Handjobs: Need lubrication?

[Anonymous]

I just recently learned how to give a hand job. I never really tried before because I didn't know how and only the recent guy finally taught me! Anyway, this recent guy never asked for lubrication. So I could just do my thing, get him off and that be that. But a guy before him (before I really knew what I was doing) kept complaining that it hurt and he needed something on it. I kept putting spit on my hand but he kept bitching until he finally told me he probably wouldn't get off. Keep in mind: this guy had actually wanted a blow job but I had just met him that night and didn't feel comfortable doing that. In any case, do all guys need lubrication? And if so, what do I do if there's no lube/lotion around and the spit is obviously not working since the guy bitched about it so much.

[Anonymous]

Since your recent guy seems satisfied with no lubrication then I wouldn't change a thing. Keep doing what you're doing. I don't know why you just didn't stop giving that other guy a hand job if he kept bitching at how you were doing it unless it was you that wanted to do it. If you're going to be out there giving every other guy a hand job then I'm sure you'll see a lot of variation of what guys like. Any kind of body lotion will do if you need some but don't put on too much because you want his foreskin to slide up and down with your up and down strokes. Not just your hand. It's that little protruding skin on the underside just below the head that has the sensitivity and you want the foreskin to keep sliding up and down over it, or at least your finger then.

[Asker]

Thanks for the tip!

[jgong8638]

if the guy bitched about it, you shoulda told him to do it himself. lol.

well. my opinion, and I'm sure they vary a lot: no lube needed as long as when you grab just below the head and every stroke reaches the head.be aggressive. ask for input. the best thing is to ask exactly how he wants you to do it. now for lube. NEVER a bad thing imo I've had it a few times with lube.ky. and it is a bit more pleasurable. xtacy. ;-) I come harder and best of all for the girl is it is def a bit less work. as long as you run your hand halfway up the head and twist on the head I'm done in 2 minutes haha hope this helps. remember to ask him ;-)

[anna46]

If your man has a foreskin, he doesn't need lubricant at all...that's the beauty of intact men!

[Anonymous]

I don't use lube, I just use my bare hand and my boyfriend likes it

[l-hedoniste]

You should use lube unless he doesn't want it. You want to protect his tender bits, don't you?

No lube? Hand lotion, or petroleum jelly. If your near a kitchen, mayo, or a handy cooking oil. Remember that cleanup is more of a challenge with improvised lubes.

[CD-Brock]

depends on if he likes it or not. usually you can hold the skin at the base and move it up and down. especially if he's not cut. if you're actually moving yourhand against the skin, yes you do need lube.

[djstizl]

I agree

[GuyBoy1994]

Lubrification is usually needed for cut penises. Since uncut ones have the foreskin on it, lubrification is not required.

[bunny420]

Not all guys need lube, I don't need any. If there isn't any around I guess you could use our own personal lube ;). If there's non of that I guess your out of luck lol. tbh if he needed it that much he should have brought it himself :P.

[Caliguy88]

You can go dry but gotta have perfect pressure... lightly. It’s sensitive.

[funbacta]

I know, I am answering a question with a question, but would you bitch about it if a guy started fingering you vigorously when you weren't wet, or without using lube, it's called friction. You think women get wet for nothing.

[Asker]

I understand that. But I was obviously very new at it and I kept trying to put on more and more spit and he wouldn't give me any tip at all! lol not even a reach for the lotion bottle. Pretty much all he said was, "well if you aren't going to give me a blow job it's not gonna happen."

[Anonymous]

no lube is needed - if she's good. haha ... its all about technique - This girl used one hand to stroke up and down and the other to palm and rub the head in a circular motion at the same time.

[Anonymous]

for me, I prefer the girl to use some baby lotion first, if that was not available, I would have her use whatever body lotion she had with her, sometimes the scented ones cause some irritation, but I prefer that to nothing. I have had several girls in the past use like Dove body lotion or Olay Quench, both are good and you can normally find smaller bottles, to carry in your purse, etc.

[Anonymous]

lotion helps