Guys, would you choose jerking off as oppose to having sex with your girlfriend?

the other night my boyfriend told me its easier to jerk off then to have sex. which is annoying to me because I always want to have sex but he just loves jerking off so much he does it whenever I am not around. so guys if this is true instead of going to get your girlfriend from her house you would rather jerk off? even if you know fersure she'll want to have sex if you just try?
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  • Sometimes, my ex wasn't into having sex.

    Sometimes, started to become often.

    Sometimes, I stopped bringing it up.

    Sex can be tiring. Ladies, you try holding an odd push-up position and trying to keep a flesh-rod that is attached to your pelvis inside another human who is under you. Now gyrate you body so that flesh-rod slides in and out, deep and shallow, for 20 minutes.

    I could go on, and really illustrate this. There's a lot to it, but the difference in physical exertion between sex and masturbation is definitely worth taking into account.

    There's nuance to your question, and the details you provide. I haven't addressed it all.

    • sex last 5-7 min with my boyfriend and I almost always on top for most of it. I don't see how it could be that exhausting to the point where p*rn is more interesting but ok.

    • Exhaustion and P*rn are two different factors, and not directly related to each other. You don't get tired, then p*rn gets better. That's not how it works. What are you looking to get from the answers to this question?

    • idk, I guess to see if some guys prefer jerking off to having sex, because that's how I think I boyfriend feels sometimes.

  • I jerk off a lot of the time instead of seeing the girlfriend. It takes a lot of effort to get my girlfriend off and sometimes I'm just tired. I jerk myself off, she can use a vibrator. I'm not going to drive over every time she wants to be banged. Men have to work more to please their partners in bed, plus we have to actually be able to get it up. That is a hell of a lot of work at times, especially when you're tired. Sometimes I just prefer my Fleshlight. Feels almost as good, but is a lot less work. Sometimes I go over and get the job done, but I'm not going to do it every time she asks like I'm on call to please her.

    • its not like that. its not even about pleasing me forreal. I just don't understand why he'd rather jerk off when we could just as easily have sex. but I guess I get what your saying about how its more work.

    • In just about every position, all a girl has to do is just lie there and take the d***. There's no work involved on her part unless she's on top. That's it. Even then, a guy still has to stay hard and not come too quickly. Men have to work at sex, women don't. Basically, if I don't do a perfect job in the bedroom, I'll hear complaints. Unless I have the time/energy, jacking off is often a better option.

    • You have not honest to god idea what you are typing about for all that logic and information processing in your brain. Being in a prolonged possition with our legs raised moaning & showing that you are doing a good job for your glory is a lot more of a work out then someone who is doing a rocking motion with his hips while his hands sit idle and he looks at you like an animal. You are still sexually dubious, you need more time in life.

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  • if my man chose jerking off, id dump him change my phone number and move away to a new address and never look back again. yes its that extreme. seriously like what kind of f***** wants to make love to himself over a woman?!

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  • My wife has made it her policy to see to it I never have to jerk off again.

    • nooooo! Why would you let her castrate you?!

  • i'd choose sex if the option was easily available , if I had to chase her across town or she was playing games it might be easier to do option a . but most guys are going to want the real thing if its available . if they don't want the real thing I'd suspect there be more serious issues in the relationship that need to be addressed

    • there isn't any games. I'm just at my house. we've been texting all day all he would have to do is come pick me up.

  • It's only easier cause you don't have to wait for her to be in the mood. And it is quite a bit less effort, but sex is way more enjoyable.

  • I'd get her if she lived fairly close.

    • 15 minutes there and back

    • Sounds perfect.

  • If I had Girl I want to duck it on! Yes! When alone and in the mood. Suxs but that’s life

  • Depends on how good the sex is. :)

  • to be honest I'd rather have sex, but I was in your boyfriend's situation before, and the only reason why I would choose jerking off over sex is if the girl's vagina is too loose or y'know too big

    • i don't think that's the case he is the only guy I sleep with and he would say something if I was messed up down there.

    • K I'll try to sugarcoat this then.. If a man consistently eat the same burger for the next 5 months? He'll grow tired of it, but that doesn't mean that he don't like burgers anymore. So the next best solution to your dilemma is to control you're sexual intercourse with him. Try not having sex for one month and see the difference

    • well god when you put it like that you make it sound like he is bored with me. . .

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  • I must say your boyfriend is an odd boy.

    Sex > Jerking off any day!

  • Some times I just enjoy jerking off. If the time is not right for having sex

  • Neither... Can't we just cuddle?

  • I will dump him

  • it's better to jerk off because you don't have to worry about cumming at the same time or how long you last and if you're horny all you have to do is find a place in private and jerk off. I love to look at p*rn and with the internet I can jack off to nearly anything I'm in the mood for.

    with that said if I had a girl friend and knew she was horny I would have sex with her over jerking off because I enjoy 4play and teasing a girl I'm into. knowing that she's willing to have sex with me is also a good +. I love hearing girls moan and if I'm the one that's making them moan is a huge turn on.

    only things about jerking off that's truly better is that you don't have to be horny at the same time she is to do it, and I don't expect a partner to be as horny as I am.

  • There's no F**king way in hell I would prefer my hand over the chance to pleasure a woman and have her get me off through sex, bj or hj. If my woman wants it, she gets it.