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okay recently this guy I'm sleeping with has been coming really quickly and its really annoying me...he said its keeps happening to him since he got dumped by his girlfriend...so can you tell me like why this is happening please.
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  • It could just be that you feel extra good to him and you make him so horny he forgets all about you and just "gets going". Guys can be a little selfish like that, especialløy if we're really turned on. You might encourage him to go slowly with you and take his time. Maybe encourage him to kiss and touch you, and perform oral on you. Mix it up a little. A lot of girls can't feel good from penetration alone. Don't be shy to talk to him, but be smart about and tell him you want to try different things with him.

  • I think it's bullsh*t. He's just using you for his own quick gratification. Any guy can control how quick or slow he comes by stroking fast or slow. Fast quick strokes and he pops! Slow easy strokes and knowing he's about to pop so he stops so he won't pop. Then he picks up again. It's all a matter of control.

    • This is not completely true. Not everyone can control how soon the cum. Some guys not matter how slow they go can go from 0-100 in no time. It;s just like a guy blowing as soon as he's been touched or just even aroused.

    • All that means is he's either a virgin or has no self-control, cracker732.

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  • A bogus answer...that has nothing to do with premature ejaculation...

    ..Suprised that he doesn't go off in his "tous"...Guys in that age group have a "hair trigger'...no pun intended...but yes, when a young guys penis gets near a females pubic hair...the hammer on his 'gun' is already cocked...(again, no pun intended) and the trigger gets pulled prematurely ...

  • how quickly is "really quickly"? are you talking a few minutes or like 30 seconds?

    i used to be very fast, and yeah, I even had a girl break up with me because of it. for me it was because I didn't have any experience . . . and then when I would happen, it'd be super embarrassing and that's all I could think about so the next time I'd have sex it'd be even worse. some guys ARE naturally faster that other, but in most cases it's mental. there are certainly things he can do to get better though, but I know it's frustrating for you.

  • wearing a condom should decrease the sensation and make him last longer. He should also stop thrusting when he feels he is about to come. wait untill it subsides and then start again and wait again and so on.

    It could be that he is stressed or thinking about stuff. When did he breakup with his ex?

  • okay I need a time it takes him to nut?

    also his exact age?

    are you using any lube?

    3 simple questions...plz answer them and I will give you my professional opinion.

  • Maybe he is coming fast because you got that good good...so don't blame him he must be trying hard

  • ewww he just can't last!