Guys, what are most girls like in bed with sex? What's your dream girlfriend with sex?

I'm curious. I haven't slept with many guys but my two boyfriends who have slept with a lot of women both said I was the best they ever had (they are saying this, not me so I am not full of myself, just curious). What is the average girl like in bed? How adventurous are they, what do they do and how much do you feel the average girl likes sex? What is your dream girlfriend when it comes to sex? Just curious!
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  • After getting their chemical high that sex gives (specially a climax), any guy will sing praises to the woman he's with. He'll tell her he loves here. The real test is the one-day-later, six-months-later, six-years-later test.

    In my experience, women are great in bed in the initial stages of a relationship. It perhaps has something to do with the fact that they have to 'catch' a guy fine, if the relationship is to survive. They work real heard on it. Not just physically, and sexually, but also by saying all the right things and boosting the male ego to sky-high. You feel ten feel tall, and its lovely...

    But time wounds all heels, as they say. After 3-4 years, the boredom sets in . Women don't get as much a high from the relationship. They don't have to prove themselves. After 7 years, there's usually a bad crisis, if it continues so long.

    When kids come along, it gets worse. The woman usually gets her emotional needs met from the joint-products-who-turn-into-rivals-for-daddy

    If you're into a relationship/marriage for 14-16 years, you can see a whole lot of women going off the handle, saying the most rude and hurting things in bed (relating to sexuality, and what not). While society talks about men cheating, mid-life crisis, etc, nobody asks really why this happens!

    I'm sure some other men who've been through this would be able to agree...

  • It is pretty standard to tell a partner they are good in bed, even if they suck. it is a better indicator to check how often people want to sleep with you more than once.

    Most women are not very good in bed. There is a number of reasons for this but a great deal of it boils down to not being comfortable with sex or their bodies. The majority of women will respond only if given direct instruction and often lack technical skills that make a difference.

    Since I have slept with a number of women who were wonderful, I do think the common thread is that those women really wanted to be having sex with me. They revealed in their bodies and what they could do with them.

    Oh, and I married one them.

    • interesting...

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  • There were three guys who told me they've never knew more sexy girlfriend that me and I'm the best. I'm just wondering, maybe I'm not the only one they told the same thing? ;)

    Sorry for not answering you question, this "they said I was the best" just reminds me of my past adventures :)

    • Ha ha you are probably right :) It was actually a guy long before my current boyfriend who married my friend and told his best friend in our circle of friends that out of the 300 women he'd slept with I was the best! Which I found out recently and kinda scared me...I never knew he was such a slut and I was just curious. For all I know I'm a dud! lol it was a simple curiosity...thanks for your answer :)

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  • Average girls in bed are really boring.

    I agree with the guy answering that the first sign if a girl above average in bed is her enthusiasm to have sex. This type of girls, even if they lack skills, will get better with time and become great sexual partner because they enjoy it!

    i love sex and to me it has to be often, fun, exciting, exhilarating. for that you need a girl who loves sex as well. Once you both love sex things get so good it's addicting like crazy for both.

    So, If a guy doesn't come back for more sex it's usually because he didn't have a great time before.

    And I also agree, once you found a keeper you want to keep having sex with her and if you also like her as a person then chances are you will want a serious and commited relationship with her. At that point why go for McDonald while you have the finest and most delicious meal at home ?!

  • The average girl:

    -a poor communicator who expects you to read her mind

    -full of hangups

    -vaguely hostile and/or guilty toward sex

    My dream girlfriend

    -says what she wants, asks what I want

    -will at least *talk* about sexual variety

    -likes boys who like her, and isn't afraid to show it

    I don't deal with average girls anymore; there's dream girls aplenty out there.

  • I am the best. *takes a bow*

  • Why do you want to be like "the average girl in bed?"

    Your boyfriends probably screw like jackrabbits with the lasting ability of Speedy Gonzales. Any dirty sausage swinger (like your boys) who have racked up enough notched in their belts have never had a long lasting relationship, and, therefore, have no idea how to treat a lady. This also means that they have no care with what it takes to actually PLEASE another person because they are too worried about their own self pleasure.

    If you are really "just curious," then you should 'just be curious' about how wonderful sex is with a person who genuinely gives a crap about you, and not just about getting their nut. You should have walked away at, "my two boyfriends who have slept with a lot of [women]." You got the term [boy] right, but you failed using the term [women] when referring to whom they have slept with.

    • No offense but I am just bored and this was a curiosity and last time I checked this was a website where we helped each other, not made attacks on different people's core values. I don't want to be the average girl in bed and I do have a very wonderful loving partner...I've never cheated and I have very high morals. I was just wondering what the average girl is like...I have no idea if I'm average or not, that's why I was asking what other girls are in to because I've never slept with a gal :)