Handjobs: when to stop?

I have a question for you all. If you're giving a handjob, and the guy reaches the "finish line", when should you stop? I don't have much experience, but I usually stop when right he starts to come (haven't had any complaints yet!) I never really thought about it before, but I've been curious lately if that's best for the guy. So in general is that as good a time to stop as any, or would it be better to keep going? Thanks!
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Sorry I made a typo lol...I meant "right when", not "when right"
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Wow I'm surprised at how many said to keep going lol, I guess I'll have to try changing up my style soon ;)
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Most Helpful Guys

  • A HJ from a woman is a great experience especially when mixed in with light massage with some erotic oils or creams. My wife knows how to bring me to the brink several times before finishing me off. Some times she will do this for an hour or more (or seems like it), She starts with a lot of playing and licking and sucking of my nipples which feels erotic and relaxing. Then she will keep sucking my nipples, alternating each one while stroking me with many different hand techniques (sometimes using both hands) bringing me close to orgasm three or four times. I like her HJ better than a BJ

  • Try to imagine a guy going down on you or fingering you, and stopping just as you are starting to cum. You would want to KILL HIM! Same with us. Your job isn't done until we're DONE, and maybe for 5-10 seconds after that. Just slow down a LITTLE bit when he starts to cum, and give him 30-40 seconds more from there, and you're all good.

    • That's a good point, my orgasms kind of fizzle out when that happens. I always figured that since guys keep ejaculating for a few seconds after I stop, that their orgasms keep going also

    • No, they fizzle out just like yours do. They're much better and more intense if you keep pumping until it's done.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I usually keep going though out him cumming, but slow the pace down from what I was doing just as he was about to cum, and probably release the grasp a little.

  • When I give a hand job I prefer the guy to come in my mouth (not as much to clean up) but I do suck him off a little just to clean up afterwards.

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  • Some are super sensitive as soon as they ejaculate and others you can keep on tugging because it still feels amazing. There isn't one answer to this question because every guy is different. The best thing you can do is either ask "keep going?" or simply respond to their response.

  • When the guy starts to come you should slow down and be a little gentler. After a guy completely releases then he is often very sensitive. A little gentle touching -- afterplay -- is often a good feeling for many guys. The best way to know is to ask.

  • its better to finish all the way

  • continue until the last drop is squeezed out

  • when he's finished cumming I say

  • He'll let you know when to stop, or if you get too tired it's fine to stop.

  • No,no! don't stop till a few seconds after everything's come out.

  • Don't stop right when he begins cumming, that's like digging for gold and stopping as soon as you find a little. Squeeze out the last drops and your man will be happy.