Guys! What do you think of being really rough in bed?

Question

Opinions on girls who like getting choked, slapped across the face, hair pulled, super hard sex, etc?

archer86 · Accepted Answer

I would think that on average, women who like it rough enjoy being around abusive men. I try not to categorize such women that way but it's not easy to avoid it. I'm way too accustomed to women who complain about men that are too rough on them and want a more gentle touch from a man, yet remain in control and dominant. In addition, I'm too afraid of going too far and she walks away screaming assault or end up hurting her! OUCH!

I personally have never been with a woman who likes it rough. The women I have been with have had a few too many rough men and prefer tender loving care. Then again, the women I use...er...um...not saying!

moloz · Accepted Answer

My opinion? It turned me on while thinking about it, that should say enough.

cun7n1nja · Accepted Answer

I like that kind of thing too, and so does my guy. He doesn't like to get TOO rough with me though unless we're both roughing each other up pretty equally, haha, like he won't go as far as hitting me unless I'm going to be hitting him back. Not all the time, I think it's better when it kind of happens out of the blue, big turn-on.

Delaisback · Answer

I think it'd be fun but I don't know many girls that would be able to walk away from all out.

tc1125 · Answer

personally I'm not into that. I don't mind a little bit but nothing that causes pain.  making love shouldn't hurt :)

l-hedoniste · Answer

Whatever turns her on.

Konpachi · Answer

To be perfectly honest I don't prefer being rough in bed. It think pulling hair and maybe spanking is cool but choking and slapping is pushing it and the rougher I am with the actual sex is the more it feels like I'm not being respectful of her body and the fact that I may possibly be hurting her.

maroon12west · Answer

I'd be curious to do those sorts of things in the sack. But I might be a little too timid to initiate that kind of force onto a woman for fear I might really mess her up a little too far.

I wouldn't mind her doing those kinda things to me though ;)

Belgie · Answer

I like them. I've never dated a girl who liked it so rough that we needed a safe word or anything, but I do love a choker.

Nate484 · Answer

I'd NEVER do it without her asking. And yes... Some have asked to be rough. And yes... I've done it.

DrLover · Answer

Well, I have had a couple girlfriends that really really liked it hard and yeah I liked that, it was fun, but I don't like the other stuff.

hALLDAY · Answer

As long as it doesn't inflect pain on her, we're good to go. Though, I would never slap someone across the face, love taps on the but or slight hair pulling is hot.