Hand jobs - do guys like it fast or slow?

[Anonymous]

hard or soft and sensual? or a mixture of them all? If you're nearly "there", what is the best way to finish you off? advice needed!

[sealevel27]

every guy is different, my dear. one thing though---use LOTS of lube, even if it's just hand-lotion. that makes it so much better. when your guy is nearly there, tighten up your grip and pump fast n' hard. :)

[nicolerae08]

Okay I'm not as much asking this to directly you but just guys in general. A lot of guys say use lots of lube and then others say they don't need it. Like my boyfriend says not to worry about it that I am definitely NOT going to hurt him in any way if I don't use it. But why not just a good amount of lube to still leave some friction? Because if you use too much wouldn't it be too wet??

[cool_dude369]

Harder and faster would be better. because we don't want you to slow down when we are 'there' you can use lube. if your boyfriend doesn't want to use its its ok.

circumcised men need lube. but for uncircumcised their skin reduces the friction. I don't know whether ur boyfriend is circumcised or not. but if he thinks it fine with it then its ok.

[Jm-MD]

Slow and soft, and being very gentle around the tip which become EXTREMELY sensitive when approaching orgasm. Think of the pace of good sex. A hand job doesn’t need to be any faster than that. If it’s too frantic and hard I won’t cum. When my cock is manhandled it’s actually painful.. A good approach is to imagine that your hand is your pussy, and to try to create the same soft wet environment and perfect pace that might lead YOU to cum it was your pussy being fucked. Faster is not better.

Then again… all guys are not the same, so talk to your partner and also be very aware of the none verbal signals he gives when he is enjoying - or not enjoying - an activity.

[Anonymous]

we probably like it faster and harder than you think. Girls tend to think they have to be more gentle than they really have to be.