I'll give you a few tips, but all of them pale in importance next to this one: enjoy yourself! What we are most concerned about, is that you like it. We want you to have cast off all social inhibitions in favor of the awesome feeling of having our c*ck in you. Do what feels good to you, and keep doing it until it feels even better. That's how we know you have lost yourself in our c*ck, and that means everything to us (subconsciously, anyway..)
But, some other tips: whatever you do is likely to require some physical endurance. To that end, you shouldn't expect much of your first time: the idea is once you've done it a hundred times, you'll be a pro at this. Focus on the goal and don't get discouraged from this 'practice' encounter.
related to the first (I mean the first-first tip), a specific way it can feel good to you is through 'hard' encounters (i.e. not mere sliding, but actually rubbing/grinding the c*ck into some inner wall). If you can set some preference to movement that accomplishes this, he's going to get off faster, if that's any measure of 'success' on your part..
Movements are simple. Up/down, forward/back, left/right, and any combination thereof. Pace, I'll just say, is "as fast as you can maintain for as long as you intend to ride him." We like it hard, so if pleasing him is the goal, that's the way to do it.
so you guys like fast up and down slamming movements? That's when I hear him moan, but whenever I'm just grinding I don't think he enjoys it...
we do. usually we like to do that ourselves, though - we prefer to do the pushing when it comes to the rough stuff. And it is also true that most of the time we just want to do it ourselves. Especially when we are really horny - relaxation is not that easy for us during sex. But it's also not impossible. This could be the hang-up, if you are having issues. Maybe he's just too young to let himself relax. well, I say "we", but it could just be me..
Just make yourself comfortable.If you're enjoying it,he probably is too.
If he likes it faster or slower,he should let you know.If he likes anything different,he should let you know and suggest something else.Like you say,everyone is different.
You can even ask him if he's comfortable.Just say "Is that comfortable for you?".He should be able to give you an honest answer.He'll probably say that's as good as it gets.
I feel the same way girl! I'm always worried that I'm not doing it right, but like the other guys said: just do what feels good to you and I'm sure he'll enjoy it!
Would work better if your guy friend would give you the pointers of what is working and what isn't as you are sitting on his pole riding it.
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Start off by taking him deep inside you, then slide up to the tip, back down and when you're all the way back down, tighten your vagina muscles at the same time you slide back up. Keep repeating that and also mixing in just your normal riding technique. Trust me, you don't need to do anything spectacular, the mere fact that you'll do this position for him is going to be good enough. If you can get the vagina tightening thing down, you'll blow his mind. My wife's great at it.
Hands on my chest for support, moderate speed, front to back motion instead of up and down.
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