sex similar to the one they release to create a bond when they have baby. you're supposed to get attached to someone after sex. Sex wasn't created to do it with random people.
then why do people have many partners, and not wait for marriage?
Why do you sleep with every guy that want to have sex? Why you wait till marriage to have sex? Its all about morals. You really think is the same having sex only with girls/guys you've loved that having sex with the guy you met last night at nightclub , the guy from there bar ohh and the really cute whom you don't remember the name -_- to me the isn't right. That's why I meant with sleeping with random people aka people you just met/barely know. If that works for you enjoy :) .
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