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Guys like virgins or non virgins better?

Do guys like non virgins more than virgins? If a girl is a virgin but knows what she's doing her first time is that better?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Insecure guys will claim that virgins are better because they don't want the girl to be able to compare them (because they're most probably incredibly crappy at sex not going to lie). They also want a virgin because they want to feel like they've actually done something with their life ("conquered" a girl... "first!!1!1!")
    Douche bags will want virgins because they have been misinformed that a vagina loses its tightness after having sex for the first time. Newsflash: no it doesn't, it just stops hurting for the gal after the first (few?) time (s).
    And normal guys won't care if you're a virgin or not as long as you don't have any STDs, and as long as you've been responsible.

    PS. Yes this was slightly exaggerated... but still.

    • Could not have said it better myself.

    • Actually no. It's the only way we can guarantee she hasn't been train-banged by 200 dudes. There is no way to tell between 1 instance of sex and 10000. And because girls lie, man...

    • Also, first love is strongest. Why settle for anything less?

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  • From what I've been told (as a virgin), some guys like the idea of virgins because it means they may be more faithful and not sleep around, aren't diseased, don't have ex boyfriend/baby daddy baggage, etc. But MOST I've talked to don't really have a preference either way in general. Although there are exceptions, like the guys who don't like experienced girls who are promiscuous, or virgins who are actually prudes or flaunt that they're virgins for some kind of attention. I'm neither.

  • Girls who know what they are doing because everyone wants to have a good time ! Valuing someone for something like virginity also reduces people down whether they are male or female , especially if they are female because crazy patriarchal societies have done this to women for a very long time.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Most guys like dating and having sex with virgins.

    Most guys do not particularly like dating and not being sexual with virgins.

    Guys who want hookups tend to be suspicious that virgins will either bail out at the end, or are unable to realistically say if they're comfortable with casual sex or not.

    At some age, guys will begin to suspect its likely a virgin is a virgin because she doesn't have much of a sex drive.

  • Most guys don't care either way, as long as sex isn't off the table for THEM. Many guys won't want to date a virgin (or any other girl) if it means he'll have to have a sexless relationship with her.

    A few guys DO have a preference one way or the other, but they're a small minority.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Don't care either way

  • An honest opinion would be no preference, virgins are exactly the same, just more desirable than those with experience, x

  • My first inclination is a virgin, simply because I'm pretty inexperienced. I'd prefer a non virgin though if she's willing to "teach me a thing or two" as they'll often say...

  • non virgins.. who wants a girl you have to teach how to fuck

    • I do. I would much rather teach her than some other guy. Plus, I'd rather a girl who I GET (not have) to teach how to fuck than one who's all loosened up

  • I seriously, wouldn't do anything with a virgin unless I actually cared for her a lot. I'd feel soo bad If I did it and didn't care.

    You're probably Not going to know what your doing though, to be honest.
    If you're a virgin, stay that way and find someone you love.

  • It will all depend on the age and maturity of the guy.

  • Doesn't matter to me.

  • Dude. Virgins. Who wants sloppy seconds?

    • May be bias but I second this opinion!

    • Exactly. Most girls are aware of its value. I've met 47 year old virgins. No matter how old and wrinkly she is, she still retains the value of being a virgin.

    • i agree ! i prefer virgins too ♥︎

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  • i feel like guys like virgins because they can technically be the best a girl has ever had since she has nothing to compare it too! and i feel like it might be a fantasy to some guys to take a girl virginity

  • only interested in virgins, especially if i have to put a towel down!!

  • they love to see bloodstains on the sheets. just watch their facial expressions when they confirm.

    • Lmao this cracked me up:D

    • I'm not saying that isn't true, but it's totally creepy.

  • both virgins, and non virgins have pros and cons so it all depends. I picked A

  • Virgins are sweeter based on my experience. However, there is less excitement because they don't know what to do

  • No big preference, it's more down to their attitudes towards sex & relationships to me. But if I had to pick one it'd be virgin.

  • Virgins. They aren't as tainted.

  • I prefer a virgin. The more experienced girls that I'm with always end up doing something their last bf (or prob just some random hookup) liked and she assumes I want that too. Usually, I don't.

  • For a hookup, definitely not a virgin, but for a relationship either would work for me.

  • I am a virgin, 20 years old. I have had several chances change that, but I feel like I need to wait for the right girl.

    Personally I want to meet a nice girl, come ot love her.. and experience that with her for the first time with her.

    I am kind of old fashioned, if it were my choice I would stay with said girl my entire life and only have her as a sexual partner, but it this day and age.. I know that will be next to impossible to accomplish.

    So I prefer virgins.

  • Non virgins. I just do not want her to be high mileage before I come along.

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