Nothing feels better than the Vagina, receiving a blowjob is more than just feeling good.
The first reason is submission. In order for you to give your man oral sex, you have to be vulnerable to him, and you have to submit to him. This is one quick way for a man to feel more like a man; having a woman give him oral sex.
The visual aspect of submission is also a factor. For example, if a woman kneels before a man, this indicates that she is completely submitting to him, and giving him power/letting him dominate.
Another reason is that the act of being given oral sex is a symbol of admiration for the man. Without being rude or unnecessarily graphic, a man’s penis is as close to the heart of his manhood as you can get. Men subconsciously or consciously see it as part of what makes them a man. If a woman rejects this part of him, it leads him to think that she is not attracted to him, or that she doesn’t love him.
Women often perceive love in different things than what men do (obviously). A woman may perceive love in a man taking the time to listen to her, buy her gifts, take her out, commit to her, protect her, talk to her, put her first, hug her, caress her, call her, write her letters, making the first move, being the rock and the leader in the relationship, complimenting her, etc.
In most cases a man gets a lot of his needs met through sex. It is much easier to have a healthy relationship when you understand this.1 1 0 2In most cases a man gets a lot of his needs met through sex. It is much easier to have a healthy relationship when you understand this. Interesting perspective you have... can you elaborate?
The reason is because men don’t generally communicate to other men the way women communicate with other women (and men). It’s hard for a man to go to his guy friends to talk, to connect and to feel loved. The masculine energy is all about getting things done, moving on to the next challenge, putting an end to things and letting go. The feminine energy doesn’t let go, it holds on. This holding on entails the emotional side of things.
Girls are much more emotional creatures, and simply don’t need sex to feel regularly connected to other human beings. (Not that men cannot connect with others through talking too). The difference is that men do. This is one of the primary ways in which men can feel connected to, and loved by their woman.
For me it's not better, it's just different. There's a huge psychological component to it too - it's a huge ego boost to have a girl wanting to take me into her mouth. I make it a point never to ask for head so when it happens I know she really wants me that way and it makes it all the better. Now, if the girl happens to not be very good then it might get a little boring but in general I've been lucky in this respect. And that ego boost thing also applies if she swallows. It just makes me feel all the more desirable.
Sex and blow jobs each have their own place. There's plenty of time for everything. Pretty much all the girls I've dated loved having oral sex performed on them too so I don't think it's just guys.0 2 0 1
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0 14not gonna lie. it feels better
0 4 0 1Oh NO , Blowjobs feel great, Vagina feels beyond great, Awesome is just an understatement. Blowjobs relaxes men, like a back massage just sexually, It relieves us men from stress. A vagina on the other hand is all of the above including a workout . =)
1 2 0 2When a girl does it right it is almost as good as sex without a condom without the preggo worries. I would take a proper BJ over sex most anyday but with that said sometimes I want the added effort of satisfying my girl with sex.
0 0 0 0Sex is better than BJ.
0 2 0 1i prefer vag
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