Guys, would you rather get head or have sex?

[Anonymous]

Which do you normally prefer and why?

[SomeoneSpecial]

grrr I hate giving head. But I've been in an abusive relationship in the past where he was too lazy for sex and always made me give head. So now I absolutely despise it.

However, I believe for your question...depends on the guy. Often I will give head if I'm in a REALLY good mood that day and want to make the guy feel good (even though I hate it so much now...) and one of my boyfriend actually didn't like it because he said he felt bad for making me do it =S He preferred pleasuring me and having sex because he said he was a little insecure and felt bad and like I would hate him if he just lay there while I did the work.

On the other hand I had a boyfriend who really liked just receiving head and said I was quite good...too bad for him I didn't do it very often =P buut he said he kinda liked it when I kept it a surprise.

My advice: If you don't want to give head, DONT DO IT. And if he's not returning with pleasing you and giving YOU sex, then ABSOLUTELY DO NOT GIVE HIM MORE HEAD. I'm not saying guys don't deserve to get pleasured as well, but this kind of boyfriend can leave you with serious insecurities and a hatred (like me) for giving head! Which is just an aweful feeling for the girl, and very unfortunate for your future boyfriends! Tell him to smarten up and that you're done caring for his needs if he's not even going to try and return the favour.

[HotBritney]

I would definitely prefer being eaten!

I could have that all day! Haha

[Wiseone]

I prefer sex, why have the small thing when you can have the whole thing SEX

[Asker]

Is there any way the girl is better at head than sex?

[Wiseone]

Doubt it. I dilike the whole head thng I prefer to please my man right and good

[Johner]

Depends on how much time I got. Head is nice for fast relief we I got something to do but if it is a night in I prefer the whole damn pallet of sexual festivities. Starting with oral moving onto sexual relations of the penetrational nature then a full course of cuddling. That takes a few hours to do in full though so not possible every night.

I guess it also really depends on the girl. A master at head is 100000 times better then straight sex.

[Asker]

Hmm I like the whole night plan haha, but if a girl is more experienced at head you"d rather have that over a quicky?

[Johner]

Kiiiinda. I'm a simple man. I work, I come home, I play video games, and I make my girl feel like the only woman in the world and I let her know it. She plays games as well so we basically sit down next to each other on the couch all night and grind away. When she has something planned and cannot be bothered to fiddle around all night I creep up between her legs while she is playing and make her squirm. She returns the favor when I cannot be yanked away. So oral is our only option then. B

[Johner]

But at least once or twice a week we pull the plugs and just f*** and cuddle all night and watch pirated movies. So it really is situational. She isn't the *best* at head but its the thought that counts so mixing that up with sex keeps things fresh.

[Asker]

Well my guy and I have been going out for almost 3 years and I've been giving him head since about 2 months in but we just started having sex less than a year ago now, but he almost always prefers head...is it just that I'm amazing at head, or am I bad at sex, or is he just lazy...he always gives me compliments for both but we have gone like over a month where all he wants is head, but says he isn't in the mood for sex...is something wrong with me?

[Johner]

Ouch. No there sweety that isn't a sign of you being a rock star with your tongue or getting out of your groove. That is a man whose come to the realization that he can get off easy and not have to return it in kind. A lazy git if I ever saw one, but not that I can blame him. Imagine if he went down on you everyday and never asked or needed anything in return. Sure you might want to at first to repay him but eventually it turns into you are already getting the milk for free. Why jerk off the co

[Asker]

So should I just refuse giving him head...i don't want to be a bad girlfriend or cause a fight...is there anything I can do to get him more into satisfying me...

[Johner]

Hmm well that all depends on the Boyfriend I suppose. If he actually cares about you and just lost his way a bit let him know. Guys can be especially thick at times and unless you spell it out he won't ever see a problem with the current situation. Just tell him you want some more sex and encourage him by doing sexy acts to get him back into the habit of thrusting. If he is kinda a jerkface, cut him off until he starts acting like an adult and twiddling your nthering like he should be.

[Asker]

lol Thank you :)

[Anonymous]

My experience is that women who've not had great sex will take a good p**** eating every day. Those who have had multiple orgasms from a procock could take it or leave it when it comes to p**** eating.

[Oliviawinters]

My guy prefers head and I prefer recieving head too, ;

[BlackSuperman]

I'd rather do it all.. head, cunnilingus, and then full-on nasty, freaky sex...

[Asker]

cunnilingus?

[BlackSuperman]

fancy term for eating pussy...

[Asker]

Ah lol I've never heard that one before, very fancy ha ha I guess you learn something new every day

[abc--123]

i prefer head I dnt know why I just do