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Guys how would you feel if you saw a girl's period panties?

Yes, this is an embarrassing question, but I think my boyfriend saw my period panties. I'm super embarrassed about it too. Guys, would it make you feel awkward and embarrassed and grossed out if you saw your gf's period panties? Or it wouldn't bother you? Sorry for the awkward question, I'm very embarrassed. I don't think I will ever be able to look him in the eyes.
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Guys, he's still being awkward days later! I think it was disturbing for him. He won't help himself to my stuff and he seem very cautious. This all happened because he asked me where my Nintendo DS was and I told him it was in my closet. He came out and I asked him if he found it and he was like "Nevermind" and was quiet for a while. I went in my closet later on and saw that I forgot to put my underwear away (its a walk in closet but its not huge so there's no way he could have missed them)
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  • Girlfriend, you have no reason to be embarrassed, as a menstrual cycle is our special gift and without it, we wouldn't exist. That said, throw out those old granny and period panties!

    Period PanteeZ are the brand new, must-have Period product! They are a patented triple layered boy short, with an innermost absorption layer that will catch anything your pad misses, in case of an accident. They are perfect for sleeping and exercising in, trust me!

    They are black so they do NOT show stains, WAY comfy, washable, and made really well, in the USA, even! The inner layer is luxuriously soft and the outer layer is really sleek and stretchy, and sucks in your tummy, as an added bonus!

    Just go to their website at periodpanteez 'dot com' and you can buy some in just a couple of clicks. The website is really informative and user friendly, too. The site offers tons of great info, so have your boyfriend read the Dad's section at least, so that he'll be informed.

    Please do not feel embarrassed and know that if he is any kind of semi mature 'man', then he'll understand completely! Think of it this way, if his mom didn't have her period, then we wouldn't be having this discussion! :-)

    Now, go enjoy yourself, Sweetie, and don't sweat the small stuff!

    Get those Period Panteez online asap and worry no more!

  • I don't think it's something you should worry about too much. I mean come on. You are a girl and girls have periods. So naturally there will be some form of evidence of that fact around. If your boyfriend can't accept that then there is something wrong with him. How can you expect to be with a man if you can't feel comfortable enough around him to even mention it.

    It's nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about, that stuff happens. If he happens to bring it up then a way of handling it could be to shrug it off or make a joke out of it.

    I honestly talk about my period to my guy friends and boyfriend all of the time becasue I don't give a flying f*ck. Just don't worry about it too much, it's a natural part of a girl's life, and him seeing your underwear is not something to lose your head over. :)

    I hope this helps you

  • wow I'm shock how guy reply to this question.

    well my boyfriend really don't like it he think its gross ? and he don't even like it when I mention period lol

    • I've never mentioned my period to my boyfriend. Ever.

    • well I was in pain so I accidentally say I'm having period pain ?

    • How old is your bf? Sounds like he is maybe 11 or 12?..O:O

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Take a deep breath and calm down. I understand that would be embarrassing but it's really not THAT bad. All girls get periods and guys know you do. He probably wasn't bothered by it. I've seen period panties before and I just thought "oh I guess it's her time of month" and that's it. Once a girl I'm just friends with forgot to flush the toilet and when I used it next her used tampon was floating in there. I admit I thought that was kind of funny (because I had never seen that before) but I knew she would be embarrassed so I never told her what happened. Seeing her tampon did not change my opinion of her or make me feel awkward, everything stayed the same.

    • Don't worry that he's still acting awkward, he'll get over it. Part of maturing as a guy is getting used to girls and girlfriends having their periods.

  • It wouldn't bother me in the least! It's just natural biology after all.

    I suspect most guys would think it was rather hot actually. Kind of sharing a part of yourself that you normally keep hidden.

    If it was an unexpected encounter where you were both there, he wouldn't be expecting it so might not be sure how to react initially (i.e. might be a little awkward) but if you make no big deal out of it, he shouldn't either. After thinking about it a bit he'll probably think it was kind of cool. Just another one of life's unexpected experiences!

    • It was hidden but he stumbled upon them. I don't know what I should do.

    • Smile at him and wink?

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  • I'm not exactly sure I know what period panties are, I assume, your talking about panties that have gotten blood on them. That being said, it might gross me out a bit, but it wouldn't phase me to much. It's not like we don't know you have your period once a month.

    • Well they're clean panties but I wear them use I'm on my period so they have stains. It's too embarrassing to even say!

    • my answer still remains. Yeah it would prob be a bit gross, but I would just forget about it 10min later. Again, its not like I don't know what goes on down there, and I am fully aware that panties can get "damaged" during that time of month.

  • Men differ on this question. Some will recoil while others, quite frankly, will be attracted.

    You have nothing to be embarrassed about you are simply being female and what is wrong with that?

    Personally, if I had a girlfriend who was having her period I would give her an especially long hug as I would think she may be feeling a little under the weather.

    My advice is to ignore the matter and just behave as usual. Let him raise the subject if he wishes. If he has sisters he will know all about it and if he is worldly wise he will be perfectly OK. Just think, if you were married, it would be a normal routine and seeing some blood on panties is very usual.

    • Ur so sweet :]

  • It is a normal part of married life. I would guess nearly every man that lives with a woman or has been in a serious long term relationship has seen her "other panties".

  • There is nothing to be embarrassed about! It's part of your life! If you really care about a woman, as a guy, why wouldn't you want to know about this? She's going to experience this for most of her life, and it isn't like she is squirting 'penis reduction kryptonite!!'
    Get over it, and be a man!! I've gone out, late at night, to get tampons, and pads and 'female stuff', maybe as a 'test', but why do so many guys cringe at the idea?
    Most of the women I know wear white briefs, during 'that time' just in case, and whites can be bleached clean.
    No big deal!!
    Seriously, If I guy can lift 250 pounds, but can't deal with tampons, or 'period pants' soaking in bleach water, is he really the guy you want?

  • As far as I am concerned...if the male is not mature enough to be totally "non-plussed" about your natural body cycles...then he probably not man enough to deal with all the other aspects of a loving and nuturing mature relationship...

    BTW...in our married relationship...I do the laundry...so this is something whch I encouter on a regular basis...total non-issue...

    • Yeah but you have experience with that sort of thing. My boyfriend is 22 and he doesn't have girl siblings and he's only had one girlfriend before. I feel so ashamed. I guess I have to hide my girlie things better. So embarrassing!

    • Though you do not want to flaunt ..like put it on the bed post...you do not have to feel ashamed...For any male who is 22...even without sisters..or many girlfriends...unless he has lived under some rock...understands about the menstrual cycle...It is as old as the Bible...and a natural as the sun and the moon rising and setting...Trust me...it will never, ever be a dreaded reason why a boyfriend would act badily...just the opposite issue...missing your period...will cause dread/concern!

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