the thing to remember here is that with a bj OR hj... at least for me, it is the fact that someone else is sharing in the experience, and in bringing you to orgasm. even if I masturbate and she is right there, telling me how much she likes watching and how she can't wait to see me finish, THAT is better than just alone. so... I am just trying to say, don't worry about the act itself, but that you are interested and that he has a good orgasm and letting him know that you enjoy seeing him and helping him have one.
its better if a girl does it. its worth while,
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It's the same argument between getting fingered to orgasm or masturbating as a female.. While the end results may be similar, there's certainly more satisfaction in having a partner assist with the act. Definitely better to do it than not to.
We don't want handjobs for your superior technique. We want it for your company, your cheerful enthusiasm.
We can't do that alone, or even dream it up. It takes you.
I guess its better than nothing, if its bad though he's probably going to be disappointed.
Doing a hand job is better than nothing, it always beats a guy doing it to himself. And you could use your breast instead of your hands, and that my friend will beat the hell out of a normal hj and could even be possibly hotter than a bj.
I'd say go for a hand job. It's like scratching your back, it's better when someone else does it.
I asked my boyfriend why he liked HJs, since he could do it so much better himself. He said that he liked that it was someone else's hand and the look on my face.
Hell yeah. and the fact that some one else is giving you pleasure with out taking anything for themselves, and you can make out with them att he same time.
A HandJob is always better than Nothing!
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