GUYS; when you masturbate, do you think about your crush?

If you are single and you have a huuuge crush on a girl for a long time. Do you fantasize about her?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I agree with what the answers say below...

    * For a guy like me, I need something more visual! A naked woman would make more sense than my current crush! Please don't be judgmental towards me. That's how males are made, I guess... with the visual element dominating!

    * For women, it's probably a more emotional thingy. I know women who would get more turned on by the idea of their current crush, rather than some random naked male.

    Women are just different in this regard. To get off, I really need something very visually stimulating. P*rn would do. Moving images, better!

  • after a hot shower or long day, I might have some "fun" but I never think about a girl I might have a crush on or plan to date eventually. Its not right, I would never even think about her naked or anything sexual related. That's how some people develop an obsession for someone and start to stalk someone.

Most Helpful Girls

  • awwww, that's really sweet when I read most of the guys here feel guilty whenever put his crush into his fantasy, it's so cute and surprising. I guess we, the girls also always misinterpret guy's behavior. and plus... girls usually fantasized her crush in sexual imagination whenever she thought about that lolz

  • It sounds kind of perverse but my boyfriend and I have lived in different cities for the summer, and he's asked for some dirty pics of me, but I like that he could fantasize about anyone but wants to think about me.

  • I'm surprised that a lot of guys are saying no :o I thought everyone did that, haha.

    • Yeah, I am surprised too. Maybe they are all lying

    • Same. I didn't know they diffentiated sex and emotions as random girl vs crush. As with females I see we mix them both. So fascinating.

    • No some boys think that it is wrong to imagine naked to whom u love but some times it happens bcos first we imagine just like we are flirting with her and spending time kiss and like in real sometime we move for more but not everytime like that but after we regret it a lot bcos we love her truly and this type of guys is rare who really love truly in this generation

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  • I may fantasize about her but I will never masturbate thinking about her, I usually masturbate and think about girls that I don't like that much, girls that I like only sexually. With the crush I want to see her in front of me while I do it inside of her.

  • I don't, so I can be sure that my feelings for her are not mere lust :) Once I feel its the right time to tell her that I like her, though, I jack away endlessly, but that's different. She usually knows I'm doing it by then anyway.

  • Yes. It's strange because she doesn't get tiresome to think about.

    I feel like a psycho stalker because of this.

  • Not very often no. If there's a girl I know and I want to have sex with then I do but that's not really a crush right? It's just someone who you think about sexually, like the girl next door or the co worker.

  • I'm not a guy but yeah, I do that if I really fancy the guy.

    • Yes! :-)

    • Yeah! :-)

    • Hooray!

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  • never... i wouldn't want to taint what feelings i have for them and have them be obscured into a sexual fantasy

  • I masturbate anyway and sometimes I can't help a crush coming into my thoughts, then I imagine having sex with her

    I always feel a little guilty afterwards

    • Why do you feel guilty?

    • Because I don't think about her just in that way and wouldn't want to just have sex with her, I'd want a relationship first then maybe sex

    • Aw, that's cute.

  • When you really like a girl, it's pretty hard to visualize her as nothing more than a sexual object.

  • I did once, it made me feel like guilty and like a creep. meh.
    Since then I made a rule for myself not to ;s for the same reason as Pheonix1991.

  • HELL NO NOT ONCE

  • no I usually like her non sexually I save that for later

  • yes

  • Yeah of course we do, haha, but now I don't have to fantasize anymore.

  • Yes. But I might also be getting off to the thought of her friend, or my ex, or my neighbor or Jessica Alba or...



  • Sometimes I have sex dreams about my current crush and wake up with an extra stout erection which demands my attention.

    • Then what? huh? huh?

    • Good things happen then I end up full of shame

  • Yeah.

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  • Lol yeah. (Filler)

  • YES YES YES!

  • Yes. I am obsessed with my crush already and there is nothing I can do. So, just embrace the madness, with a grain of salt.

  • Actually, my crush is the very reason I've decided to not masturbate at all.

    • I know it'll be hard. For the first 5 months I masturbated to whatever I liked. Then I started feeling bad for lusting over other girls/women. Even though, I think about pornstars more of like objects. So, I masturbated to the pictures of my crush for a short while. I felt bad for doing it, it was disrespectful. I have more respect towards her than the pornstars, way more respect. I can't do that to the girl I love. Then I decided to not masturbate at all. It's been a few days since I made the decision and so far I haven't masturbated. I'll try my best.

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