Dear Hairy Insecure Men ...
Because I've been invited pretty often to your Hairy discussions, and polls, I thought I owe you this MyTake because ... and I'm sure I speak in the name of a lot of people here...
ENOUGH !!!!
Seriously, I know, You guys struggle because hair grows on your body like grass ... I know your Man rugs are getting on your nerves and You are insecure and you came here to ask for opinions because you feel like your Gorilla Chest is a turn off for us Women ... which MIGHT or MIGHT not be true ...
I really hope that this will answer this once and for all ...
There is no shame in a man admitting to waxing or shaving these days, preferring a polished torso to a hairy chest.
Yes, Okay, I really don't mind with a bit of tidy up, but MEN STRIPPING THEMSELVES of all masculinity completely seems a waste ...
I want to date a man not a plastic doll. Waxing, shaving, plucking bleaching, toning, flexing, oiling – it’s all too much.
Here’s the science bit – hair growth is determined by hormones, in particular testosterone, which contributes towards a man’s fat distribution, muscle strength and sex drive.
In other words : The hairier the chest the better the sex. GOT IT??? !!!
Confident hairy men don’t give a s**t what the trends are or what David Beckham looks like with his top off. (He's a turn off anyway) They are what they are, unapologetic and embrace what they’ve been given.
Well, like some of you know me, I never end my MyTakes without a " BUT " ..
(Not a butt you pervert)
so
Consider this :
Not all of us Women like it warm in the winter and soft on our cheeks, this is TRUE, there is a MINIMUM and there is a MAXIMUM ... and this is all related to our taste .. not every women is the same, what might me sexy for me is not sexy for my neighbor.
Example : Ronaldo, every woman's dream man ... IS NOT MY TYPE
but Sami Khedira ... He's HOT for me .... (A lot of your jaws will drop but I swear he is Hot for me)
If you don't know them they are both soccer players Ronaldo plays for Real Madrid and Sami plays for Juventus, but he used to play for Real Madrid as well
GO JUVENTUS
Ahem
Ok Back to us ...
What I was saying was that it's okay to be Hairy, but what matters most is to be Hygienic and Neat about it, nobody stops you to trim it a little if you see that hey are becoming Sailor Moon Tails... and out of control tentacles ...
It's not because we HATE IT, but it looks DIRTY, groom yourself, treat yourself, TRIM THE BUSHES, there is no need to WAX it ... just stay CLEAN !! And trust me, It's the EASIEST thing to do ...
Appreciate your hairy self, no matter where, arms legs, chest, butt, back HELL ... peanuts.. and stuff and stuff ...
Just LOVE yourself don't be insecure about it because if a Woman truly loves you, they will love every little hair on your body as well.
Disclaimer: My Man is also a little hairy, and trust me, I don't mind at all, he got hair on his Chest and Legs, and he couldn't care less, he trims here and there, and I LOVE HIM, with or without hair ...
AGAIN, LOVE YOURSELF, TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF, BE PROUD OF YOURSELF, BE YOURSELF.
Natured <3
What Girls & Guys Said
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I think hair is one of those things where it looks good on some and not so much on others. I think it is all about style and men should rock what feels good for them.
It's the confidence the exudes from how you look.
As always - Wise Words amigo <3
Modern woman like girly and wimpy men with bad hair and dumb clothing. So it's no surprise that men should wax like a girl too.
Considering that women are all so shallow that they will place a bet on entire relationship based on their height requirement, it's no wonder why men are scared women will not like them for body hair.
Great effort put into this mytake! I really appreciate it 😇
I like both - clean shaven and medium hairy guys attractive. Especially happy trail on guys.
I mean, I'm girl but still I have little bit hair in places where I'd like none soo. Its kind of insane to expect a completely smooth guy.
But honestly, there's only one hairy dude that keeps asking these questions from multiple accounts. Your take is well thought and nicely put but I doubt it will stop him from asking such questions and inviting girls to these questions, PMing them to ask the same etc. Some people can never let go of their insecurities and he's one of them lol. So just let him be 😆😜
You GO girl!!
Good work! :)
I actually like if my guy has a little hair, if I'm attractive to that face that all it matters.
The one and only time I've ever even thought about my body hair was when a female friend told me she hates it when men don't manscape. I told her I don't do that and she said I was gross. I told her I just do that to make my penis look smaller so women don't get too intimidated when they see it.
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This take is the bomb. Yes!!!
hahahaa, i feel ya. it's really annoying when they force you to LIKE them in every post every comment every poll, even in private message!
The "love yourself" message has been expressed multiple times over by now.
I'm kinda hairy, but my wife prefers it that way. Personally, if I had money to waste, I'd get about half of it lasik-ly removed, but I don't care enough.
Haha I have very little hair on my body... you could literally count my 5 chest hairs on every side :o
On my head, the first grey ones are appearing :-( ... says grandpa!
One moment hairs can be a big trouble is if you need to do CPR and have a defibrilator at hand... than they need to go veeeeeery quickly :-(
"Okay, I really don't mind with a bit of tidy up, but MEN STRIPPING THEMSELVES of all masculinity completely seems a waste..."
I'm hairless from the neck down. Women might say it's feminine but they quickly change that tone when they see me naked. Literally have never gotten a complain. Body hair hides muscle definition and makes tattoos look like shit.
Unless you have the body hair of the last 2 photo's then your alright.
Like I said, It's a matter of taste, and maybe you know how I am about every issue, i'm always in between, I'm Ying Yang in person, so basically i always support both parties in certain issues :D I love hairless men but hair won't bother me either :D
Hmm, I like men with lots of testosterone, but I don't like hairy men, especially not bearded men, they remind me of chetniks, and I can't stand them.
By the way, nice choice for the fourth gif, I think those guys are totally hot ;)
What's nice about men having LOT of testosterone
@creativeuserguy if I had to be crude - they're not sissies.
@creativeuserguy They have higher libido ;)
*has a beard* :'( :'(
But if higher testosterone causes lots of male body hair, then?
Well, a man without hair has not a lot of testosterone :P My man has a nice amazing beard, he has a hairy chest that he trims and is muscular, and his legs are hairy, and the sex is the best in the world ;) I won't deal with plucked turkeys. But HEY it's me because I LOVE every inch of him, and he looks hot with or without hair... And like I said, it's all about TASTE but when you truly love someone, you won't even care about that little bush here and there :)
Plucked Turkey hahaha Interesting name to waxed men and their genitals. I am just curious, what exactly is meant by trimming up the body hair? Cutting it really close against the hair growth and leaving behind sort of stubble and do that daily so that the stubbly look doesn't get any longer? Esp when you prefer trimmed chest stomach and legs, what's meant by that? Testosterone makes a man have very high libido and hence he can easily satisfy his lady, is it? Even if a man doesn't have much testosterone, I guess he would still have sex at least once a day, then what's the difference between having high levels of testosterone in men? Women have way way less testosterone levels, does it mean women don't give nice sex and aren't good in bed?
@natured
@creativeuserguy Sorry you make too many question that I don't want to answer because you are just TOO MUCH sorry...
Am curious. Actually. at least answer few questions. please? What's meant by being good in bed? @natured
@creativeuserguy Being good in bed is driven by a high testosterone level, having a high testosterone means you have a lot of hair, so basically having a lot of testosterone makes the sex good and frequent...
Don't hate me please. But if a man is naturally smooth skinned ( Most white and Asian men are) , then do they generally have lesser testosterone levels? Don't be mad at me. Also having high testosterone means more into sex, is that a good thing for a woman?
@creativeuserguy It usually is good thing for a woman, I UNDERSTAND but you are so pushy with your questions, see I'm trying to help you and be honest with you but you keep asking the same questions over and over again... I don't know about white Asian men or whatever, if somebody likes sex they do it often, the testosterone level does imply to do a lot of sex and even last long... that's my theory and what I read... and what i read are mostly facts...
OK. Women don't have much testosterone, do they still want sex, like sex and would even enjoy sex with a man she loves and a lot of sex? It can be safely said that in general women like the fact that men have lots of body hair, just make it bit tidy and presentable and that hairy man is sexier than a man who is naturally smooth skinned like baby or an average woman? Final comments only
@Toad-1 Oh, sorry, but you can shave beard, by the way, it's ok if it's just a stubble or short trimmed :)
@creativeuserguy Beard and mustaches can be shaved.
Yeah, I guess it's all about taste :D
Cool. I like this thread. It confirms what I already knew, but I gladly read it again.
I'm a firm believer that everyone should be comfortable with themselves and do what they prefer to do with their own body. Nothing wrong either way, definitely agree that all that matters is good hygiene. Myself though, I prefer being totally waxed hairless. Just think it suits me, makes me feel like me.
You are lucky to have hairless skin..
LOL.. Good take.. I mean it's probably mainly younger women who are not so much into it... I guess.. It depends really.. It ain't gotta worry about it either way cause like a lot of young "Black" dudes, I'm not that hairy.. Only in the certain obvious places.. But, in the end.. It really certain matter.. Like many things in this world.. It's subjective..
You are so right, I mean when I was young I hated hairy men also but it's normal, until you grow up and you learn that HAIR is actually not even a flaw, it's NORMAL :D there are a lot of hairy ladies out there as well... P. s. I depilated my legs last night LOL...
Aw yeah definitely... LOL.. I even seen a girl with... Some Chest hair... It... Was... Weird.. But.. It is what it is.. Or was what it was..
hahaha poor guy <3
AAaw yeah.. *Sniff sniff*.. I just need a moment to unthink it..
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Aww poor baby !!!
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LMAO. You two are funny. Nice take. you're not a feminist by the way.
@Johnagain I don't even know why they would say that I'm far from being a feminist LOL i have no Idea where this WORD even popped up here... just by complimenting men and their chest hair, this makes me only think that some people are NEVER HAPPY, ..
Women with bald pussies: end it already, there are guys that prefer hairy girls, despite what the vast majority of porn producers want you to believe.
@likib4istickit You are wrong. I was involved in the porn industry for a few years. The hairless crotches are a response to what the male audience (as well as quite a few females) have shown that they wanted. I good way to illustrate the point is the traffic counters on Internet porn sites. So few men want hairy crotches on women that it has been relegated to a minor fetish category titled 'hairy' on most sites. If the audience wanted hairy women, pornographers would have responded by making that sort of material. Why? Because they make money out of providing the audience with what they want.
@cth96190 Damn, I thought it was the other way around. I'd love to figure out who's bright idea it was in the early 90's and choke the life out of them Went from full bush to landing strip to nothing). According to Google pubes are slowly making a comeback, but too slowly for me.
I do not know the names of those involved, but it happened like this. As female lingerie and swimwear became ever more brief, women began to have everything waxed, or shaved, so that they could wear it without stray pubic hairs hanging out. What the makers and marketers of pornography found was that when models/actresses began to be hairless, they became vastly more popular that the females who had hairy crotches. It is a very strong male preference that has been demonstrated clearly by where and on what men spend their money.
I think this mytake applies to everyone in general. Everyone should try to stop feeling self-conscious about how hairy they are.
Ha, I shave and wax for fun sometimes, but I'd be a bad Odin if I didn't have a hairy chest other times.
Great post.