Guys, what is so sexy about sitting on your laps?

[Anonymous]

the other day a bunch of my friends and I were at a barbecue. we had just gotten out of the pool to eat. my boyfriend was sitting and there were no more chairs left so that I could eat. so I sat on his lap and he got a boner.( I wasn't really surprised though cause I was wearing a bikini.) I was really turned on and when I leaned back into his chest he whispered in my "whatever you do, don't get up until I say so" I smiled at him and laughed and knowing that I was in control kinda felt good. after "it" diffused I got up. I'm pretty sure he was really turned on cause when we got to his apartment we got it on. but I'm still a bit confused. why do guys get boners when a girl sits on their lap? is it the closeness of their genital parts? cause I'm pretty sure that even if I wasn't wearing a bikini it wouldn't have made a difference. and do guys mind if girls sit on their laps when their friends are around or only in private?

[Trihill]

you're correct in physical closeness and it doesn't really matter what you're wearing either, although the lesser the better the effect...as for when to do it, really doesn't matter when or who as long as both partners are comfortable with it...one exception might be the parents present

[jezzer82]

Having a girl sit on your lap is sexy. You have a beautiful girl close to you. Remember that men are programmed by evolution to have sex whenever the opportunity arises to hopefully continue the species.

[hsshannah96]

My first ex just got up with me when I did that and started to have sex with me. Be seriously careful with that...

[SomeOtherGuy]

Doesn't matter to me where and with who, but I'll have to think fast on my feet to not be embarassed. Also it might matter how you're sitting.

I think it's the closeness, the friction. Honestly the fact that your bodies are parallel and practically touching. It's very hot.

[mf-ibmj]

only in private,

the reason is what you said, the friction you cause on our privates,

it happened to me once, and it was so embarrassing !

[pilot433]

Tell you the truth I like tht size better than bigger ones

[Asker]

What size?

[pilot433]

I wasn't paying attention and put this on the wrong question forum

[Asker]

Oh kk

[Asker]

Oh kk.

[EtherBot]

Oh kk.

[EtherBot]

Because A. A girl is ON TOP OF YOU
And thats like it.

[stalinhornsby]

Guys only let girls in bikinis sit on there laps ; and yes, he was wet and turned on by how you looked in your swim suit.

[chiefnavarro]

the pressure on the mons feels good. that's why we like full penetaration

[SDiego]

Definitely hot. It's closeness, pressure, and friction, and the mental image of just how close we are...

[Anonymous]

You're a hot girl, I'm assuming, he's straight. Why wouldn't he get hard. I'd be worried if he wasn't