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Guys how do you feel about anal fingering?

So I've been seeing this guy for awhile now, and let me just say that I have never been a big fan of anal, well at least the idea of anal. But the other day, when my guy was eating me out I felt him stick his finger in my ass. I mean, I was surprised but then after awhile I started to get into it and now I look forward to it. So I was wondering, guys, would you like if a girl did that to you? I'm kind of nervous to do that.. any advice, thankyou!
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  • I'll start by making it clear that if you do it right, it feels good for all guys. Whether they are gay or straight, men have something in their anus that makes it pleasurable to have something stuck up there and you can even make men orgasm through anal. That's why gay guys have anal sex.

    However, many guys don't want anything to go in their ass. If anything does, they will feel so uncomfortable that they won't enjoy it in the slightest. Many men think that if they enjoy receiving anal it makes them gay.

    Just because your boyfriend wants to GIVE YOU anal, doesn't mean he want to receive it.

    That said, I would love it if a girl did it to me. My ex did it once, but it grossed her out so much she refused to ever do it again. I was fine with that, but I would have been even happier if she'd agreed to do it a few times again.

    You've got 4 choices:

    1. Just go for it. When you're next sucking his c0ck, just take your finger (and preferably some lube) and stick it straight up there. He'll either love it and will probably let you know, or he'll be like "wtf are you doing, get out of me!" in which case you say sorry and explain that you've heard it's pleasurable for guys so you thought you'd give him a treat.

    2. Be a bit more subtle. When you're giving him a blow job or something, start rubbing that area, especially his anus. Don't actually stick your fingers in to start with, but play around that area and if he seems freaked out then stop, if he seems to like it, carry on and gently put your finger in once to "test the waters" before going the full way and having a good play.

    3. Just ask him. Say you've heard it's nice for guys and you wondered if he'd like to try it. Explain that it's fine for him to like it and say you'd like to try it, and then he can say whether he wants to or not.

    4. Assume that he's one of the people who would feel less manly and whatever if he has something up his ass, so just don't do it or think about it.

    So, they are your choices about whether or not to do it. The next problem is HOW to do it. I'd suggest you try to do it the same way your boyfriend does it to you. But, you can use a condom if you want if the thought of putting your finger up his bum grosses you out... just be careful not to lose it! I'd recommend using lube to make it more comfortable for him. You can use more than one finger if you both want. You could even use something else, like a toothbrush or something... again, be careful not to lose it, I'm sure the last thing you want is to end up on one of those TV programs making up some crap excuse for why your boyfriend has a toy car stuck up his arse lmao.

    One more thing, I'm sure you're aware as you have an anus of your own, but whichever option you go for, use his bodily reactions to decide what to do and to detect how he's feeling - if he's nervous or uncomfortable, he will probably clench is arse cheeks and he will really tighten his anus, making it difficult for you to even get your... (continues in comments)...

    • ...your little finger in. If he's enjoying it, he'll relax his muscles, including his anus, so it's quite easy for you to slip one finger in to start and more after a minute or 2. If you want my opinion, I'd say option 2 or 3 is best. The advantage of option 2 is that you don't have to bring it up in conversation which might be a bit weird. The advantage of option 3 is that you won't freak him out mid-sex session and put him off. Plus with option 3, you can decide together exactly what is...

    • ...is going to happen so you can prepare yourselves with lube & condoms or whatever else you decide to use. Let me know if I can help any more Good luck & have fun :)

  • I love anal when my girlfriend gives me a blowjob she put one finger then I encourage to put another then another and finger fuck me in the arse whilst she gives the most amazing blow job but always remember lubricant because if not you will hurt!! It's still worth even if it does hurt a bit. I love it. I also like dildos and other toys in my arse as the male g spot is located there and wow when you get that right I can't stop my cock from throbbing and pumping cum out its awesome. So you are probably saying this guycis gay or at least bi which I'm not at all as I'm not attracted to men in the slightest. I don't see why enjoying a certain point on my body being touched which makes me cum by really sex girls some of who are models makes me gay. It doesn't. If you enjoy it do it!

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2 14

  • Anal isn't my thing, but it's not a deal breaker, either. We could talk about it.

  • I love anal play both ways. Giving and receiving

  • If she looked forward to it, I would do it all night long.

    No, nothing goes up MY butt. Not unless she was VERY persuasive.

  • I'd like it, but I am in the minority.

  • negative

    • Most guys I was having sex with used to ask me to lick their a**holes and stick my tongue into their holes and some enjoy when I finger their a**holes too.

    • ... gross in my personal opinion

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