Has anyone ever cried cause they were so sexually frustrated?

Im a 24 year old virgin. I go out 5 times a week to bars trying to get a girlfriend. I'm so lonely and frustrated. I masturbated 4 or 5 times a day. And my penis is really sore from whacking it. I'm almost in tears from frustration.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Bars are potentially a good place to get a random lay, but usually an awful place to find a girlfriend. It's not impossible, but not likely either.

    Try something you enjoy doing (bowling, pool, a sport, volunteering for something, whatever) and make a point to talk to the single girls at those activities. Don't seem like you're actively trying to get a girlfriend, just TALK to them and let them get to know you. Plus, you'll be doing something you enjoy, so the time will pass more quickly than if you were somewhere you didn't want to be, and the girls will see you having fun, which will make you seem more attractive to them. It's WIN/WIN!

    Also, I'm sure you have at least a couple different circles of friends. Try to get invited along to their activities, and meet THEIR friends, and so on, always expanding your circles of friends. Having friends that can vouch for you to a girl can be a big asset, plus you can meet people who already know people you know.

  • trying too hard. work on yourself more. try getting a hobby that doesn't involve your penis.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Try and focus your energy and mind on better things for your sake because I think it's really sad and pathetic for someone to cry over sexual frustration.If you were married I would understand but you are not.Do not let your friends or what this world thinks is normal become yours too.I really think if you relearn to be focused there are a lot of better priorities than getting laid.Teach yourself self control I think that would better increase your chances of getting a good girl and stopping hurting your penis with to much self stimulation.You can be a better person than the person you are trying so hard to become.Don't you think your unluckiness at the bar so far means something?.

    • :).If we weren't anon I would friend you and talk.

    • I took it off.

    • lesson in empathy and communication: don't say someone is sad and pathetic because they are feeling an emotion. it is very hurtful. marriage doesn't mean shit with this. the reality is that sex is a human need and not having a human need fulfilled leads to a cascading response of emotions.

  • I think it would be a good idea to get some counseling to help overcome this issue, this is related to your self-esteem as long if you build up strength to boots your ego and keep your mind busy you would stop worrying about the fact that "you still a virgin" would actually help you build the confidence to meet girls and prevent you to do things that hurt you psychically and mentally.

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  • Yeah bro your trying way to hard. Just be yourself and do what you like. If a girl can't like you for who you are you don't want her anyway right? What is there to lose.

  • not cried as in literally tears were coming out, but just very angry, frustrated, feel like exploding

  • Yo, I got so pissed about it once that I got drunk and start destroying sh*t. Do not do this it isn't even worth it.

    • destroying sh*t in your house you mean?

    • Public lol. I didn't remember any of it and my friends told me when I woke up. Quite embarrassing

  • Have you considered getting a foreign bride? If you make enough to support another person, then you can bring a girl into the country. I would check out some of their videos.

    Foreign Bride site

    link

    I have a friend that bought a bride into this country from the Philippines and is very happy. He didn't find her on this site though.