Guys, would it feel good to give you a hand job with conditioner in the shower?

[Anonymous]

also, handjob tips?

[tom-tom-traveler]

It's been done to me before and it's okay, but I've found that when my wife wants to be playful in the shower, a bj feels so much better.

And it is true that conditioner can be an irritant to the skin of the penis, but it's not something that's felt during the act. I usually felt the irritation about 30 to 45 minutes afterwards.

[ncsquirll99]

ehh. it is kinda iffy.. I would say no. First off we can give ourselfs handjobs that feel so much better than you can And actually the main reason is that sometimes the conditioner could actually get inside of the penis and that burns like a muther*****... so I say no. A bj would be great though!

[gravygirl]

I don't think I would recommend conditioner. I have "washed" my boyfriend off with a very bubbly soap and he loves it.

[Caliguy88]

It feels great! I love doing that with girls.

[Anonymous]

Hi - You said, “its like God’s testing me. I met this great guy... So im just tryna enjoy his company while i can...”

Could it be possible that God is not testing you but instead is trying to help you find out about yourself and why you fall for “things you hated about your exes” through putting this guy in your path now? I think it is.

I broke your post down into what you said about him—the pluses & minuses...

Pluses about him:

• mental connection (psychic/intuitive spark)
• physical attraction/sexual chemistry
• love for dancing
• same age & height
• zodiacs mesh
• intense connection
• love being around eachother.
• “He even felt the need to apologize for their mistakes. Like wow. Not necessary but damn that made him even hotter”

Minuses about him:

• workaholic
• probable hectic career
• may not want kids
• breaks promises
• has band groupies and is obsessed w selfies & social media followers
• “he's all go with the flow and im usually a planner”

I see major red flags here. First, you say he may not want kids and that’s a “deal breaker” for you. Also, there are trust & respect, and appreciation & communication issues...

Regarding trust & respect: you say you “have a jealous streak” and his being in a band and liking selfies & followers is an explosion waiting to happen. Also, he says you guys will “hang at a certain time” but he doesn’t come through for you and doesn’t seem to care that because he’s so busy he doesn’t have much time for you—although time management & promises are important to you (but apparently not to him).

Concerning appreciation & communication: you seem to see the negative side of things—what you’re missing out on, instead of appreciating the great things about him: for example, you said, “He’s in med school... prob gonna be another workaholic... Hard for a girl who needs quality time”; why not instead think: “He’s in med school—he’s so smart and dedicated.” You need to do a better job of appreciating him, while at the same time communicating your needs to him.

There are some big legitimate concerns about your current relationship. You may have an “intense connection” & great “sexual chemistry” with him but you still might be really bad for each other, and/or you may have some trust and selfishness issues to work on. You should think about what a good relationship is/provides—see the following links...

What should a healthy relationship provide for the people in it?

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/friendship-20/201812/what-does-healthy-relationship-look

[Opinion Owner]

Wow—sorry about that—I posted this draft I had ready on the wrong question!!! Smh

[Anonymous]

Doubt it, as it might be irritant to the skin.

[Josht]

ya