Guys, if you buy a girl dinner does she owe you sex?

i've hears from some guys recently that they believe when they take a women out to dinner then she owes them sex. What do you think? it doesn't make much sense to me but I'm interested to hear what y'all think.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You do not owe anyone sex, ever, but by exchanging a monetary agreement to provide sustenance a man is implicitly trying to demonstrate his worth as a sexual partner by being a strong provider. It's no different than buying gifts, buying your tickets or taking you out shopping for new clothes - he's merely enacting a several billion year old ritual to attract your attention solely on him with trinkets.

    That is not to say that [one free meal = BJ], or [one free meal at a super expensive restaurant = sex on first date], but if he's taking you out on dates that's what he ultimately wants from you. However if you don't ever want sex with that person (thus you are not attracted) just don't go on anymore dates with that individual.

  • Handjob maybe.

    In all seriousness what she owes him is a genuine shot. If you've decided it's not happening, for sure, don't let him buy you dinner. If there's enough spark to see if you two might go somewhere - that's what you owe.

    And 'I'm not attracted but I'll give him a chance' is not good enough.

Most Helpful Girls

  • you can't be serious... no matter what in general women do not owe men sex vice versa. Who ever told you that ...is the biggest jack*** on the planet.

  • i clicked on this just to c how many pple will say yes so b4 I look. the answer is NO and please dnt let any guy tell you otherwise

  • Of course not, guys take girls out to eat cause they're interested in her and whatnot, it's not always about sex.

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  • REALLY? What the hell kind of guys you hang out with? That sounds like starving prostitute to me. Work for food instead of money? When I take a date out for dinner is to have her for company, talk with her about things, so we can get to know each other, or if it's a girlfriend already that might be different. But you do things like hit a movie, than a nice romantic dinner, your planning the event out that's not buying sex with dinner though.

    • lol best answer any1?

  • I don't think they owe him sex at all. It's going to take more than dinner to get in my pants haha

  • Dinner is dinner, there shouldn't be any strings attached like sex.

  • Nope. F***that.

  • Well, the goal to taking her for dinner is to have sex

    But she doesn't owe it

  • Eh...no she most certainly does NOT owe me...or any other guy sex for supper...however...(and not sure where that point is) comes a time when I will not keep buying supper if I am not getting sex...I suppose that would not be the case if I believed I was in a serious long-term relationship...but I have not ever faced this as my females (with the exception of one) were all ready for sex within the first 4 dates..(:(:(:

  • Well in the end it is what we want...but no your entitled to making that decision.

  • No, This is wrong to expect sex just because I buy a woman dinner. I just want to get to know you.

  • Hell no.