Handjob questions for guys?

These all are gonna sound really stupid but any help would be fab 1. Do you like it when a girls hand goes up and over the head or should it just go up and down the shaft and stop at the head? 2. Is a steady rhythm better than changing it all the time? 3. At what point do I need to start slowing down ie while he's cumming or after 4. Is 2 hands better than one? 5. Does it feel good if one hand gently plays with the balls? 6. Does it feel good to kind of twist my hand a little bit? Please don't troll and thanks for any help :)
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  • These are great questions! No need to apologize!

    First off, the answers will vary from guy to guy. The best way for you to know what works well for your guy is to ask him to jack off in front of you and watch what he's doing. You can also add to his pleasure by gently massaging and kissing his thighs, licking his balls and rubbing his butt. But to your questions:

    1) My head is pretty sensitive, so direct hand stimulation without lube is uncomfortable. Up and down the shaft but stimulating the frenulum and the ridge of the head is HEAVENLY!

    2) A steady and firm rhythm is great especially as he gets close orgasm and is surefire way to bring him off. Changing it is great to keep him excited and prolong the experience. An amazing handjob will involve steady rhythm to bring him close to orgasm, then changing it before he blows and backing away a bit. He'll probably squirm a bit and make frustrated noises because he really wants to cum, but each time you build him up again he'll build up even higher. When you finally DO stick to steady firm rhythm and bring him off, the result will be EXPLOSIVE!

    3) This one is pretty guy specific. I'd recommend keeping it steady through the orgasm and then backing off when his spurting subsides. But gently keep massaging his **** an balls. I love having my **** held for a good minute or so after cumming.

    4) No real preference. It's good to change it up.

    5) Oh GOD Yes! ;)

    6) It's a nice touch! Experiment and see what gives you the best reaction.

    Since it's been a month since you've asked, I'm assuming you've tried it out. How did it go?

  • 1. Neither. I would prefer her to stroke up and down over the entire length of the penis. Long smooth strokes.

    2. Depends. Some guys may like it, some may not. I think most guys use a steady rythym, gradually increasing in speed when they masturbate but usually we're just looking to get our rocks off. I think letting the girl switch things up and deciding when you can come is part of the fun of a handjob. Personally, I encourage creativity but if in doubt, ask.

    3. Keep going until the orgasm starts then switch right to long, smooth strokes until he stops coming.

    4. It might not be better but it's still good. Again it probably depends on the guy.

    5. Yeah it's not necessary but it's a nice touch.

    6. Yeah it does. It's feels great when you sort of hold it in a backhand grip (with your palm facing down instead of up).

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  • Sorry but your question reminded me of this song

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=stEXPIh9Qi0



    but I will do my best to answer from my experience:

    1. both work

    2. change it or he will get bored.

    3. Speed up when he is about to cum

    4. yes, use one hand to play with the balls.

    5. yes.

    6. I am shocked to learn that people twist it?

    • I think they're only talking about twisting their hands around it not actually twisting the penis because that would hurt like hell lol.

    • Oh, I see

    • Yh twisting my hand was what I meant lol I don't think any guy would hang around long if I twisted his member

  • Wow this is a good question. Any thing you find out would be great to know.

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  • 1. No. My head's too sensitive. Especially if you aren't using lube.

    2. When you first start, change it up. As he gets closer, go to steady fast pace.

    3. Just keep going until he tells you to stop.

    4. If his d*** is big enough to comfortably have both hands yes, but don't try to force both hands if he doesn't have a monster penis.

    5. YYYYYYYYYYYEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

    6. Like if your hand was gripped around the shaft, twisting it like revving a motorcycle? If you're using lube yes, otherwise no.

  • 1. You can do a little of both. Go up and down the shaft and then over the head occasionally.

    2. Variety is always good. The same old pace gets a little boring after a while.

    3. You should be able to tell by his facial expressions and if he starts moving around when he's a bout to cum. I personally like it when a girl speeds up when I'm ready to cum.

    4. 2 hands are good if his d*** is big enough for 2 hands. if not then it won't really work.

    5. Yes as long as you are very gentle. just massage softly and don't squeeze too hard.

    6. yes that twisting motion feels incredible. Specifically right below the head

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  • 1. it is almost impossible for most men to orgasm from shaft stimulation... That's like asking if when you go down on a girl should you lick her labia majora, dumb

    2.steady is my preference but it doesn't make much difference

    3.Just before if possible as that is when the orgasm starts

    4.Depends how big it is

    5. verrrryyyyy gently and yes

    6.no no no no no would you like someone to twist your eyelids

  • 1. Yea it's nice, just go a little slower and not put too much pressure. It's nice to alternate just stroking the shaft and goin over the head.
    2. Yes, but it's nice that u change the rythm: go fast for a little, than slow for a little etc.
    3. As soon as he's cum, not before and not too much later.
    4. I don't find it better, but can be fun for a change.
    5. Yes it is so nice if u play gently with the balls, not all guys like it tho.
    6: Yes

  • 1. If your hand is dry only go up and down the shaft. If you're using spit or some other lube you can go all the way over the head or use one hand on the shaft and place the palm of your other hand on his head and move it around in circles.

    2. If you change it up a lot it's like foreplay, if you want him to orgasm steady rhythm is the way to go.

    3. It depends, sometimes it feels best if you don't slow during our orgasm or other times it gets so sensitive we want you to slow down. You'll be able to tell if the guy wants you to slow down because he'll probably pull away a little bit or put his hand on yours to stop it. After the orgasm you should give him a few more slow strokes though because it still feels good it's just too sensitive for you to keep going fast.

    4. Yes

    5. Yes

    6. Yes twisting is good if you're using a lot of lube but if your hand is dry only go straight up and down or you might hurt the guy.