Have almost all girls become sluts?

[Anonymous]

Has new age propaganda and media brainwash turned most young women into whores? And makes the youth embarassed if they arent? Do you think there are exceptions and how can you maintain being one in such an environment?

[Klara-Hitler]

Yes and no. It is more than just girls having sex. The culture itself has become a culture of promiscuity, loathing commitment. and it was all done by shaming, demonizing, and destroying nuclear family.

Your feminist culture is the problem. It is breeding promiscuous men and women, encouraging sociopathic behaviours, impersonal sex, is increasing the number of STDs every year after sexual revolution, increasing the number of single mothers every year, weakening marriage and increasing divorce. It is not just women, it is the entire feminist mindset that is behind the increase of promiscuity.

"the poisonous feminism is like marxism. sweet like honey in its theory and excuses but poisonuos like venom in its longterm results. they dont understand they are breeding their own damnation."

Feminism is not 'like' Marxism, it is Marxism.

Material feminism was called Marxist feminism before 1970's. It changed its name to material feminism because of the bad reputation of Marxism to be able to live beneath the skin of capitalism.

And what we have as feminism at least after second wave feminism and sexual revolution is material feminism. That is why feminists are almost all leftists and increasing state dependency.

[Asker]

wow you think exactly like i do. dayum girl you rock. exactly the roots of "feminism" are well known. and whoever thinks marxism is anticapitalist he is a moron. marx said that this class 's achievements are greater than the egyptian pyramids. factory owners during the 70s were FUNDING abortion and free sex campaigns to brainwash and corrupt their female workers. cause pregnant mother= waste of money and working hands for the capitalist. but foolish women believed it was for their liberation. but the real motives are even deeper and darker. i'm glad you mentioned that the classical nuclar family became the main target. all excellent points and spot on. i send you an airhug and i admit my "air-crush" with your words.

[Klara-Hitler]

Thanks. American and European Capitalism after 1945 is Keynesian. Keynesian economy is a Mixed economy and Keynesian capitalism is corporatism, not laissez-faire the original capitalism. Keynesianism that encourages state intervention and dependency + Feminism + Leftist Liberalism, made the west of today.

[Klara-Hitler]

economics*

[Anon1997]

I don't know of I should, but I just really wanted to say that feminism isn't wrong, but a very misunderstood concept. You kind of mentioneed that but I just felt like there was hate on the concept. Feminism is Female=Male Not Female >Male Pretty sure you guys understand that but I just had to say it.

[0112358]

@Anon1997 I think ms KH knows exactly what she's saying, and has actually read the foundational books on feminism that underlie it. Feminism is certainly not the same as 'women = men'.

[Asker]

@0112358 exactly man. the brainwash is strong with that kid. feminism could easily be called anti-feminism cause it actually hates women to their bones' marrow... .

[Anon1997]

@0112358 I wasn't contradicting or anything. I agree to her. I had something to say. I said it. Problem? Too bad. I wasn't even telling her that. by the way no one Brain washed me. I'm a kid, you're right with that. @Asker

[Anonymous]

Yes. There are exceptions. And no not every young woman is a whore. I'd say, first off you might probably have this idea because so many of us wear clothes that are too revealing and go to parties and bars and all that stuff. The truth is going to the church doesn't make you pure, and going to a bar doesn't make you a slut. So if you're going by stereotypes please take that out of your mind. And in general it's true yes, way too many girls cross limits to their age. I would like to add the point that a lot of us are pressurised into acting in certain ways due to peer pressure and for seeking conformity. Also a lot of times innocent girls are labelled as a slut a lot and they end up actually being one because that's hat society thought and they give into it. It's a sad state.

[Asker]

first rational female comment here. i cogratulate you. you are right. but no, i'm not judging from the appearence. if you see the stuff teen girls upload on facebook etc you'll see that the issue is huge.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol thank you. I know what you're talking about. I have people like that in my class. And honestly I know why they do what they do and even though I know they are wrong they are to an extent emotionally less stable to realise that they are only proving society right. And it's very silly because first they'll upload pictures of their ass like it's no one's business and then they ask why do they never find nice guys and always end up with douche bags.

[Polswedgirl]

I don't really think it's about sex. I think it has to do with media's influence on younger girls who are vulnerble while growing up, a lot of them already feel insecure about themselves, and since sex is huge in today's society, mostly because of the internet, celebrities and so on, it just teaches young women that sex gets attention. And attention is what they're craving while growing up and having a low self esteem.

And that's what makes sexualization big in my opinion. Besides, the world evolves. You can't exactly hide porn & sex from your child, and the younger they are when they find out, the more they learn about it till they are in a real relationship. Sex is more and more acceptable and not so "forbidden" anymore. I can't put it in a better way sorry :P

[Asker]

at least you are capable of thinking. you can't imagine the comments that i've read here. you embarass much older women than yourself.

[Polswedgirl]

Thank you. Do you agree with me?

[Asker]

yes you are partly right. you are right but there is more to it, thats what i mean.

[JSmuve]

I think the hookup culture is being pushed more heavily onto both guys and girls and that you're somehow maladjusted if you value relationships more and don't seek to get with every person you can like this is some sort of fucked up game of Pokemon where you have to catch them all.

[AleDeEurope]

Actually, young people are having less sex than before, they lose their virginity later in life and they have less sexual partners, so I what you say is wrong.

[kaylaS91]

nope. More and more people leaving behind disgusting selfish and backwards beliefs that women are not much more than the property of men, serving the purpose of just letting them get their dick wet and making sure there's food on the table is more to blame.
At fault for women actually having a sexual life of their own.

[Asker]

classic incoherent feminist nonsense. poor woman you dont know that the dogma you embraced for liberation will be your enslavement and your supposed salvation will be your destruction of you and your gender in general.

[kaylaS91]

lol loving the irony. You realize what even gives some women the chance to be 'whores', yeah? Men like yourself who walk around thinking with their dick, and will stop at nothing for a place to get some pussy. Take two to tango.

[ArtDent]

It only takes a small subset of men to service the bulk of promiscuous females.

[kaylaS91]

@ArtDent... doesn't leave the men's dignity any less in tact than the women's. But that's okay, I realize some men are not able to make something of themselves in terms of getting an education/good career so they start viewing their self-value as a product of how much pussy they can get.

[ArtDent]

I'm just saying you're 'it takes two' justification falls flat. It's not a 1:1 ratio. 10 players can make sluts out of 100 women. As an example.

[kaylaS91]

@ArtDent yeah maybe. If you view a female being a 'slut' because she's slept with <1 guy and a man as a hero because he fucked 10 women.

[ArtDent]

Therefore, you are disparaging the remaining men for the behaviour of the minority. Promiscuous women, however, are the majority

[ArtDent]

It's not my business how many women a man screws, I don't date men.

[kaylaS91]

@ArtDent I never made the 'it takes two' comparison thinking of the man as bedding 10+ women. I don't hang around with that sort of crowd so that assumption was made by yourself.

[ArtDent]

" OwnerAge: 23 21minReport lol loving the irony. You realize what even gives some women the chance to be 'whores', yeah? Men like yourself who walk around thinking with their dick, and will stop at nothing for a place to get some pussy. Take two to tango."

[ThisAndThat]

Feminist are those certain rejects that wealthy men never want and the prize of failed relationships. And then because men never wanted them their aim to get even with all men.

[kaylaS91]

@ArtDent I still fail to see where I said that men who are thirsty af and stop at nothing to get some pussy will go so far as to fuck 10+ women? You can stop trying to put words in my mouth in desperate attempts to bring grounds to your argument that you've now realized has no basis other than your own bitter attitude.

[ArtDent]

Oh, I have a solid basis for my preference. There is no value to a man in commiting to a promiscuous woman, she isn't a prize. You don't see men asking 'how do I get this slut to commit?' Do you? You often will see 'how do I get this player to commit?' I rest my case. :)

[kaylaS91]

@ArtDent The only context in which I've heard 'how do I get this man to commit' is when a girl, not necessarily one who is promiscuous, wants to get him into a relationship. To start one with a guy who's made his intentions seem otherwise clear after going around the block and back. &you're right, men generally don't want a 'slut' to commit. Thank-god for slut-shaming being so goddamn sexist, as you've demonstrated brilliantly. :)

[ArtDent]

Oh please, we are ALL entitled to avoid giving our hearts to people who we think won't be good for us based on whatever metric we want to use to judge it. That's what we are talking about here.

[kaylaS91]

@ArtDent yeah sure. I wouldn't be with a guy who had slept with 10-15 girls in his 23 or whatever years of life but I'm not going to blatantly bitch about how he's such a 'manwhore' or whatever male equivalent of slut that doesn't seem to exist. I'll reserve the right to judge him according to my own standards and keep it private.

[ArtDent]

Who's blatently bitching? This is a website that caters to discussing issues one might not otherwise openly discuss. It's also a website which exists for the purpose of one gender getting insight to where the other gender is coming from.

[kaylaS91]

@ArtDent I wouldn't call asking a question like if all girls have become sluts as a genuine inquiry from someone 'getting insight' into how girls work.

[ArtDent]

I wouldn't describe your approach as being open to how men see things either. So?

[kaylaS91]

@ArtDent what?

[ArtDent]

You said "@ArtDent I wouldn't call asking a question like if all girls have become sluts as a genuine inquiry from someone 'getting insight' into how girls work." Why are you having difficulty following the conversation? You literally JUST said that.

[kaylaS91]

@ArtDent What sort of insight would someone asking this question be looking for? He already knows what the answer from his perspective is. It's not like there are any statistics or universal guidelines on what makes a woman a slut and how to estimate if the amount of that has grown. It was more like a bitter shot at women for having the ability to have sex, enjoy it and no longer being under the control of males in all cases.

[ArtDent]

That's irrelevant. He opened a conversation and now we are having one. And my observation of you stands. You approach this site as if it's men's job to adjust their worldview to match yours. It's clear in every exchange I've seen you make. I have not once seen you learn (and accept) something from the male perspective.

[ArtDent]

Again, few men will say "how do I get this slut to commit?" So where is the bitterness?

[kaylaS91]

@ArtDent haahah are you serious? I'd never want a man to adjust his views to match mine. If I met someone who's views didn't ever match mine, I simply wouldn't waste my time on him.

[ArtDent]

"haahah are you serious? I'd never want a man to adjust his views to match mine. If I met someone who's views didn't ever match mine, I simply wouldn't waste my time on him. " Which is what men are saying about sluts.

[kaylaS91]

@ArtDent ok then. I simply don't feel the need to pass judgement AND shame said individuals, so men who's views don't align with my own, online or to any other people.

[ArtDent]

Nobody here is advocating shaming ANYBODY. In fact, when this topic comes up, it's typical the man who speaks in the abstract and general and the woman who attempts to shame the man for having an opinion.

[GirlsLie]

@ArtDent Women get sex easier, it's bound to happen that they have sex more or the option to. If men had the option to have sex more, there would be just as many slutty men as there are women. The moral issue is still there regardless of the outcome.

[kaylaS91]

@ArtDent because men never get shamed for anything, so it would make sense that you'd never hear them speaking up in their defense. In any case, I don't even get what you're looking to prove. That I'm against men because 'all my posts show I can't accepts things from a man's perspective'? If I feel like they're unfair or have not so valid grounds, I'll voice my opinion. Sorry if that makes you feel uncomfortable.

[kaylaS91]

@GirlsLie touche.

[ArtDent]

How am I uncomfortable? I'm calling you out on your bullshit. You are free to shame promiscuous men. You instead choose to shame men you BELIEVE to have difficulty getting laid. Which once again MAKES MY POINT. Women LIKE promiscuous men. Men don't, well not for long term pair bonding.

[ArtDent]

@GirlsLie "@ArtDent Women get sex easier, it's bound to happen that they have sex more or the option to. If men had the option to have sex more, there would be just as many slutty men as there are women. The moral issue is still there regardless of the outcome." Yes, that's what I've been saying re-'accomplishment' @CheerGirl38139

[kaylaS91]

@ArtDent llol oh my fuck. You're clearly illiterate if you're saying I'm 'free to shame promiscuous men' despite what I've been saying in countless messages on this opinion. Your 'point' or more like delusion is invalid in saying that women don't care if a guy has fucked all of her friends/family and is probably an ecosystem in itself for STI's.

[ArtDent]

Actually, you're the one who has difficulty with logic. You want to shame men who say "are too many women too slutty?" What's up with that?

[kaylaS91]

@ArtDent where on earth did you see me shaming men? I disapprove of shaming anyone for their sexual life which is none of my business.

[ArtDent]

How is a man not wanting to pair bond with a slut "not on valid grounds" in your words?

[kaylaS91]

@ArtDent... what? A man can bond with whoever the fuck he wants. Please stop pulling these accusations out of your ass.

[ArtDent]

Actually, you accusing people who are discussing things in the abstract and anonymously on a website as engaging in "slut shaming" is from out your ass. :)

[kaylaS91]

@ArtDent... the op referring to almost all women as sluts and asking others if they'd put up with such behavior or make exceptions IS slut-shaming. But I wouldn't expect a simple-minded creature like yourself to wrap your mind around that. Run along now!

[ArtDent]

Nonsense. You can choose to view yourself the way that the asker posed the question or not. But slutshaming, by its nature is PERSONAL. not anonymous on the internet.

[CheerGirl38139]

see.. I read "women are the gate keepers of sex" as him saying that ALL men (in his opinion) are the ones that are actually "sluts" as they will have sex with any woman that will "allow them through the gate"(paraphrasing HIS words)... all the while, shouting "women are sluts".

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[BuchitaBuchys]

This is the only time I've seen you get so many male downvotes! :o

[kaylaS91]

@BuchitaBuchys haahah yeah... idunno I usually try to stay away from such sensitive topics that I know some are very touchy about but hey; trying to avoid being overly picky&choosy. :P

[Cmasterson]

I just think the media and society have accepted that not all girls are going to have one sexual partner for life, and they aren't a slut if they choose not to. It's not abad thing to be a virgin or a low count nor is having a high count, as long as you aren't hurting anyone I don't see why its anyones business what other people do with their bodies.

[DivaMonae]

Well I guess considering you said almost and not all. I'm a virgin and I'm not embarrassed to be I actually take pride in it considering there are so many teens that aren't.

How do I manage to achieve it? Self respect, fear, as well as trying to prove myself because people assume that I'm the exact opposite.

[vishna]

I asked a question on promiscuity, and most women were at their countries levels or significantly lower.
The flashiest things are seen the most, but that doesn't mean they are the majority.
And a lot of guys are burned (women as well) because they go after a certain type of person that they think is hot but exudes, "I don't want a serious relationship"
-a definite feminist, whoa crap, just found out I'm a marxist too!
:P

[GirlsLie]

People have more options now and i'm fine with that, even if those options aren't something that I take part in. You should be ok with options, it's ok for the people around you to not think like you do, that's a part of life, get over it.

I've felt pressured plenty of times by other people to have sex already but I do what I want and always will and when I really love someone i'll make that decision.

[Felinegirl]

Id probably be labelled a slut by you but I do not feel like one. I prefer thinking of it as a free person who explores their sexuality, habits and comfort zone. Think of it as adventurous. Also, in my opinion the term slut should either be unisex or be replaced by a unisex one.
My sexual choices are mine. I am not out of control, I am a healthy young person and I am not 'easy'. And I have a lot of fun. What do you find immoral about it?

[SuklaaTryffeli]

Nope. I'm 20 and still a virgin. And if we were the last humans on earth, I'd kill myself and let us go extinct.

[Asker]

well there are anorgasmic women as well. i totally comprehend when you are coming from... .

[SuklaaTryffeli]

I bet you have met several. Or maybe you are so bad you coulfn't make anyone orgasm. Man it feels good. Sadly you can't please anyone

[ArtDent]

Personal insults do not strengthen your position.

[Asker]

@ArtDent shushh she hasn't had a real argument before. you might hurt her with reason. @SuklaaTryffeli it's ok i'm a botanist, we'll find some chinese herbs to fix you... .

[SuklaaTryffeli]

My position? Tell me what my position. by the way, you insulting me is not strenghtening your position, whatever that it. And please stop eating herbs. They make you say some funny stuff.

[CheerGirl38139]

here we go again... how is it there's no male equivalent for "slut"? How bout we just choose to not label people with ugly slurs eh?

And don't bother to say something lame like "man whore"... that adds a qualifier. In other words, only women can be simply "a whore" without a qualifying prefix.

[Asker]

manslut. happy now?

[Kris85]

Right? It's always the same song and dance with this 25-29 year old anon. Whining and crying about "feminism"

[ArtDent]

Because women are the gatekeepers of sex. This question has been answered a million times. It's not an accomplishment, at all, for a woman to have sex.

[CheerGirl38139]

nope. making it two syllables doesn't fix it now does it? because there's no such term as #girlslut or #womanslut now is there? Double standard much? It's not feminism bro... it's just humanism.

[CheerGirl38139]

@ArtDent so it's "an accomplishment" for a male to have sex?

[ArtDent]

A man has to do more than say 'yes'

[CheerGirl38139]

@ArtDent I don't believe that's always the case man. And I think anyone (male or female) that thinks of having sex as "an accomplishment" should really take a look at the goals in life. :)

[ArtDent]

You are being intentionally obtuse.

[karahiri]

I think people have always been whorish. It's just something we can talk about more openly now. I'd rather know... than not know.

[Kris85]

The people that bitch and complain about women being "sluts" are the men that are bitter and jealous because they can't get any themselves.

Find a new topic to bore us with.

[ArtDent]

I've spent more time in relationships than out of them since reaching adulthood, still don't value sluts. Next?

[Asker]

the dumb duckface and the posture are all we need to know about the intelligence of this comment's op. your words were merely the seal of assurance. no mrs slutbags whining about your kind doesn't mean we can get any.

[Kris85]

Actually yes it does hahahahahaha. Poor sap. Trying to insult me. Nice try though 😉

[Asker]

you insult yourself and your gender pretty well all by yourself. i'm not needed for that.

[Kris85]

Thanks for the laugh ☺️👌💁

[Asker]

instead of being a dumbass you could try reading some books for a change like the mho girl. they dont hurt.

[Kris85]

I read books. Not about silly stuff like this though. It bores the bejesus out of me 😴

[Asker]

yeah only about the 50 shades of gay and the new nail trends... . totally... non boring stuff... .

[maria96]

Nope. Nope.
But us women are less opressed when it comes to exploring our sexuality than we were on the last decades 🙃

[Karushirin]

not me i haven't evenn haad a boyfriend and im 25 and still a virgin XD
it sickens me how the youth who have haa sex embrass other girls like myself
by saying shit like guys dont want to date a virgin they rather have hot with me
people who are sluts have no worth to them they ruin guys especially the sluts that treat thier bfs like shit..

[abundantlyrich]

The media brings in these concepts because they have the power to influence the masses in conjunction with other several things they want to disintegrate causing more problems becoming emotional, physical, mental and finally financial.

[BraidsGirl]

I don't know have they?

How would you define a 'slut'?

[ArtDent]

Prefers casual sex to sex in a relationship, as judged by their behavior.

[CheerGirl38139]

@ArtDent so why aren't most men "sluts" then? Since that seems to be a common male trait (not all men of course).

[ArtDent]

@CheerGirl38139 because women are attracted to men who are sexually successful with other women. You're just pissed that men don't feel the same way about women, because there is no such thing as a sexually successful woman, there is no skill involved for women to get someone to have sex with them.

[CheerGirl38139]

@ArtDent LOL man. I'm not pissed about anything period. See my comment above. I think I've said enough. I'm not gonna fight with you bro.

[BraidsGirl]

@ArtDent Well no they haven't all become sluts and if you knew more women and got to know them you could find that out yourself and you would feel so biased :) Also why not reverse the question to ask if all men have become sluts except everyone already knows the answer to that...

[ArtDent]

I'll say this once more. You don't see men asking the question "How do I get this slut to commit?" You do see women asking the question"How do I get this player to commit?" And that's the double standard. Women WANT slutty men. And because they WANT slutty men, they assume we should want slutty women. Because women think they way they see the world is the 'correct' way. I'm afraid you both, being female, will just never get it. Mainly because females lack the ability to ever admit that they are wrong.

[CheerGirl38139]

Hahaha said the guy that considers the act of having sex "an accomplishment". OK, yeah. And what does admitting being wrong have to do with gender? I've debated on here with some many males that can never even seem to open their minds, much less admit they could have been wrong. I think it's more of a personality trait than a gender issue. Either you're the type of person who always thinks their opinion is the only correct one, or you're not. Peace :)

[ArtDent]

@CheerGirl38139 Only a woman wouldn't understand how sex is an "accomplishment". That's EXACTLY my point. Thanks for making it :D

[CheerGirl38139]

@ArtDent Carry on bro. Good luck with your accomplishments.

[BraidsGirl]

@CheerGirl38139 Don't bother with this guy, his mind is already made up he's just looking to provoke people

[ArtDent]

Nothing 'provocative' about my position.

[BraidsGirl]

@ArtDent kk

[Bandit74]

Depends on how you define slut.

I do think most girls have had between 1 and 5 one night stands/fuckbuddies.

[ArtDent]

Multiply that by at least ten bro

[Bandit74]

@ArtDent I thought according to statistic the average niber of sexual partner is around 8.

[AleDeEurope]

It's less, the average for women is 4, and for men is 7.

[Bandit74]

@AleDeEurope Possibly but mathematically the averages should be equal.

[ArtDent]

Those are self reported surveys. All you have to do is keep a mental tally of the women you know and you'll see how ridiculous that tally is.

[Bandit74]

@artdent Fair point. I do think the reality is higher than the self reported surveys but I don't think the norm is quite as high as you say.

[ArtDent]

It's possible I only notice women I find appealing, which would skew the average. Sure.

[Bandit74]

@artdent

Supposedly the more attractive women have LESS casual sex.

www.hookingupsmart.com/.../

Also it could be were you live or the crowds you hang with. If you normally surround yourself with girls who go clubbing all the time then that would probably skew the numbers a bit.

[ArtDent]

Ahh, I am not into conventionally "hot" women (way too plastic, imo), I'm talking about regular women 6-8 if you will.

[Bandit74]

@artdent oh, that makes more sense

[banana5]

im no slut im a virgin and kiss only guys im dating

[Katy16]

I haven't and I know a lot of girls who aren't

[lilyCaptor]

I think that everyone thinks it's cool but are kinda scared to really do it so they just say that they have but really haven't. It's how i keep faith in humanity

[AleDeEurope]

I agree, many of those who say they've slept around with 10 guys/girls (for example), probably haven't slept with anyone or just 1-2, they just think the shit's cool

[TheHooptyMiata]

Well, in my experience, a lot of women are up for one-night stands, so maybe.

[TheBraveLion]

Sorry to hear you feel like that dude, seems like someone is but hurt. Cheer up lad ;)

[ChicagoCyclist]

Nah. It's just this generation is more about hookups rather than actual relationships.

[Asker]

thats messed up on its own. and the fact you see it that lightly is an indication of how huge the issue really is

[Likes2drive]

Not that I know, most are worried about diseases

[blondfrog]

Sluts have sex for money so not I'd say most are prostitutes.

[Asker]

money, power, status, social proof, self validation it all boils down to narcissism.

[blondfrog]

I mean don't have sex for money prostitutes do

[ArtDent]

The answer is yes.

[Entruder]

No, there are plenty of civilized girls out there.

[ArtDent]

Not plenty for everybody, no.

[Zombie-Killa]

Yeah they got stanky, loose P-flaps before they can legally vote... And carrying more STDs then the CDC!
Of course there are exceptions, there alwways is lol

[Kris85]

Really? You should know better.

[Zombie-Killa]

@Kris85 I do know better, just dont really take these kinds of questions that seriously.

[dev765]

It's all about hook up culture atm.

[Noxifer626]

Troll harder.

[Anonymous]

I have never wanted to sleep around and somehow I don't see many guys wanting to spend more time with me after the first date when I refuse to go to their place for the second date... So I guess if you wanna live life to the fullest you need to be morally loose...

[Asker]

thats living life to the lowest and dumbest

[Anonymous]

Slut: "a woman with the morals of a man" (urbandictionary. com)

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't say so, I think it's natural for women to have sexual desires and to give in to temptation the same way guys do. Women are a lot more openly sexualized today than they were thirty or forty years ago.

Put yourself in a woman's shoes, if you are semi-attractive and have guys hitting on you all the time and you're not in a relationship why wouldn't you turn it down unless you don't believe in casual sex?

Women nowadays are much too sexualized for my liking but then so are men, so men really aren't in a position to start throwing stones here. I'm not a sexualized person, I don't have casual sex and so I don't want a partner who has had casual sex or who has jumped from relationship to relationship and has racked up partners. However I don't believe that women are sluts just most are not compatible with me and that's totally fine.

[Asker]

no no. thats only the surface. they are deliberately being so sexualised, and a huge part of that is a vanity chimera chase that htey themselves commit

[Opinion Owner]

I don't one way or the other and frankly I'm not really considered with what anyone else is doing with their lives, I am only concerned about my life. If a lot of women want to have a high number of partners then that's on them I just don't want them thinking I'd be interested in them if any of them developed an interest in me.

[Melirain]

Hey look, a sensible opinion. I'm not into casual sex either, but it gets so tiring seeing guys who malign girls for having sex whenever they want (especially when a lot of guys do the same thing). And it's just as tiring seeing girls act morally superior to fellow girls just based on their number of partners. Couldn't we all just acknowledge people have a variety of approaches to sex, without being dicks about it? Yeesh. Thanks for not being a dick, dude.

[Asker]

@Melirain the its none of our business what others do is an invalid way of thinking. all these phenomena have impacts on society as a whole. and sluttiiness doesn't come alone. it breeds also other ailmentts of the soul and perpetuates and magnifies the gap of trust between the genders

[Opinion Owner]

@Melirain Thanks but I just hope the women who have a different attitude to me about sex will accept that I won't want to date them then I am cool. I could be friends with women like that but I couldn't be in a relationship with women that have had a lot of partners.

[Anonymous]

No. There are some that have morals and values still, or are just not wanting to sleep around. There is more increased promiscuity but not every woman acts promiscuous. I do not sleep around, do one night stands or have hook ups. I don't even kiss random guys. I just be myself, and don't let what others do effect my life.

[Asker]

thats because you are normal. but guess what, your normal is considered by modern society abnormal and is judged and persecuted.

[Opinion Owner]

That's okay with me. I do not let their judgement ruin my good day, and I do not bother them.

[Anonymous]

no there aren't but it seems to be what most guy prefer anyways tbh

[Asker]

guys are even worse of a problem. i firmly believe men drag women along in virtue or destruction.

[Opinion Owner]

same here and really? the feminism card? i feel like were closer and closer to the day where we will see questions like "i have a cold, man feminism ruined my life!"

[Asker]

my research points to the fact that feminism was pure in its intentions only in the minds of the gullible masses. it INDEED played a slow and strategically planned destructive role.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I know the password of a female friend so I occasionally have a look at their group chat, I wouldn't sleep with any of them because they're all loose and disgusting.