Unfortunately, there is a definite double-standard when it comes to sexuality of men and women. That said, it's OK to sow your oats when you are young, provided you are getting tested regularly and establish from the get-go that it's only physical. Just because you can do something doesn't mean you should. If you are finding yourself lying to women and not respecting them, that's different from engaging in regular sexual encounters. No woman deserves to be lied to or mistreated in any way, especially if they haven't done anything to you but take an interest. Personally, I wouldn't be interested in a guy that sleeps around all the time. But regardless of that, I think it's a different thing altogether to be a liar and to deceive people. That's not honest, it isn't ethical, and it suggests you have deep-rooted issues. If you want to have consensual sex with multiple people, that's fine, but the deception is completely unnecessary and dangerous. Karma is a reality, don't be surprised when your actions come back to haunt you. If you hurt other people and do negative things, your life will be inherently more empty and difficult than it needs to be. Be honest with someone right from the start, let them know you are only interested in a physical encounter, and leave it at that. Lying to people really makes you a fraud and cheap in character, which I hope isn't the kind of guy you are hoping to be.
I think there's nothing wrong with guys sleeping around as long as your up front with the girls about your intentions & don't give them high expectations ir anything. Its different for girls to sleep around because yes they'll be considered a whore but guys the more they sleep around the better their standard (or so many people view it like that). Whether you sleep around because you like the fact of knowing that you've been with a lotta girls or simply because your a guy who just wants to have sex & nothing more it really doesn't hurt anybody or makes you a bad person, in my opinion. As long as both of you are on the same page then hey do as you please. Your a guy you don't have to worry about a reputation to maintain or anything. I know all my guy friends do it as well lmao.
U would really give a guy a pas for being a hoe? Have fun with the man who will cheat on you and give you an STD
what do you plan 2 marry a saint? No disrespect 2 any guys out there but most of d 1 who say that they don't sleep round are because they either lack something (looks,confidence,etc.) so basically they don't have the same options as the 1 (like the question asker) do,there's a huge difference between not being able to f*** as many girls as you want because well udt have what it takes so you just gotta deal with w.e you got than being able 2 do it & actually not wanting 2 & I'll love 2 meet d man who CAN but WONT!
damn spot on kamilah
I think guys like you are disgusting and give girls like me a fantastic reason to treat guys like the dirty ass pigs that they are. I laugh at how pathetic these guys are cause just because they think it makes them more qualified to be "the man". Grow the f*** up.
i do it because I want to, not for my ego, or manhood.
It's still disgusting no matter what your reason is.
Ok, then I sound like a stupid stuck up bitch. I know I have issues with men... severe issues with men. There is a reason behind my logic and you can blame it all on the past experiences I had that makes me the way I am with them.
Oh GAG [Rolls eyes]
Anyway, uhhh... It depends on how I found about it. Like, if he's going around talking about it all the time, then I'll be like, f***s sake. Another one of these slaaaags. But if we're just having an open conversation about lifestyle, or sharing anonymous sex recollections, and he's humble about it, like, not trying to show off, then I'll think he's pretty cool, for doing all that and not talking about it.
I have a friend who's very promiscuous, and he never shuts up about it. And it gets on everyones nerves. I'm very promiscuous, but I never talk about it. All my friends know, nobody has an opinion on it, if anything we bond over it in some ways.
So like, it really depends on why you do it, and how you deal with that side of your life.
great answer. I some what agree. If my guy did what you did (didn't brag about it but talked about it in a humble way) then I would not be so angry with him as I am to this day. You're pretty wise on saying what you did. Great advice, one up.
Thanks, Phil :)
Dude, you are a slut too. So can the "I can have sex with however many girls I want" attitude because it's not going to earn you anything but an STD or two down the road, not to mention women will start to hate you.
It's guys like you that make the rest of us look bad, you dipsh*t.
Finally, a real man with morals.
Amen. I really hate the guys who give the feminists something to bitch about. Looking at his question, I can see why they hate men so much.
hows the nice guy card playing out for you bro?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Not attractive. I don't want to sleep with a man whore. That just makes me think you only use women for the sex, and if I'm going to get into a relationship, it's going to be a real relationship. A lasting relationship that isn't entirely about sex. Besides, you could pick something up during your escapades and pass it along to me. I'd rather not get herpes because you can't keep your d*ck in your pants. :\
no I'm std clean
For now, maybe.
girls any men/women can get STDs! as a matter of fact you'd get an STD from giving a BJ & still be a virgin. I don't know where you girls are getting this idea that just because he sleeps round with lots of women hu MUST have an STD! not true, as a matter of fact, since he sleeps round a lot & knows the risks there exist out there I bet you he takes better prevention that most guys who have only had sex with certain amount of women. Just because he likes sex doesn't mean he's stupid & ignorant lol
The term "Manwhore" exists just for this occasion.
I would not date someone who's been with too many girls. there's always that possibility that they may have an STD or STI and I'm just not game for that.
LOL at the bitches crying because they can't get any.
G'day mate.
hahahahahahaha that was mean sweety, some girls just happened to have really bad experiences with guys & well they tend to judge every other guy by what they experienced lol
Yeah well I think every girl's a bitch then, they keep reinforcing my point.
Well, if you don't count gay sex and group sex, both of which presumably are a small portions of sexual encounters (say < 10%), then the number of total sexual experiences for men and women have to be equal. So are a few men getting a lot of sex from a larger number of women, while more guys get little or none? Or a lot of women seeing a lot of action too.
OK, I'm not sure where I was going with this..
LOOLLL, that's f***ing genius, I never even thought about that before
It's guys like you who cause the spread things like HIV AIDS and Hepatitis because you can and that's a horrible shame.
Does it seem to be preventing you from being in relationships that you'd like to be in? If not, don't worry about it. The reality is that most girls don't care that much as long as you don't cheat.
i would not want to be with a guy like that because I don't like liars. you're the equivalent of a male slut.
personally I wouldn't want to date a guy who has been around the block. They might develop a bad attitude and can't appreciate a girl they date. Or can't commit...along with possible STDs, and yeah lying about how many girls he really slept with. That being said, If I really fall for that person, I probably can look passed his past if he has changed to be mature and serious about only me. But he'll def need to get tested! haha
i always try to leave the girl better off than when I met her, I very much so appreciate girls
I have only slept with one person so far and I'm in my mid-20s. I would never go for a guy that loose.
u are a slut too.. just because you are a man you don't get a pass you get the same tiitle
no I don't think that's right for obvious reasons.
so you can't be a slut? y not? you have never heard of a man whore?
because any girl can get laid at anytime. its not a challenge. second, you have a womb to protect, I dont.
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