Guys: What makes a girl good in bed?

What types of things makes a girl good in bed? Things girls are willing to do, stuff like that. Thanks:)
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  • In order.

    1) Attitude, When a girl is confident in her sexual abilities and isn't afraid to talk just the right amount of dirty and/or moan. She knows that you are loving what she is giving you and she its loving it just as much as you are. It all boils down to sexual confidence DON'T BE SHY. The more comfortable she is the more comfortable I am going to be and the sex will be great. Know how to turn your guy on, look him in his eyes and tell him you want him to f*** you, tell him how hard you want it faster or slower, tell him how much you love his d*** or how much you want it inside of you.

    2) Sexual Ability, Some girls simply have better sexual ability than others. To be blunt some just know how to f*** better than others. When a girl is good at riding it is almost amazing, also some girls are better at pushing back during doggy style and staying in sync with intercourse. Know how to switch speed, learn how to grind into the intercourse (almost like dancing). To top it off make sure you know how to give head.

    3) Relationship, This isn't directly involved with sex but it is huge. If I really like a girl and think she is beautiful the sex is going to be that much better because we are both so eager to actually have sex. If I'm having sex with a girl I don't like it just isn't the same and I'm sort of just going through the motions, there is litte to no emotion involved. Sometimes emotional sex is some of the best sex you will ever have.

  • Many have already said this, but I'll say it again.

    Enjoying it yourself - Don't be self conscious about your body. If you're worried about whether or not your butt looks big when he takes you from behind you're not going to enjoy it. He doesn't care if your butt looks big, most guys aren't thinking about that at that point. Be confident, get on all fours, look him in the eye and tell him to f*** you hard.

    Willing to try new things - You won't know if you don't like it until you try it. Don't be ashamed of it if you do like it. If he asks you to try anal and you like it, tell him you like it, don't be embarrassed.

    Get in to it - Don't just lay back and expect him to do all the work. Change positions, tell him you want him on his back so you can have a go on top. If you want to suck his d***, tell him, don't just wait for him to ask you.

    • It's funny that you mention the conscious and insecurity a girl has about her bum :P It's so true ! I sometimes feel insecure about certain flaws, it usually doesn't stop me from having a good time but is that what a guy really thinks? He doesn't care or notice these flaws?

    • Honestly, I don't care and most wouldn't notice. Think about it, we struggle to notice when you've coloured or cut your hair and these are obvious. Girls spend hours in front of a mirror 'discovering' their so called flaws. We don't spend hours looking at you, we take a glance, notice that you're attractive and move on. Just get in and have fun, don't be embarrassed and don't take yourself too seriously... if you do a fanny fart, laugh about it and move on.

    • No, Crazie, it seems generally agreed that if we get you (girls) naked in bed we don't care about your stretch marks or even notice them.

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  • The biggest thing is attitude and enthusiasm. Be confident about your body and his, and enjoy what you're doing. Don't be afraid to make noise, to move his hand or mouth to a place where you'd like it to be, to switch positions or try new ones, and just let yourself go.

    You could be the best in the world at sex, but if it seems boring or like "work", it isn't going to be sexy. And you could be inexperienced and mediocre from a technical point of view, but enthusiasm will more than make up for that until you've had a chance to get some experience and improve.

    Communicate, verbally and through actions and body language, so that your partner knows if what he's doing is working for you, and pay attention to his feedback to see if what you're doing is working for him. It won't be hard to figure it out.

  • If she's good at oral and she does whatever the guy asks, it cannot get any better than that. Provided that you're lubricated at all times. Guys generally like having sex at all because it's better than masturbating. As long as you don't hurt him (and in some cases, HURT HIM!).

    ~Distant

  • Give it a chance.

    Whatever it is, if it won't seriously injure you, give it a chance. Let's talk about it, learn about it, try to work it out.

    The girls who give an instant "no", a "I'm not that kind of girl", a "why isn't 'normal' sex enough for you?", a "I thought you loved me, so why do you want this?", I throw them overboard, immediately and happily. There's better out there, much better.

  • Confidence and abilities. I love girls who can 'take the reigns' (usually whilst I catch my breath haha) for a bit. Teeth and nails... USE THEM! For me being bitten and raked (they can't be little scrathes, you have to get your nails right in, apply anti-ceptic to them afterward ;) hahaha) is like an additional source of energy, the pain drives you on

    And as for things they'll do... 'Arse, mouth' says it all. Love a girl who isn't shy about the taste of her arse ;)

    • i think that a girl that doesn't mind trying new things makes a great girl in bed... well that's if the bed is what you fancy ;)

  • Anal Skills!

  • 1. Ur p**** should be clean, and lickable

    2.Learn how to take control of the act in time...

    3. Understand his body, know when he wants to come and help him control it if possible.

    4. Guys really don't like acrobatic display, so don't be fooled.

  • It might sound like a crap answer, but watch a bit of p*rn, it will give you some ideas. I'm sure some of these ideas are already running through the boys head you may be with at the time as we all watch p*rn. happy shagging

  • being excited and adventerous.

  • tight pussy, good rhythm. Knows how to back it up and work her ass right. Down for whatever her man wants to do. Open about what she wants. Sexually confident. Private and discrete. Uninhibited. Looks are important too but not as important. Its more about sex appeal and sexual confidence. That is what makes it hot.