"she started giving me a hand job, but going a little rough and too fast, I didn't want to be like 'stop' and hurt her feelings"
So you let her hurt your dick instead? No, bro! Not only do you risk your dick, you promote bad technique. A lose-lose proposition.
There's a way to talk to a woman performing very badly: "Baby, baby, that's good, but I like it like this." Then show her how she's supposed to do it.
If's she's a grownup, she'll correct and life will go on. If she's insecure, reassure her, tell her she's wonderful, and life will go on.
I know exactly what you mean, I did get her to stop at one point, but she now realizes why it was hurting too, I just didn't want to be like 'thanks for the hj get off', it won't happen in a painful manner again I just need to heal now, any suggestions
Vaseline. Go nuts.
Many women, especially young ones have no idea how to handle a member: they just think the harder they rub it the better.OUCH!
Just as we need guidance from women as to how to pleasure them; we need to cajole them into doing what feels best for us. Don't criticize her efforts, guide her. With your hands, with encouraging words and gestures, with smiles etc. With encouragement, your girl will become an expert.
I've done myself a mischief like that a few times and it heals very fast. If you don't mind taking things very gently, you needn't abstain.
Are you circumcised? Guys who aren't tend to be more sensitive. Either way, it heals fast. Injuries on your dick are almost like injuries in your mouth in terms of how fast they heal. Neosporin can help, especially if the skin was actually broken.
if it takes more than four or five days, you should see a doctor, just to make sure it didn't get infected.
however, if you were uncircumcised, she may have just peeled back your foreskin. it sounds crazy, but its happened before.
haaaaaaa.it shouldn't take too long to heal.just keep it clean and don't let her rub it for the next few days
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Probably like any other kind of abrasion. a week or two. But just take care of it for awhile now by giving it some rest, keeping it clean with mild soap and waterr and a little antibiotic ointment from most stores should be of great help. Those skin type of injuries are very common in sports. but no doubt that's not the most common area. lol! You should have slowed her down. Don't be so hesitant in the future to guide a girl when doing sexual things when you think she's overdoing it. You'd want her to do the same for you.
You should've told her anyways. So she won't do it again of course, not to hurt her feelings.
My boyfriend fingered me and at any point if I felt discomfort I'd tell him.
BEST TO BE HONEST.
And unless it's infected, it'll heal soon.
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