Guys: why is it he came faster through head versus actual sex?

I know its like great another sex question but I'm super confused. Me and my boyfriend were having sex and it was hurting like crazy. He's really big and I haven't had that many partners. I didn't even say that to him and he was like wow your like the tightest girl ever. He said he loved it. But o god it was so painful! I couldn't even take him all in. Anyways, I know he didn't come. And we did it for a while. Well, we took a break and got up to do stuff. We came back and put on a movie. I was just trying to be nice so during the movie I went down on him. omg he was like so excited like he was making noise and really getting into it lol. I mean its not like I could put it all in my mouth. He ended up coming in like less than 5 min. So does head just feel better or something than sex? Its not like the pressure was the same. guys what's the deal?
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  • I'll take a shot at this one even though I've done neither of those.

    If you think about it, it does make sense that oral would feel better than sex for both girls and guys. After all instead of having to thrust, you have your partner's soft, wet tongue on your penis / clitoris the whole time. It kind of focuses the sensations like a laser beam on the most sensitive area of the body. The glans of the penis and the clitoris are very similar (they're actually the same for a time when we're a fetus). They both respond better to soft touch than hard pressure.

    Vaginal tightness can be good in the sense that it creates more contact between the penis and the walls of the vagina. The opposite is the dreaded "I didn't even feel it" problem. But when it's so tight that it's painful for the woman I would guess that it has to be at least uncomfortable for the man as well. The head of the penis is at least as sensitive as the walls of your vagina so if there was too much friction for you there probably was for him also. Plus (and correct me if I'm wrong ladies) I'm guessing you probably don't get too wet while you're in pain which would only make things even less comfortable.

    Most girls need clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm and can't come by penetration alone. I'm sure if you asked most girls they'd say they preferred oral too. Don't be offended if the sex didn't go so well. It doesn't mean your bad at it. He's just too big for you. If he enjoys oral more, there's nothing wrong with that and it's not an affront to you.

  • Depends. Sex with a condom is sometimes kinda "numb" compared to a nice BJ. Message me if you want more details :)

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