Guys, masturbating vs. sex?

Question

so guys, what's the difference? how much better is one to the other?Does it feel the same or way different? If a girl was bad at giving bj, would you prefer masturbating?

imjustadude · Accepted Answer

everyone else is right about sex being best, but if cumming is the only goal then masturbation wins that race. it works every time. not that guys just want to come fast, but it is a good backup plan if

1. thrusting goes so long the girl gets sore and she prefers clitoral orgasms anyway.

2. she hasn't quite figured out how to give a good handjob or bj yet.

3. she has an orgasm and can't take anymore.

4. they don't have birth control or a condom.

5. girl is on her period.

i would prefer that she kept on trying other ways besides masturbation but sometimes it can be awkward for her and masturbation gets things done. If a girl can't give a good handjob then she needs to learn what KY liquid is and how to apply it to the head and rub the head around in the palm of her hand. anybody can do that and it works.

and yes masturbation feels different. a firm (sometimes cold) boney hard grip is no where near as comfortable as a hot wet place.

if your guy has to masturbate for whatever reason while you are there, lend him a hand and grip of the shaft with your thumb and index finger while cupping the balls. make sure you are opposite of the hand he likes to jerk it with or better yet sit between his spread legs and shake some boob for him.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

no matter what oral sex is wayy better than masturbating whether she's good or bad. especially if its that girl, if that makes sense. and besides, if she's bad she could always give you a hj anyway. but actual intercourse, you can't compare. intercourse is so much better obv haha. its like tighter.. maybe I can't reaqlly explain

Phoenix1991 · Answer

kind of what the other guy said. it ranks from greatest to least greatest, Sex, blowjob, handjob, then masturbation. Masturbation is something we do to keep ourselves in check till the next time we get some , but of course sex is better.