Guys that hook up: what do you think about the girl you hook up with?

[Anonymous]

This can range from making out to sex Do you prefer girls that don't hook up? Would you ever think of having a relationship with a hook up?

[Anonymous]

i ost my virginity in a hook up. I now regret it. after it happened, I tried to keep in contact with her, but we both sort of fairly drifted apart. I'm glad I did though since, I didn't really like her, and she didn't really like me. the only reason why I wanted to lose my virginity to a hookup is cause it saves the drama of losing it to a girlfriend that you COULD break up with. if you lose it to a girl who you're currently girlfriend/boyfriend with and you wind up breaking up, well there goes your virginity down the toilet...but now that I look back on the experience I realize it was wrong. that's why I HATE lucky1227 is because I keep telling her that hookups aren't right, all she wants to do is have sex, just so she can say she had sex. and that's wrong.

i have since not had a hookup, and that was a year ago, I prefer girls who don't hookup (accidents are exceptions). and no I would never have a relationship with a girl who hooked up with me, I just don't believe in it, just like I don't believe in fwb

[Anonymous]

Well if she hooks up it means she likes me...

Nope not really

Yes that's what hook ups are for can lead to a relationship...if you really like them.

[Epiphanies]

Guy love girls who hook up... as long as it's not their girlfriends. Guys love to hook up with girls who like to hook up but in a romantic relationship, they'd prefer not to date them.

Out of all the hookups I've seen, about 5% or less will result in the guy pursuing the girl romantically (and it's usually because she's out of his league).

The problem with random hook ups is that he doesn't know much about the girl except for the fact that she will make out with people she just met. That's not something any guy wants in a committed girlfriend.

Of course, this flexes if he's was friends with her previously or knows that she doesn't "usually" hook up but is feeling him (he feels special or something in that sense) etc.

[Asker]

Makes sense

[dreamtime]

What she said