Guys: Middle of the night sex

[tothebeach]

Guys: do you EVER hate being woke in the middle of the night for sex/blow job? I feel like it is a silly question, but I feel bad waking you up! Also, I am really bad at initiating sex with a guy I only just started seeing. Sometimes I am horny in the morning and you don t initiate sex so I assume you don't want it. I guess what I am getting at - is there ANY time you don't want sex ;)

[MrOracle]

90% of the time, I'm happy to be woken up in the middle of the night for sex, and morning sex is my favorite. Basically, the most arousing thing for me ever is to know that my girl is horny and wants me bad, so that will almost always make me ready to go.

That other 10%, the times when I wouldn't like it, is just if I've been incredibly stressed and/or have missed a lot of sleep and am just exhausted and really need that sleep to be functional the next day. In that case, and only in that case, just let me sleep, and I'll make it up to you as soon as I've recovered.

[BadGrim]

after a loved one died...besides that I want sex all the time. let me think about that...yeah all the time. if I had a women wake me up to give me a blow job in the middle of the night I would marry that chick. I'm getting a chubby just thinking about this...women need to do that more often last time my girlfriend did that I could stop smiling that whole day. what's hot about it is there's no asking no kissing no foreplay just boom we are in play baby. and well lets just say the best part of waking up ain't folgers in your cup. it's sex.

[tothebeach]

I'd like to do it more often, which is why I ask. But interestingly I did it to the guy I have been very casually seeing 2 weeks ago and he is really distant with me the next time I saw him, I thought he'd be back at mine in a flash this weekend but he almost totally ignored me. Anyway. So...middle of the night blow job or sex. Or start with blow job and finish with sex?

[BadGrim]

start with blow job then sex, if he can't appreciate that then there's something wrong with him. if he don't say it I will thank you from men everywhere for being an awesome chick. lol

[Anonymous]

I'd say waiting until morning is better than waking someone up in the middle of the night. My boyfriend is a major horndog, but he is a grouch when he gets woken up unexpectedly. Why on Earth would you need to wake someone up in the middle of the night, when you could wait until you're both awake?

[tothebeach]

This is what worries me! My brain is fighting "men love sex whenever" vs "everyone hates being woken in middle of night"

[Opinion Owner]

So, just wait until morning then? Actually, there is increased blood flow to the genitals in the morning, so it's a prime time for some action. Why the insistance at trying to have sex in the middle of the night?

[tothebeach]

well in this case I wasn't sleeping well. I'm not in a long term relationship so having him next to me is still a novelty which means if I wake up I probably want him. nobody wants to have to wait ;)

[Opinion Owner]

Eh. I think waiting makes it better. The longer I can be horny for my guy, the easier it is for me to climax :D

[kheserthorpe]

Depends on the person. I'd be delighted she _couldn't_ wait till morning.

[Opinion Owner]

I agree. It probably depends on the guy. My boyfriend and I are both in our late twenties, stressful jobs, etc. Sleeping is as important to sex for us most of the time. But, trying it out on a weekend when you can sleep in will help you gauge how much he likes it. Most people won't break up with someone for doing something in bed that isn't their favorite, unless you harm them or violate them in some way.

[scnbabe89]

I don't know about your guy or most guys but my guy won't wake up for anything once he's out he's out it kinda sucks. I loved when my ex used to wake me up in the middle of the night for sex it was hot!

[enlightened]

if it happens quite often then I guess he would mind. keep it rare

[kholland65]

The only time I wouldn't want to be woken up for this would be if I had something really important in the morning and needed my sleep, like a big job interview or meeting, or maybe an early morning plane to catch or something.

[Cryostatic]

There is almost literally NO time that a guy will turn down sex if his woman initiates it. Only in extremely inappropriate circumstances, and even then, it's probably a toss-up.

[kheserthorpe]

Depends more on the person then guys vs. girls.

I'd always be _delighted_ to be woken up.

My current partner, even when our sex life was better, would have been furious and said no.

[Cantremember]

Yes there are times I don't want sex.

No I don't generally have anything against being woken for bj/sex.

Morning: good time.

[sovetskii13]

I would not want to be woken up in the middle of the night for anything. The middle of the night is when I want to sleep/get some rest.

[sunseeker11]

OMG I love being woke up getttin a blow job :)

[normalice]

i actually greatly appreciate it when girls wake me up for sex - especially if they've already got things started before I wake up (i.e. my penis is already nice and rigid and their lips are around it).

[jojobrooks]

I think its great to be woken up to sex or a bj. This has happened to me a couple of times and I liked it. Most of the time men have erections anyways mide as well you'd them.

[mikereno]

I would say, if you are in the mood, then try your luck! Most guys would wake up surprised and very happy. The only time I can think of that we don't want sex is immediately after we have just done it. I bet all the guys are jealous right now lol

[beastman88]

morning wood

[Dragan]

Any time is good for sex

[Anonymous]

I love when my husband wakes me up in the middle of the night for sex. I probably do it just as often as he does. It doesn't matter what's going on in the morning, it's too good to pass up at any time of the day.