Guys, How Do I Give Good Head?

How can I give a great blowjob..I need some tips and pointers..?
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Please be very specific and please try not to be embarassed about elaborating..I really need many pointers!
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  • You should learn how to deep throat.

    Once you can deep throat, the blow jobs you'll be giving your man will be completely different. There are so many extra things you can do while giving head once you know how to deep throat - but of course, that does not mean that you can give good head without it. It helps, but you can live without it. So it's not obligatory.

    Anyway, first of all let me tell you that it's mostly a mental things. I've been with countless girls that couldn't deep throat - after just a little bit of practice, they hand no problem getting it all in. It was more of a mental barrier. You believe you "can't", so you're actually blocking yourself. Froget about those limiting beliefs. Get them out of your head. They won't help you at all to be honest. What you need is - to completely believe that you can easily deep throat - imagine yourself as someone who can easily do it. This mindset will help you on your road to mastery.

    So - how do you make progress? Step - by - step. That's how. Inch by inch, step by step, chunk by chunk. Tell him not to even try forcing it deeper into your mouth, forcing it won't help. Try not to think of your gag reflex, try pushing his penis sideways. You can learn more advanced stuff from Tanya. But I can tell you what I know after watching dozens of girls master deep throating - with willpower. And it was fun, after some time, it was cool for them to know that they can get in "such a big thing". That's part of the show - loving it. You have to love giving head in order to get better at it. Check out Jacks Blowjob Lessons for more tips and tricks.

    Anyway, use your hands to get his shaft "shorter" in a way, and practice with what you can get in, every time use a bit less, and over time you'll get there. It's just a matter of practice

  • Nice and slow. Look your man in the eyes when you do it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I know you asked specifically for guys' opinions, but just in case you don't get any detailed answers, I'll help out a bit :P

    Warning to readers: this might get graphic.

    Just take your time at first. Start with a slow handjob, then kiss his belly and hips, then his penis. Kiss and lick it for a while, you're just getting acquainted with it, haha. I like to swirl my tongue around the tip, lick him from base to tip, and tongue his frenulum (the spot on the underside of the head of his penis). Take the tip/head into your mouth, then move your mouth up and down, gradually taking more of his penis into your mouth each time you move down, and gaining speed. Hold the base with your hand this whole time, or else it's going to be hard to keep it still, haha. If you can't take much of his penis into your mouth, use your hand to stroke the rest of the shaft. Eye contact also adds a big visual turn-on for most guys.

    Those are the basics... Oh, ask him to tell you when he's close to orgasm, so you can really focus on keeping a good rhythm. If he's about to orgasm and you pause, it won't happen :P You have to keep up a solid pace or the blowjob is going to take a long time.

    And be careful about your teeth!

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  • most important thing is lubrication. try to stay away from tasty lubes before sex though it's bad for your vagine. a tip, try to hum when deep throating. see how that makes him feel

  • Use your hand while you do it. seems to help a lot for me

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  • send me a message if you wanna know more.

  • Well, all I'd really ask is that you really enjoy what you're doing. :) If you enjoy it, the rest will follow.

  • sorry didn't receive it before , and I don't know how it feels like :-)

    good luck any way

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  • Watch the teeth! take as much as you can in your mouth. Suck and lick too !