Hand job advice?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend says I give him great handjobs but he never cums. My ex would come all the time. I know every guy is different but what are some things I could do to possibly get him to come from a handjob?

[ilovelegs]

Since you had no trouble getting your ex to come from a hand job all the time then obviously the problems isn't you because you know exactly what to do, and guys aren't all that different when it comes to that. It's your boyfriend! I assume you're trying to do the same as you did to your ex, but maybe your ex was more into you with his thoughts than your boyfriend is because the thoughts that go through a guy's mind about what's going on sexually has a lot to do with how fast he cums. Has he ever come by a handjob from a girl before? From what I've heard, a guy cums faster and more intense from a girl's touch than he does from his own when it comes to a hj. Just having a girl's hand on mine makes it tingle and twitch. lol! If he's never had a girl get him off that way maybe he's too nervous. Ask what it is that he does that you aren't doing that gets him off. Maybe you're not running your hand across the head and that sensitive sport on the underside where the head meets the shaft. That's a very sensitive spot that gets a guy off, and usually when giving a hand-job, if you're squeezing the foreskin tight enough it'll force the foreskin to go over it time and time again. That gets me off every time. Don't be afraid to squeeze it hard enough and don't hesitate to run your hands all over it in an upward and downward manner. Why not ask him what you could do better or differently. The main thing is to not do it too long, but long enough for him to enjoy it. If he can't cum, then HE can't cum. Good luck!

[Fredo]

You could put your mouth on it. Not to be rude, but I could not tell you one person I know personally that is satisfied with a handjob. The main reason being we can do that for ourselves, and probably have for quite some time. Long enough to establish exactly what we want, so it is hard for you to match that. Once you reach perfection, it is hard to accept less in a sense. However, all sexual attention is welcomed. I am sure he absolutely adores you giving him one, but the truth is more often then not, they are not finishing moves. Perhaps your ex was younger than your current interest and had not yet established a standard for himself? Either way, if you haven't gotten him off by now, you are most likely not going to. But he isn't lying when he says he enjoys it, so no need to stop.

[cad012shsu]

Ok for me, I am very very inexperienced. I have only had one partner and I was so afraid to give a hand job because I was afraid of either gripping to hard or pulling it the wrong way or rubbing it raw. If you really want some advice, drop me a private message so I can give you more of a message that isn't so explicit.

[Anonymous]

Gentle action works best. That is why women give better hand jobs than men do themselves. Start by lightly playing with the penis and never get too rough.

Most men like lube and KY liquid is best. The equivalent of a woman's clitoris is the underside of the head of the penis. Most of the shaft is not very sensitive.

For a fantastic hand job give the head most of the attention. Make a circle with your thumb and index finger and pretend you are unscrewing a bottle cap, but very gently. Just keep gently and slowly twisting back and forth, taking breaks because this is so intense. When you decide he is going to cum, increase the pressure slightly. He will have an intense ejaculation and probably shake violently. Do not stop the the slow rhythm until he hollers stop!

A lubricated finger inserted into the anus just before he cums will put him in heaven. Good luck and send a report!