Guys will say anything for sex. TRUE OR NOT?

explain. thanks
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okay lemme rephrase it. SOME guys will say anything for sex. True or not? explain why. thanks
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what about SOME guys will DO anything for sex. like going through drama and bullsh*t? like pretending? it's different with actions because it speaks LOUDER. True or not. Thanks :)
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  • SOME guys will say anything for sex.

    TRUE.

    They give us all a bad name.

    Usually these guys do not have very high self esteem, they think no woman would ever want to have sex with them if they told the truth, especially if they admitted that they do not want a long term relationship, they just want to shag for one night and that's it. So they lie and say whatever they think a girl wants to hear.

    Other guys have figured out that women actually enjoy sex and they do not have to apologize for it. These are the good ones.

    But yes, SOME guys will say anything for sex, they cause a lot of problems, because they will leave women ffeeling used then the women won't trust the genuinely good guys who come along later.

    This is a tangent, but ironically the men who women are most likely to distrust are he most trustworthy ones. The guys who will lie have a lot of practice at lying, so they are good at it and don't get caught much. The guys who rarely ever lie are often viewed with suspicion by women because they do not have practice at speaking the truth in a convincing way.

    ...what tangled webs we weave.

  • SOME guys do say anything. TRUE.

    Because they made it their goal to sleep with everything that moves and do not care about any girls feelings. It's mostly because they've been scarred by some other girl before and can't commit because of that.

    I don't say anything for sex... I've repeatedly told girls that I'm not willing to commit or that I'm just looking for a one-night-stand BEFORE sex and they had sex with me anyway. Therefore I don't see a real point in it other than wanting to hook up with needy chicks who are desperately looking for love.

    I've noticed, however that one girl ignored what I told her and didn't understand me leaving early the next day although I was being clear about my intentions (she never said anything but looked a little sad and disappointed). Therefore I'm not sure if you'd consider me one of the guys who say anything if you were her.

    I'm however not afraid of commitment and would love a faithful relationship. It's just that if you see it would not lead anywhere, you tell them right away.

    • really? You'd sleep with girls and warn them ahead that it is JUST for sex? You act like you're really in demand. I hope you're really goodlooking, or else there wouldn't be any point for a girl to sleep with you. Me personally there's no point in sleeping with a guy who just wants to sleep with you for a one night stand, unless it has something for me too. If it's the sex the guy wants from me and nothing else, then he has to have something for me too, that being he needs to be VERY goodlooking in order to pull that. For example you need to be Chris Colfer handsome/goodlooking to use me because I'd like bragging rights too, like "I got a really goodlooking man to SLEEP with me!!!" rather than an average Joe...

    • @GirlForCase This is all out of curiousity no hard feelings but. Are you VERY good looking? Even if he is not good looking. Why should that influence him being honest with a girl or not?

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  • I wouldn't say "anything" but a lot of guys just think no strings sex is as good for you as it is for them, so they will whisper sweet nothings and give an impression, intentional or not, that they see you as more than a sexual plaything.

    As a woman, the way to avoid a deal that does not work for you is to keep sex out of the picture and focus on dating a guy and developing an emotional connection. Guys who are just out for sex with you won't want to do much dating, they won't remember details about you or your life, they will be unreliable and flake out on you and stop seeing you for regular dates quickly if you are not putting out. They also tend to be all fluff and no substance. They can come on strong and say a lot of things that reek of love at first sight, but a guy who is really in to you will continue to wait to have sex. A guy who just wants sex will lose patience if their "act" doesn't get you to drop your panties immediately.

  • welll. I'm going to have to say, half do half don't.

    one of my ex friend's is always giving blowjobs.

    [ haa, most guys are probably thinking oh sh*t give me her number.]

    mmkay, no.. that's not a good thing.

    i understand gurrrls get called sluts and everything, for doing stupid sh*t.

    but we mostly do that, becuase the things guys say.

    BACK TO MY EX FRIEND.

    here is an example of her..

    she is texting a guy..

    guy: hey what are you doing?

    her: nothing chillin hbu?

    guy: same wanna come over?

    her: sure what are we going to do.

    OBVIOUSLY SEX ER SOMETHING IT'S 2:30 in the morning.

    guy: oh idunno hangout talk.

    her: alright.

    SHE GOES...

    he pretty mcuh said "suck my d***"

    but she hears inher mind "your beautiful"

    iduno things guys say can being just inthe jist of the moment.

    //xx <3

    • Thats the one thing that I hate. girls called names like that just because she did this guy a job. its so immature. both of them enjoyed it so why the name calling? it should go both ways. the girl is a slut? then call the guy a pervert.

    • Yeah, guys wouldn't have to say all this crap if girls would just give it up easier!

  • TRUE TRUE TRUE. So many of my girlfriends have told me that they lost their v card because a guy has told them that they love them, want to get married one day. Of course none of these guys lived up to their word. Guys will say anything to get into a girls pants. Most guys are extreme perves who will bend backwards to get a girl in the sack.

    • Wolf in sheep's clothing like they say

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  • yep, especially if he's a player.

  • Yes I think it's true, but I don't think that girls will say anything for sex. Its a lot easier for a girl to get some then a guy.

    • Like the saying goes, "the man wears the pants, but its the woman who controls the zipper." lol

  • Not all guys

    • Well I didn't say ALL did i? so its true to some yeah?

  • Definitely not all guys.

    A guy that is truly into you will recognize that sex is only one part of a meaningful relationship and won't be pressuring you. A guy that's not will see sex as the "goal" and do whatever it takes to get there.

    • This makes a lot of sense. yeah like the games they play right? pretend to like u, say anything just to make you feel good then f***s you then leaves like nothing happened. there should be a warning sign on these d***'s forehead to protect women.

  • True.

    Because guys put lust before...well...everything haha

    • Wow is that so guys?

    • No it is obviously total cr@p.

    • I believe u

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  • To an extent, if I am dating or meeting a girl who I don't have any intent to go further than sex and she's seems willing and able, I'll go ahead and slime ball my way into the sac.

    And if it doesn't work, I didn't really lose out on anything.

    However... if I legitimately like her, I'll take my time to build a connection and getting to know her rather than focus on the Penis to vag contact.

    • Wow this is a really good and honest answer. now I'm torn there's too many honest to goodness answers to be best answer. anyways, when you say legitimately like her - does that mean into her? how does a girl know the guys not just acting to like her just to get some punan!?

    • "when you say legitimately like her - does that mean into her?" - yes all Guys are different so it's hard to create a rule of thumb. I know some guys will go and go until they get some while others are lack luster. How to know? Well... just keep talking to him and if you like him.. have at it, if it doesn't work out.. you'll have some experience to spot the next guy who is 50% in. Guys usually don't think of relationships til down a long road...

    • But I think guys can only act for so long. I'd find it tiring and would rather just jerk off than waste time. You really have to be the judge.

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  • some guys will say anything for sex however where I am now in my life id say anything to avoid sex

  • absolutely positively true, I try to explain this to girls but no one believes it, actions speak louder than words

    • So a guy can pretend in being into a girl just to get into her pants?

    • YES its not hard at all be weary

    • thanks...

  • why is this question fixated on guys doing anything for sex? is this really a guy only trait? what about women who know a very attractive guy? do they not do, say, pretend, or act in any manner to get a guy's attention? do women NOT have a strong libido too?

    The reality of this question rests in maturity... some guys know that intimacy will happen, and therefore do not need to act the fool to win time with a woman. some guys do not know this, and therefore act the fool.

    If a man is attracted to a woman, or a woman to a man, they will say or do what they believe "works". until they discover what does, they are apt to do or say anything...

    I've seen women take off their shirts in a public bar to get a man's attention, and I've heard guys lie straight faced to spend time with a woman.

    it's not a gender thing... it's a dating thing.

  • not.

    Some guys will not say anything for sex, but they will say what you want to hear.

  • For me I think that this is totally true for most guys. I know this because I've had guys try to do this to me before. And I obviously knew the sh*t they were saying was totally bull. I wonder sometimes if guys think were really that stupid?

  • False,

    the last 2 timesI had sex, girls had to get me wasted before I would have sex.

    • Bollocks...

    • She means generally, not you or a few. Most guys because so many are the same

  • Sooo true. The immoral, desperate ones, anyway. They will do or say ANYTHING for it. I learned this the hard way when I was sixteen. Those "I love you's" were just a load of crap.

    • oh I love you when you say that!

  • only when I was yung... I don't now I keep it real ! if that's what I want some girls are with it , if thaey are not they'll let you know... one girl said"if you put your key in my door you have to live here" she was saying if we had sex I can't go in any other woman.. so its not that! and also every girl wants to keep me around cause I'm so honest.. theyre aren't many like us!

  • Having a lot of close, honest, blunt guy friends (and a few stupid, naive girl friends) has taught me that yes, some guys will say the most ridiculous things ever to get into a girls pants and somehow sometimes it actually works.

    • It does work. because a lot of girls and women are too gullible they fall for everything. damn that hurts.

    • You just have to be one of the smart ones. :)

    • Yea think with your brain not the voice of that little clam burger tucked in between a woman's legs lol

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  • I think it really depends on the guy. But yes it's true. And it depends on the type of girl, and the setting in which he meets girl.

  • well, not guys are same. Also, it depends on the girl. But in general, go with your feeling. If it feels like something is off, then it is.

  • Yes, I know a lot of guys who would... They also set boundaries, as in they wouldn't date the girl but would do as much as they could just to have sex. It seems to be mainly for bragging rights rather than sex... If they just wanted sex, surely a single long term partner would be able to supply that.

    • K lets say they have a long term partner but stil asks another girl to do it with him? like begging? only this other one girl?

    • If a guy has a long term partner, would he still beg a random girl for sex? If the guy is not enjoying his current relationship anymore, or is just in a sexual mood and the opportunity is there, I'd say a lot of guys I know would take it. I've known guys to cheat purely because they wanted sex and it was offered (with a moderately attractive girl as if it matters) even if they have a great, gorgeous girlfriend. I don't know why, but I keep seeing it happen.

    • It's because men love to feel wanted, and want excitement, just like women do. Fuck we're not that different, this sh*t is simple. And just because she is gorgeous, don't mean that she is fulfilling his sexual appetite. often times women f*** with our needs or aren't attentive to them.

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  • Yep was gonna add the "some". Immature guys will do whatever they have to in order to get laid.

    Why? As guys, we lack sexual empowerment. If ANYTHING happens, it's because the woman decided so. Women can go to a bar or club and pick up a guy 100% of the time, it just depends on their standards. They'll also get a ton of free admission and free drinks along the way.

    So for guys, because we can't get sex whenever we want, we keep sexual avenues open as long as possible. This includes saying whatever will best keep a girl open to having sex with us.

    • Best answer. We don't have a damn choice, we're not often calling the shots. All women have to do to earn sex is show interest, and in my case, be a happy, genuine girl. Why do women ask so much more of men?

    • Okay lets just say she already gave in but sometimes some guys lose interest after they got what they wanted. that's why women put their guards up for the fear of abandonment and feeling of disrespect. disrespect because they feel the guy is coming back for that not because of her.

    • If she already had sex with a guy, and that guy is the type who will do anything for sex, that guy will lie through his teeth just to keep it going. However, if that guy isn't a skeez, treating him like one will get him to take two steps back from the relationship.

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  • yes ! but only if they are dogs

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