Guys: what do you think about girls masturbating?

Do you think its weird for a girl to masturbate? I do it about every other day or whenever I need to. My boyfriend asked me one day if I masturbated and I kinda just changed the subject even though we've been dating 5 months and we're sexually active. Later that day he tried to bring it up again and said that he would like to see me pleasure myself. Is it normal for a guy to want to watch?
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  • Heck no, Think about this, if you really like this guy or love this guy and feel close it, (to me) is the ultimate confirmation that you dig him. It does not mean you are a slut, if you feel that you don't want him to think bad about you then tell him that this is a first for you so please be patience and believe me that will win him over big time (of course lets hope he is just not after a victory).

    Try this. The next time you and him are going to have sex and you are in foreplay have him lay down next you and tell him that you would like to masturbate him while you masturbate yourself, watch the fireworks go off to another level.

    A girl I met in France showed me this and WOW!, anyway Americans are so sexually held back. It is healthy and if you ever get a chance you should watch this clip from a great show called

    "WEEDS"

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FWzOQTFwRBE



    Now this is not only really funny but very factual for both sides. Let me know what you think?

    • I was obsessed with weeds for a few weeks, I watched this clip before but watching it again makes so much sense hahhaah

  • > Do you think its weird for a girl to masturbate?

    No.

    > My boyfriend asked me one day if I masturbated and I kinda just changed the subject

    The weird thing is the number of women ITRW who deny ever doing it to a guy they are intimate with.

    > Is it normal for a guy to want to watch?

    Guys enjoy almost anything normally hidden. There are whole p0rn channels in the UK dedicated to hour after hour of girls w@nking. They stay in business, so there has to be a demand not being met in enough people's real lives.

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  • Of course its normal. I told my friend who I happen to also have sex with once on fb chat

    "Maybe if you're lucky, I'll let you have a viewing ;)"

    " :O!"

    "Haha XD"

    "If you gave me a show id probably jump on you half way through"

    "I wouldn't complain"

    Fact: Guys are turned on by sexy images. You pleasuring yourself is a very sexy image for your boyfriend.

  • Ok, its completely normal to masturbate, and often. I hate the weird idea girls get that for some reason its weird to want to pleasure yourself! Personally, I need to practically everyday! I wouldn't function as a person without it! And why not do it with your bf? Try new things lady!

  • Of course it's normal, and it's normal for him to want to watch!

    But ask youself if you feel comfortable with him watching. If yes--then go for it! But don't do anything sexually that you don't feel comfortable with.

    Good luck!

  • 1. No, it's not weird.

    2. Yes, it's perfectly normal for a guy to want to watch. It's exciting for them AND they get to learn how you like to masturbate. That way, they can pleasure you better later.

    • Definitely. I wish I could see my girlfriend masturbate for that very reason. She's shy about talking about anything sex related so its really hard figuring out what she wants.

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  • YES! awesome! I can't really speak for EVERY guy, but yeah that's a turn on for me anyway. It's good that you incorporate mutual masturbation in your sex life!

    I wish more women were comfortable with masturbating! Its natural!

  • I asked my boyfriend to watch

  • I think that when a girl masturbates personally, it reminds me that I am not dragging her through a sexual relationship, and that she actually has sexual desires herself. By letting me know she does this also suggests that she needs me in this way, as I need her. As for watching, I think that is good, because she looks embarassed and combined with her stimulating herself, it is both cute and sexy.

  • A girl masturbating? It is as normal as a boy masturbating.

    If you had told him, it would've been a turn-on for him. Also, yeah: We looooove to watch. It is a MAJOR turn-on. =)

  • I love it. It turns me on.

    She gets herself heated up, and I'll finish the job myself.

  • No I think it is great if a girl masturbates it means she is in touch with her sexuality probably knows what kind of moods and things turn her on and knows how a orgasm feels all good things. When he asks you don't deny it why bother it will just make your sex life better if you don't have a part of it that is just for you.

    A lot of guys would like to see you pleasure yourself for the novelty of it but also to see how you pleasure yourself because every girl does differently and it shows what he can do to turn you on more. It also opens doors to experimenting in the bedroom which can be fun.

  • not at all I mean who would anybody be if they denied something they do them selfs that's hypocriticial and yeah its normal I mean think about a lot of the p*rn videos out there its just a chick masturbating and a lot of guys watch them

  • Well, I think it's just natural when any girl/woman does it. Really, like brushing her teeth or trimming her nails.

    Now, when a woman wants me to watch her masturbating, well, that is very, very hot!

  • I think it's awesome, I think most girls have or do and just don't admit it. There is nothing to be ashamed of.

  • I think it's awesome. There's nothing more beautiful than a masturbating woman. It's very normal that he'd want to see you masturbate. It's nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed about.Every time a girl masturbates, God gives the world a kitten.

    • LMFAO!! so many kitties lol

    • Rotfl this was too good

    • Lmao! this should be the best answer!! :D

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  • I know my man loves to watch, or see me getting off. He finds it very sexy, and hot. He also enjoys listening to it.

  • I don't like it but its normal if he fingers you himself as far as I'm concerned, but its like 50/50 if you are turned on by it or not. I personally do not get turned on by it, but its totally normal to get turned on by it.

  • No, it's not weird to think of a girl masturbating. Unless a guy is religiously celibate (and even still), it's a major turn on. It's like a guy is getting to see the naughty side of a nice girl which is awesome.

    As for your other question, yes its normal for a guy to want to watch. Getting to "see you in action" so to speak is a form of foreplay that would get both of you aroused before anything even happens.

  • i love it when a girl masturbates...in my many years of sexual adventures (strictly with females) I've realized that all girls masturbate...they're just aloooot more discrete about it than guys, I actually love bringing that side of them out because it shows me the level of trust they have in me...plus it saves me finishing them off lol which means more time for football highlights :D

    • Ahem, OK just kidding but I agree and it shows that she really is into you.

  • Yeah, its a normal thing for both sexes to do. Everybody needs that feeling every once and a while. Guy's just have a harder time hooking up and are more open about it. About the watching thing though I'm not so sure about. I've never had a girl show me her masturbating. Girls in general are too shy for that kinda sh*t.

  • Its only considered weird cos other girls pretend its weird, really. Just about everyone masturbates, male or female, young or old. You can kinda take comfort in that, its a human weakness. And most guys wanna watch, yeahh, its great.

  • I also wonder about if other females of my age mastraubate and sometimes I feel people might be watching or spying on me

  • Why the hell would you not admit it? That is the weird part, it is so frustrating to be a guy who is with a person that cannot even share that fact, if you can't tell him things like that he is going to wonder what else you can't tell him...hell my mind races right now wondering what your hiding, men love masturbation and usually in my experience want to know girls do too and you all hide it for the most part. Perfectly normal, if you want to be diplomatic ask him to jerk off for you while you do the same for him and have fun! :) Throw out your preconceived notions of what is lady like and be open with him, I think you will be surprised how happy he will be.

  • hot hot hot, let me watch, let me help, let me see you getting off :P hah (well for girls I especially wanna be with). If you're just a friend, I'll still thin it's hot, but won't be much more. And yes, we guys love seeing a girl play with herself. Not only do we see what she does to make her happy (so we can then know what to do for her) we also get to see her getting off which is just a huge turn on seeing a girl pleased. It's probably why there are relationships where guys enjoy watching their own girlfriend/wife get f***ed by another guy. Where the sheer pleasure from the woman is more important than them actually doing the screwing.

  • Yes it is a big turn-on. The one girl I was with even masturbated more than I did...there were some times we would like to lie in bed next to each other naked and masturbate and watch the other get themselves off. It was really fun ;)

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