Guys, what goes through your head during sex?

What is the interior monologue? What do you guys think about?
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  • Unlike girls, who often report thinking things like "Does he like me?" "He just kissed me there; what does THAT mean?" and other "deep thoughts", guys think NONE of that, EVER.

    Guys are almost always completely in the moment when having sex. They are thinking about how hot you are, how nice your [insert body part] is, how good you feel, how good you are making them feel, etc. A few (inexperienced/insecure) guys may be trying to keep track of their "sexual game-plan" too, as best they can between the other thoughts. Meaning, they're trying to remember stupid things like "give both breasts equal attention" or "remember to try this technique that my buddy talked about".

    Almost never will a guy be thinking about the state of your relationship, the deeper meaning of the way you kissed him, or what a particular sex position says about your personality. To a guy, that's like solving a calculus problem while you're riding a roller coaster: WAY too much to think about when you're trying to concentrate on having a good time.

    • don't put us all in one group man, we're not at all all the same.

    • You're right. I *was* exaggerating a bit. But most guys tend to be more in the moment. Many girls struggle with being in the moment during sex...

    • Oh, I did not realize that you were a girl. Note the sarcasm? How the hell would you know what goes through my head, little own every other girls head when I/they am/are f***ing? You don?t. Not all girls are into that sappy sh*t guy?s like you believe us to be.

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  • For me only one head can work at a time, I didn't know both could work in conjunction D:

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  • i think about a MacDonalds burger, or that she got too many teddy bears and they watching me.. and then sometimes I look in to her eyes , and think how did I get this lucky..

  • Damn your **** feels good. I don't ever want to trade you in. What do you mean faster? My erectile dysfunction will kick in. Mmmm. Oh wow. You're so hot.You didn't come did you? Too late - thar she blows!

  • OH SHIT OH SHIT OH SHIT! I gotta last at least 25 more minutes =P lols naw I don't really think just look at her like crazy love to see the way she reacts

  • i think, I'm having sex, cool.

    or dam she's got a nice ass

    or dam p**** feels good

    or man... sex is overrated at f***

  • how she feals

  • If it's the first time with a girl - "I can't believe this is happening!" LOL

    • yeah I think that too!

    • exactly what I thought when I first did it haahahaha

  • Well it depends, my girlfriend is the only sexual parter I've had and vice-versa and having sex with her is amazing but when I think it's usually about how awkward it is that I'm thinking because when sex is the best for me, I don't think.

  • hmm are we supposed to think? its such a great time that we usually don't think

    • Meet Ron Romanovsky. His song, "Don't Use Your Pen1s for a Brain"

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  • well if I really think the girls sexy, the only thoughts would be

    DAMN I LOVE THIS TIGHT ASS!

    but on the other hand if I'm kinda bored of the girl, Id probably be thinking about my next week's budget...

  • i once had a friend who didn't like sex because he kept thinking about his mom

    • eww

    • hot lol no jk